Grandma Accused of Favoritism Over College Fund for Adopted Granddaughter

Family drama can be intense, especially when it comes to money and fairness. In this story, a mother (L) faces a challenging situation when her daughter she gave up for adoption (S) comes back into her life. S is adopted by her grandparents, who create a college fund for her, sparking outrage from L. Is this a case of favoritism or just a family trying to do what’s best for everyone involved? Let’s dive into the story and find out.

Daughter’s Tough Decision

Adopted Granddaughter Returns

Grandparents to the Rescue!

Treating S Like a Daughter ❤️

College Fund Drama Erupts!

Mom’s Accusations of Favoritism

Fear of Resentment

Support System for S

Edit: More Background Info

Favoritism or Just Fair?

This family drama has everyone questioning if the grandparents are showing favoritism towards their adopted granddaughter, S, or if they’re simply trying to provide her with the support she needs. L, the mother of S and her other children, accuses her parents of treating her kids unfairly by providing S with a college fund, while her other kids don’t receive the same treatment. However, the grandparents argue that they’re only trying to give S the support she needs, as she has no one else to rely on. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA for favoring adopted daughter’s college fund over entitled daughter’s

Support for grandma’s decision to help adopted daughter, concerns for granddaughter L.

Commenter empathizes with L’s potential need for therapy

Grandma praised for adopting granddaughter and supporting both daughters’ college funds

How did S find her grandparents? Real or fake story?

Adopted granddaughter’s college fund causes family drama

Helping adopted granddaughter isn’t discrimination, it’s equity!

Commenter is skeptical of the story, raises valid questions

NTA but OP should recognize the discomfort and try family therapy

Discussion on high cost of US universities sparks shock and confusion

Adopted granddaughter’s college fund causes tension. NAH, but complicated.

Commenter advises grandma to stop discussing money with L

Adoptive grandmother praised for supporting both granddaughters

Commenter questions why grandparents didn’t adopt from the start. Replies provide possible reasons and defend grandmother’s actions.

Commenter and replies call out fake story, YTA.

Generosity questioned, guilt blamed. NTA for helping in need.

Commenter questions legitimacy of adoption story

Accusation of fake post sparks no reply discussion

NTA for taking care of both daughters equally

NTA grandma’s favoritism causes emotional turmoil for adopted granddaughter.

Adopted granddaughter’s college fund causes family drama. NTA wins.

Adopted granddaughter vs biological granddaughter causes family conflict

Adopted granddaughter is daughter, NTA. Potential issue with favoritism.

Curious about how the granddaughter found out she was adopted

Fairness in family finances – NTA prioritizing need over equality

Adopted granddaughter not her responsibility. NTA

Curious about the family dynamics and therapy recommendations

Adopted granddaughter receives equal treatment, NTA wins approval

Sarcastic comment receives no replies, Reddit at its finest

Grandma praised for adopting granddaughter, advised to talk to daughter-in-law.

Doubts arise over identity of adopted granddaughter.

Commenter suggests daughter needs therapy, NTA. Replies discuss possible guilt and trauma.

NTA for providing for adopted granddaughter. Family therapy could help.

Skeptical commenter calls out fake story with eye-roll emoji.

Grandma’s decision to adopt granddaughter praised after foster abuse. NTA

Grandma receives support for standing up to daughter’s interference.

Adopted daughter, not granddaughter? NTA wins in this case

NTA commenter defends OP’s decision to not give college fund to adopted granddaughter

NTA praised for kindness towards adopted granddaughter ❤

NTA commenter defends grandma and adopted granddaughter against heartless daughter.

Adopted granddaughter not daughter, NTA for treating them equally

Adopted granddaughter is now her daughter, NTA for favoring her

Heartwarming comment section full of love and appreciation

Conflicting information on other children’s college funds sparks confusion

Grandma upset over adopted granddaughter’s college fund. NTA wins

Fairness goes both ways in family dynamics ‍