Losing a loved one is never easy, and it’s even harder when their memory becomes a source of conflict. A 20-year-old woman recently lost her best friend, James, in a tragic accident. To help her cope with the loss, her brother gifted her a build-a-bear with voice recordings of James, which quickly became her most cherished possession. However, when James’s girlfriend, Kayla, saw the bear, she demanded to have it, sparking a heartbreaking and emotional standoff.
The Tragic Loss
A Special Gift
An Emotional Connection
Kayla’s Request
A Heartfelt Refusal
Kayla’s Anguish
Social Media Drama
Family’s Support
Edit 1: Kayla’s Struggle
Edit 2: The Bear’s Cost
Edit 3: Kayla’s Friends Chime In ️
Edit 4: A Resolution? ️
A Heartbreaking Dilemma
In the midst of her own grief, the woman found herself in a heart-wrenching situation with her late friend’s girlfriend, Kayla. As the two battled over the precious teddy bear, emotions ran high, and the situation escalated to social media. With friends and family weighing in, the woman stood her ground, refusing to give up the bear that meant so much to her. As the dust settled, it seems that a resolution may have been reached, but the emotional scars remain. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heartrending situation…
NTA for not giving up bear with deceased friend’s voice. Kayla can make her own or her friends can pay for it. Back up the voice files before the Build-A-Bear voice boxes don’t last. Kayla’s grief doesn’t trump OP’s. Shut down all conversation with ‘My brother made this as a gift for me. I’m sorry for your loss.’
Grieving woman refuses to give up bear with friend’s voice to girlfriend
NTA. Kayla is disrespecting your friendship with James. Don’t give in.
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Hold onto the bear, it’s your memento of your friend ❤️
NTA. Kayla should not harass you for the bear.
NTA. Girlfriend wants control and free stuff, not memories.
Supportive commenters empathize with OP’s loss and call out entitled ‘friends’
Woman refuses to give up bear with deceased friend’s voice
No bear for girlfriend, entitlement doesn’t work ♀️
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Grieving woman stands her ground against entitled girlfriend
NTA. Keep the bear, those are your memories with him.
NTA. Empathetic comment receives agreement.
Grieving woman stands her ground against deceased friend’s girlfriend.
Grieving woman holds onto bear with friend’s voice, not the a**hole.
Keep the bear! It’s a gift from your brother ❤️
Girlfriend wants deceased friend’s bear, commenter asks why not make own
Grieving woman keeps bear with deceased friend’s voice, NTA.
Heartwarming comment about thoughtful gift-giver brother ❤️
Keep the bear, it’s a beautiful gift from your brother ❤️
Platonic relationships are just as valid and can be just as strong
Heartfelt exchange between two grieving individuals with different perspectives ❤️
Keep the bear, it’s a reminder of your best friend
Sibling’s kind gesture sparks girlfriend’s tantrum over sentimental bear. NTA.
Keep the bear. It’s a special gift from your friend.
Grief can make people do strange things. NTA for keeping bear.
Girlfriend wants bear with deceased friend’s voice, but NTA refuses.
Creative solution suggested for sharing deceased friend’s voice.
College student refuses to gift expensive bear to deceased friend’s girlfriend
Suggests a classy way to keep friend’s memory alive for both
Bear with deceased friend’s voice is hers, not girlfriend’s entitlement.
Suggests a solution for grief-stricken woman’s bear tantrum.
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Grieving woman keeps bear with deceased friend’s voice. Commenter suggests acknowledging James’ girlfriend’s importance with photos and messages ❤️
Keep the bear, it’s your sentimental gift. NTA. ❤️
NTA stands up for deceased friend’s memory against unsympathetic girlfriend.
OP is NTA for not giving up her deceased friend’s bear.
NTA, internet agrees – keep the bear and the voice
Grieving woman holds onto bear with friend’s voice, NTA explained.
Girlfriend sus for wanting deceased friend’s teddy bear with voice
NTA. Keep the bear with your friend’s voice. Kayla can s**k eggs
NTA. The bear was a gift from YOUR BROTHER to YOU
Cherish the memories and the gift. NTA.
Keeping a sentimental gift from a deceased friend’s girlfriend. NTA
Keep the bear, honor your friend’s memory. NTA
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Woman refuses to give up bear with deceased friend’s voice
Grieving woman refuses to give up teddy bear with deceased friend’s voice. NTA!
NTA commenter questions girlfriend’s motive for wanting recordings.
Friendship over romance, keep the bear and your memories
Black Mirror vibes! Commenter defends woman’s right to keep bear.
Grieving woman’s unreasonable demands for deceased friend’s bear. NTA.
Woman refuses to give up bear with deceased friend’s voice. NTA.
Offered videos to make same bear, NTA for not giving up.
Don’t give up the bear, it’s a gift from your brother
NTA. Grieving woman’s friend’s girlfriend harasses her for property. AH behaviour.
Keep the bear! You don’t owe her anything. #NTA
Woman refuses to give up bear with deceased friend’s voice. NTA.
Commenter suggests alternatives to bear situation, declares NTA.
Hold on to the love and memories, don’t engage in pain.
Respectful response to grief sparks conflict.
Compassionate advice for dealing with grief and emotional turmoil
Heartwarming offer to replace deceased friend’s teddy bear
Keep the bear! Your memories with your best friend matter ❤️
Last Updated on June 10, 2023 by Diply Social Team
