Weddings are supposed to be a celebration of love, but sometimes they can turn into a hotbed of drama. Our protagonist, a groomsman at his college buddy Tom’s wedding, was ‘assigned’ to a bridesmaid named Kelly. He soon realized that they were paired together simply because they were both black. However, things took a turn for the worse when he decided to dance with another bridesmaid, Jen, instead of Kelly.
Assigned Bridesmaid Kelly
Paired for the Wrong Reasons
Kelly’s Intentions Revealed
Interrogation Time
A Stand-Up Guy?
Enter Jen, the Unmatched Bridesmaid
Wedding Ceremony & Reception
Dancing with Jen
Confrontation at the Bar
Accusations of a ‘Fetish’
Time to Leave ♂️
Kicked Out of the Wedding Party Chat
Kelly’s Emotional Breakdown
Tom’s Take on the Situation ️
Feeling Terrible
A Dance That Ruined the Night
Our protagonist’s decision to dance with another bridesmaid, Jen, instead of his ‘assigned’ bridesmaid, Kelly, sparked a confrontation at the wedding reception. Accused of having a ‘fetish’ for white women and making the bride, Liz, uncomfortable, he decided to leave the party early. Soon after, both he and Jen were kicked out of the wedding party chat. Later, he learned that Kelly had an emotional breakdown, which ruined the night for Liz. Despite feeling terrible about the situation, he couldn’t help but wish that Kelly understood that no means no. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic wedding story…
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