We’ve all been there – hanging out with friends, having a good time, and someone poses a fun hypothetical question to the group. It’s all fun and games until someone’s answer takes a dark turn. That’s what happened to this 19-year-old girl when her boyfriend made a disturbing ‘joke’ that left her questioning their relationship.
A Fun Get-Together
The Hypothetical Question
Boyfriend’s Shocking Answer
Awkward Laughter
Confronting the Boyfriend ️
Rape is NOT a Joke
Defending the Indefensible
Disgusted and Angry
Escaping the Situation ♀️
Boyfriend’s Accusations
No Apologies
Is the Relationship Worth Saving?
After her boyfriend’s twisted ‘joke’ about having sex with ‘frozen’ women, this young woman is left wondering if their relationship can survive. She’s disgusted and horrified, but he refuses to apologize, claiming it’s just a common joke among guys. Instead, he accuses her of overreacting and demands an apology from her. Is this a dealbreaker, or can they find a way to move past it? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this shocking situation…
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