Meet our young couple: a 21-year-old guy and his 22-year-old girlfriend, together for a whopping 10 years! She’s always been into coloring her hair, experimenting with red, blue, purple, and blonde highlights. However, she’s never dyed her whole head. Recently, she decided to go for a bold half-black, half-bright-green look. But her boyfriend isn’t a fan of this style and thinks it would distract from her natural beauty. She knew his opinion, but booked the appointment anyway. When he expressed his feelings, she canceled the appointment, leaving her feeling defeated. Was he wrong to discourage her? ♀️
Colorful Hair Obsession

Boyfriend’s Opinion

The Bold New Look

Natural Beauty vs. Bold Hair

Surprise Appointment

Friends’ Support

Honesty Hurts

Deflated Dreams

Long-lasting Love

Realizations and Redemption

Surprise Rebooking

Surprise Ruined

Emotional Moment

A Promise to Let Her Shine ✨

PS: Dressing Up and Hair Dye ♂️

The Emotional Rollercoaster of Hair Dye
Our young couple’s story takes us on an emotional rollercoaster. The girlfriend’s dream of bold, half-black, half-green hair was met with her boyfriend’s disapproval, causing her to cancel the appointment. Realizing the weight of his words, he rebooks the appointment as a surprise, only for it to be canceled again due to an outbreak in their area. Despite the setbacks, this story ends with a heartfelt moment between the two, as he promises to let her shine and embrace her choices. ✨
Boyfriend criticized girlfriend’s hair, called out for controlling behavior

Controlling boyfriend disapproves of girlfriend’s hairstyle YTA

Let her hair be, YTA. Her opinion is all that matters

Don’t let your opinion of her appearance override her feelings. YTA

Don’t date someone with preferences you find unattractive. YTA.

Supportive spouse offers bald head to wife for comfort

Choosing honesty over her happiness makes you the a**hole. ♀️

Don’t surprise her with a hair appointment on the day, YTA

Commenter suggests OP values looks over personality, YTA verdict.

Supporting self-expression is important. YTA for not supporting her.

Why should a woman’s appearance be a concern for others?

Don’t mess with someone’s hair or you’ll end up alone

Let her hair be or be an AH. ♂️

Don’t dress up for hair dyeing day! Bring backup clothes

Jojo’s fans bond over girlfriend’s hair color inspiration

Accept her for who she is or find someone else

Commenter suggests OP is more concerned with hair than relationship.

Honesty is the best policy: NTA for disagreeing with girlfriend’s hair

Prioritizing your opinion over her happiness makes you YTA

NTA for expressing opinion on girlfriend’s hair

Don’t be an a**hole, support your loved ones. YTA.
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A refreshing take on respecting personal choices.

Redditors criticize guy for having honest negative opinion about girlfriend’s hair

Be a supportive partner, it’s just hair! Soft YTA

Honesty is key in relationships

Encourage her dream It’s important to her happiness.

Honesty is the best policy. NTAH.

Controlling partner gets called out for criticizing girlfriend’s hair

Commenter calls out age gap in relationship, YTA confirmed

NTA for expressing discomfort with girlfriend’s hair color choice. Relationships require some sacrifice of individuality.

Let her have fun and feel confident. Don’t be controlling

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and controlling

Commenter calls out OP for controlling girlfriend’s hair. YTA.

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for expressing feelings

Let her live her life, man! YTA

Age difference questioned, but OP clarifies they’re close in age

Honesty is the best policy , even with hair preferences.

Asserting personal opinions, Reddit’s not the boss here!

Honesty hurts, but NAH. Girlfriend’s dream hair turns nightmare

Healthy communication leads to lasting relationships ❤

Encourage creativity and avoid honesty to prevent hair nightmares.

Honesty is the best policy, NTA wins this round.

Commenter told off for criticizing girlfriend’s hair choice

Internet strangers change OP’s outlook in wholesome comment section ❤

Positive feedback on hair transformation. Love the growth ❤

Positive comment receives supportive response

Honesty is key, but so is making your partner happy

Personal preference vs controlling behavior in hair choices.

From YTA to growth, a positive update

Controlling partner ruins girlfriend’s joy over hairstyle.

Love your partner for who they are, not as an accessory ❤

The comment section is a wild ride

Helpful tip for salon visits: wear clothes you don’t mind staining

Partner’s hair shouldn’t carry this much weight in a relationship.

Redemption story! From YTA to NTA, happy ending

A heartwarming comment about love and second chances ♥

Redemption arc: OP learns to not be an a**hole

Redemption achieved! YTA learns and changes plans
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Honesty is key, but couples therapy could help further.

Partner’s happiness is key, NTA anymore

Partner criticized for controlling girlfriend’s hair choices

Commenter calls out relationship length, receives backstory explanation
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Redeeming response to OP taking judgement to heart

Last Updated on June 20, 2023 by Diply Social Team