Ever had a friendship so strong that you just assume you’ll be a part of their big day? Well, this guy’s story is a rollercoaster of emotions and confusion! Our protagonist (32M) has been best friends with Alex (32M) since they were in diapers. When Alex starts dating Stella (35F), she seems to politely dislike our hero, but life goes on. Fast forward to Alex and Stella’s wedding planning, and our guy assumes he’ll be in the wedding party… but things take a turn for the worse. Get ready for a wild ride of miscommunication, drama, and suspense!
Longtime Friendship
The Girlfriend Enters ♀️
Cross-Country Move ️
Wedding Bells
Where’s My Invite?
Checking In
Radio Silence
The Unexpected Call
The Truth Comes Out
Pregnant Pause
Girlfriend’s Support
Edit 1: Video Chat Clarification
Edit 2: Girlfriend’s Fun
Wedding Drama Unfolds!
So, our protagonist never receives his wedding invitation, even though he saw them being sent out on social media. ♂️ He checks in with Alex, who seems agitated and directs him to Stella for any wedding-related questions. But Stella never responds to his calls, texts, or emails! Just when he thinks he won’t be attending the wedding, Alex reaches out and asks if he can attend as a guest. Our guy spills the beans about not receiving an invite and Stella leaving him on read. Alex is shocked, and now the wedding might be off! Our protagonist’s girlfriend supports him, but others accuse him of causing a stink. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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