We all know someone who’s a little bit extra when it comes to their diet, but what about someone who pretends to be something they’re not? Meet Michaela, a strict vegetarian who suddenly claimed to be a vegan after befriending a h******e vegan coworker named Sheila. Michaela even went as far as posting about her ‘vegan lifestyle’ on Facebook while still enjoying her cheese and milk. But when Easter dinner rolled around, her boyfriend couldn’t take it anymore and decided to call her out in front of Sheila. Let’s dive into this juicy story!
Michaela: The Vegetarian Turned ‘Vegan’

Enter Sheila: The H******e Vegan

The Vegan Facade Begins

Still Enjoying Dairy, Though

Easter Dinner: The Breaking Point

Sheila Joins the Party

The Truth Comes Out

Denial and Disappointment

Friendship on the Rocks

Brief Update: The Aftermath

Sheila’s Cold Shoulder

Faking Veganism: A Recipe for Disaster
So, what have we learned from this tale of faux veganism? Michaela, a dedicated vegetarian, decided to pretend to be a vegan to bond with her new coworker, Sheila. She even posted about her ‘vegan lifestyle’ on Facebook while still enjoying dairy products. But when her boyfriend couldn’t take the charade any longer, he called her out during Easter dinner, leaving Sheila feeling betrayed and Michaela upset. After apologizing, Michaela admitted she just wanted to be friends with Sheila, but it seems the damage has been done. Now let’s see what people have to say about this sticky situation…
NTA for calling out girlfriend’s lies, but relationship may suffer ♀️

GF lies about being vegan, insults host’s food. NTA wins.

Trust issues arise as girlfriend lies about being vegan

NTA commenter calls out both parties for bad behavior
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Calling out a hypocrite. NTA wins this Easter dinner
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Lying about being vegan? NTA, but insulting food is r**e.

ESH but GF’s actions were a red flag. Private discussion needed.

Betraying someone’s trust in their values makes you TA

Curious if there was a motive behind her lying about veganism

Veganism is an ethical decision, not a diet. Partner TA?

Being vegan doesn’t give anyone the right to insult your food

NTA for outing fake vegan girlfriend. Hypocrisy is disgusting.

ESH- Tough situation, but addressing it privately could have helped.
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Exposing a fake vegan led to a breakup and cheating suspicions.

Honesty is the best policy, even when it comes to veganism
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Red flag alert! The commenter advises to get out now. NTA.

Girlfriend lies about being vegan, gets called out. NTA suggests questioning her honesty.

Confronting her in private could have been a better option

NTA comment calls out militant vegans and girlfriend’s issues.

Being a ‘cool girl’ shouldn’t require lying about being vegan

Beware of dishonesty in relationships. NTA for calling out.

Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s about veganism

YTA gets called out for throwing girlfriend under the bus ♂️

Confronting privately is mature, but Sheila was still r**e

Veganism debate turns ugly as Michaela gets thrown under the bus

NTA, but communication is key to avoid future awkward situations.

Being a fake vegan is worse than being a real one?

Friend lies about being vegan to keep friendship. NTA judgment.

Don’t lie for anyone, but confronting privately would be healthier. NTA.

ESH but OP should have talked to GF in private first ♀️

NTA, but why is Michaela trying to impress Sheila?
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Building a friendship on a lie? NTA for outing her

NTA defends their food and clears up vegan misconception.

Curious Redditor asks if all vegans act superior.

NTA commenter supports calling out girlfriend’s lie at dinner.

Girlfriend lied about being vegan, NTA for not covering up.

Meat-eater defends non-vegan meal, avoids girlfriend’s drama

Lying about being vegan? ESH. Friend being insufferable? Also ESH.

NTA snaps at lying virtue signaller and snobby vegan.

Honesty is the best policy in relationships

Being vegan doesn’t mean being a j**k

Going vegan is not easy and requires effort and education. NTA.

Being honest about your food choices is the way to go

Girlfriend lies about being vegan, gets called out. NTA.

Confronting the lying girlfriend at Easter dinner with coworkers

Girlfriend lied about being vegan, NTA but deeper issues here.

Honesty is the best policy NTA

NTA saves Easter dinner from annoying non-stop vegan talk

Honesty is the best policy, even when it comes to veganism

NTA. Girlfriend lied about being vegan, friend disrespected your choices.

Being vegan doesn’t have to define your entire personality

Vegan commenter defends honesty and integrity over friendship

Warning signs of a dishonest partner.

Be true to yourself, even if it means losing friends.

NTA’s perspective on girlfriend lying about being vegan at Easter dinner.

Lying to make friends? Not cool. NTA for calling out.

Exposing a lying vegan girlfriend: NTA wins this game

Veganism debate: GF lies, vegan is snobby, NTA but ESH.

NTA calls out Sheila for being an a**hole and questions Michaela’s behavior.

ESH, but OP could have handled it better in private

NTA for calling out fake vegan, but public shaming not ideal.

Helping your GF find friends is better than pretending to be vegan.

Lying about being vegan – trust issues or harmless fib?

Honesty is the best policy, even in relationships.

Being a vegetarian/vegan is a bonding thing. NTA.

Michaela lied about being vegan, NTA for calling out Sheila.

Last Updated on February 17, 2024 by Diply Social Team