Girlfriend Demands Payback After 2 Years of Footing the Bills

Imagine being in a relationship where you’re the only one working, paying all the bills, and providing for your partner. For this 19-year-old woman, that’s been her reality for the past 2 years. Living with her jobless boyfriend, she’s been the sole breadwinner, while he relies on his mom for extra cash. But when he asked her to pay him back for a meal, she finally reached her breaking point. Read on to see how this explosive situation unfolded…

2 Years of One-Sided Support

Mom’s Money to the Rescue

A Reluctant Provider

Bearing the Financial Burden

A Fateful Day in Town ️

Money Running Low ⛽

Dinner Dilemma ️

A Surprising Offer

The Last Straw

A Bold Refusal

An Angry Confrontation

Repeating the Offense

Demanding Payback

A Hasty Retreat ‍♂️

Name-Calling Ensues

The Cost of Love: A Relationship in Crisis

After 2 years of single-handedly supporting their life together, this young woman was pushed to her limits when her jobless boyfriend asked her to pay him back for a meal. ️ In a moment of anger, she demanded he pay her back for everything she’s spent on them in the past 2 years. Now, he’s been staying at his mom’s house, and she’s been called an a**hole by multiple people. But who’s really in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heated situation…

Break up with him. You can do better.

User suggests letting the boyfriend’s mom keep him

Cut your losses, he’s an AH. NTA.

Sharing a home means sharing responsibilities. NTA for expecting that.

Harsh but necessary wake-up call for a financially abused girlfriend.

Mooch moved out, problem solved. Be thankful!

Curious commenter asks for more details, declares NTA.

NTA, but it’s time to reconsider the financial dynamic.

NTA but staying with him is self-sabotage. He disrespects you.

Partner not contributing financially, commenter advises to drop him.

Ex-boyfriend’s entitlement gets him kicked out.

Dump the leech and take him back to his mom ‍♀️

ESH in a financially imbalanced relationship. Time for a change

Dump him! You deserve better than being used for money.

Two years too long, change the locks and move on.

User advises woman to end unfair relationship and change locks.

You go girl! NTA, he’s an entitled douche canoe.

Partner acting like a child, time to stop enabling him

Working two jobs to support another adult? NTA but why?

Dating a bum? NTA comment calls out lazy partner.

Both need jobs or he needs to GTFO

Partner’s entitlement to money is a red flag. NTA.

Dump him! You work hard, he leeches off you.

Sending him back to his mom after being his mom ‍♀️

Unwilling to work? Get a new boyfriend

Girlfriend demands payback after 2 years of supporting her boyfriend.

NTA, Relationship is one-sided. Best route is to break up.

Savage comment calls out lazy boyfriend, no replies.

Don’t be a doormat. You deserve respect, generosity, and love.

Demanding payback after 2 years? NTA, you deserve better

NTA. The boyfriend expects financial support and doesn’t appreciate it.

Dump the dead weight boyfriend and move on. NTA

Dump the hypocrite boyfriend who won’t pay his share

Dump the freeloading boyfriend or be an AH to yourself

NTA for calling out boyfriend’s immaturity and dependency on mother.

NTA, partner using you for free rent, car payments, etc. Reconsider relationship.

NTA comment: Boyfriend’s financial reliance on girlfriend is unfair

Dump the financial vampire and find a real partner in life ‍♂️

Change the locks and block him. NTA

Dump his freeloading a**. You deserve better

You deserve better Don’t let him use you.

NTA comment highlights red flags in relationships with jobless partners.

‍♀️ Supporting a mooch who calls you an a**hole? Leave him.

Don’t apologize for calling him out on his b.s.

User calls out entitled leech, says trash took itself out ‍♀️

NTA. Partner wants payback after not contributing to household expenses. Run.

Dump him! You deserve better than a moocher. #NTA

NTA for calling out the freeloader in the relationship.

Demanding payback with a reminder every time.

Dump the mama’s boy and find someone who pulls their weight

Encouraging comment advises to leave abusive relationship and seek therapy ❤️

Change the locks . You don’t need another minute on this user.

Partner’s financial reliance is disrespectful. OP deserves someone better.

Take control of your finances and find an independent adult

Dump the mooch . Find a partner, not a piggy bank .

Guy gets called out for being tacky and calling her AH

Dump him and move on! Life’s too short.

NTA, girlfriend deserves better than a cocklodger.

Will she learn her lesson or repeat the same mistake?

Dump the trash boyfriend and find someone who values you

User compares girlfriend’s boyfriend to a parasitic lamprey. Ouch. NTA

NTA, paying all the bills, save money without him. Consider B.o.B.

Celebrate the gift of freedom and doubled net income!

Dump the freeloader and find someone better

NTA, but without financial equity, the relationship is doomed.

NTA comment: Let him go. He’s using you

NTA. He’s deadweight. Accept his gift of walking out

Don’t let anyone take advantage of your kindness.

Arrogant bum gets what he deserves, girlfriend not off the hook

Take a spa weekend and evaluate your relationship