We’ve all encountered people who just can’t seem to let go of a topic, but what happens when that topic is your race? One woman found herself in the middle of a friendship meltdown when her friend’s girlfriend, Josie, couldn’t stop bringing up her racial background. Tired of the constant racial comments, our girl finally snapped and called Josie creepy. Now, their friend group is divided, and everyone’s wondering if she went too far.
Meet the Group
Josie Joins the Gang
Racial Comments Begin
Trying to Change the Topic
Nick’s Explanation
Different Cultures
Boat Day Drama
Josie’s Intrusive Question
Enough is Enough
Calling Josie Creepy
Apology Rejected
Nick’s Reaction
Not My Problem
Friend Group Divided
Was She Too Harsh? ♀️
Tired of Josie’s constant racial comments, our girl finally snapped and called her creepy. Now, their friend group is divided, with some siding with Nick and Josie. She doesn’t think she was wrong for wanting to be respected like everyone else, but others think she was too harsh. So, what does the internet think of this situation? Let’s dive into the top responses and find out!
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ESH. Misunderstandings and hurt feelings escalated into a heated public confrontation
Blowing up over a common annoyance? YTA. Communicate earlier
NTA: Josie Grossie needs to mind her own
Did you talk it out or immediately escalate the situation?
“Josie’s racial comments sparked a deep discussion on identity and allyship.”
“YTA tbh. You could have communicated your discomfort more clearly.”
NTA – You spoke your truth about race, she needs to respect it
Miscommunication leads to a racial conversation gone wrong
Insightful comments from black readers on racial obsession and validation
Discussing race is important, but why avoid the conversation?
YTA for calling her a creep instead of discussing it calmly
OP accused of racism, but commenters think they overreacted. YTA.
Is public humiliation necessary to correct someone’s behavior?
YTA accused of hypocrisy for dismissing friend’s GF’s racial concerns
NTA, Nick prioritizes his GF’s feelings over yours. Not a good friend
Accused of racism? You may have some unresolved issues…
YTA for insulting her without discussing your discomfort first ♀️
NTA: Friend’s GF’s creepy obsession with race is not okay
Mixed race perspective on the importance of race in identity. ESH.
