Picture this: you’re dating someone for 8 months, and they decide to take you on a surprise date to a fancy restaurant. Sounds romantic, right? Well, not quite. The only problem? You have a seafood allergy, and they’ve taken you to an Asian seafood restaurant! What would you do in this situation? Let’s dive into this story of love, seafood, and a touch of humiliation. ♀️
The Dating Situation

The Relationship Status ️❓

Feeling Distant ♂️

The Real Date Promise ️

Surprise, It’s a Seafood Restaurant!

The Allergy Issue

He Knew About the Allergy

No Seafood-Free Options

Asking the Waiter for Help ️

The Waiter’s Response

A Non-Seafood Dish ️

Grateful for the Rescue

The Boyfriend’s Reaction

The Boyfriend Issue ♂️

Fast Forward to Now ⏩

Friends’ Opinions ️

So, Who’s the Real Culprit Here?
In a whirlwind of emotions, our heroine found herself in a fancy seafood restaurant with her not-quite-boyfriend, despite her seafood allergy. ️ ♀️ She tried to make the best of the situation, but ultimately, he felt humiliated in front of the waiter and the kitchen staff. Fast forward to the present, and he’s still holding a grudge over the incident. Are her friends right, should she have been more careful with her words? Or is he just being overly sensitive? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this fishy situation…
OP’s ‘situationship’ is toxic and abusive. NTA for leaving.

Commenter calls out victim-blaming and defends abuse victims

NTA for girlfriend with seafood allergy, boyfriend is a prick ️

Commenter calls out OP’s boyfriend for mistreating her, offers witty comeback.

Commenter advises leaving toxic relationship, suspicions of cheating arise

Red flags in relationship, not-boyfriend is controlling NTA

Commenter praises restaurant staff, criticizes rude boyfriend in seafood allergy incident.

Why are so many young people in toxic relationships with older partners?

Commenter sympathizes with girlfriend, sarcastically comments on restaurant theme

Commenter warns of red flags and advises to plan ahead

Allergic girlfriend stands up for herself, questions relationship compatibility.

Insensitive boyfriend disregards girlfriend’s allergy and feelings. NTA.

Questioning the relationship and behavior, NTA

Girlfriend with seafood allergy not the a**hole for being upset.

Commenter questions relationship, reply makes light of situation.

Commenter advises moving on from possessive boyfriend.

Commenter advises girl to leave her boyfriend over seafood allergy

Age difference and seafood allergy may be red flags. NTA.
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Dump his crusty a** ASAP, says commenter.

Dump his a**. Disregarded health, controlling, and wants to ‘win’.

Commenter advises OP to dump ‘inconsiderate crybaby’ boyfriend
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Find someone who cares about your allergies and your happiness ❤️

Fiery comment warns girlfriend to leave boyfriend’s apartment owned by parents.

Confusion over why OP was labeled TA sparks discussion.

Commenter calls out fragile live-in ‘fuckbuddy’ for keeping score

Partner fails to remember allergy, NTA for calling him out

Calling out boyfriend’s mistake, but relationship may be rocky ♀️

Waiter and chef save the night, NTA for girlfriend.

Break up with the childish girlfriend. NTA

Commenter advises OP to reconsider relationship with inconsiderate boyfriend. NTA.

Allergic to love? NTA, but seriously, run.

Commenter defends OP and calls out boyfriend’s fragile ego
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Commenter supports the boyfriend and insults the girlfriend

Short and to the point.

Commenter questions living situation in relationship advice thread.

Time to label the relationship, but he’s TA for blowing up at an Uber Eats driver.

Handling relationship issues in private is important. NTA.

Commenter defends OP, calls out labeling of post as ‘asshole’

Relationship advice: consider moving on if he doesn’t respect you

Commenter sympathizes with the boyfriend’s situation and advises action.

Commenter shares personal experience and advises to leave toxic relationship
