Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, money, and a whole lot of drama! Meet our main characters: OP, a 29-year-old landscape design company owner, and Maddie, his 30-year-old anesthesiologist girlfriend. ⚕️ They’ve been together for 3 years, living the dream… or so it seems! But beneath the surface, trouble is brewing. Maddie has been painting OP as her ‘trophy boyfriend’ , implying that she’s the one supporting their lavish lifestyle. ♀️ OP is fed up with this narrative and decides to take matters into his own hands. Get ready for a wild ride filled with family gatherings, vacation vexations, and a restaurant showdown that’ll leave you speechless! ️ Can this couple navigate the murky waters of money and pride? Let’s dive in and find out! ♂️
Trouble in Paradise?

Money Matters

50/50 Split… Or Is It?

Family Gathering Fiasco

Trophy Boyfriend Alert!

♀️ Maddie’s Mic Drop Moment

Vacation Vexation

OP’s Uncomfortable Confrontation

New Place, New Problems

Maddie’s Gratitude… Or Condescension?

Parental Concern

Down Payment Drama

♀️ Maddie’s Dismissive Attitude

♂️ OP’s Revenge Plan

️ Dinner Dilemma

⛽ Gas Station Gotcha

️ Restaurant Showdown

Trophy Boyfriend Strikes Back!

Maddie’s Muted Response

♂️ OP’s Ultimatum

Trophy Boyfriend Strikes Back!
Well, well, well… looks like OP has had enough of Maddie’s ‘trophy boyfriend’ talk! After months of Maddie implying that she’s the one supporting their lifestyle , OP decides to give her a taste of her own medicine. He stops paying for EVERYTHING ♂️ , from date nights to groceries, leaving Maddie to foot the bill. The tension reaches a boiling point at a family dinner ️ , where OP hands the check to Maddie, declaring himself the ‘trophy boyfriend’ who doesn’t pay. ♂️ Maddie is left stunned , and OP lays down the ultimatum: either she sets the record straight , or she keeps paying. Talk about a power move! The internet is buzzing with opinions on this one. Is OP an a****e for turning the tables on Maddie? Or is Maddie getting a well-deserved reality check? One thing’s for sure, this couple has some serious money matters to sort out! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!
OP gets revenge on his ‘sugar momma’ girlfriend, but communication is key

Communication is key in a relationship . Don’t let pettiness ruin it

NTA shuts down GF’s humblebragging about being breadwinner

Person points out OP’s flawed behavior in sugar mommy dynamic.

Defending the girlfriend’s support, accusing insecurity from OP.

YTA stopped contributing after GF treated him to vacation

GF’s boyfriend insecure about being called ‘sugar baby’ and stops paying

When solid money is not really solid money…

Both need to mature, keep finances private, and communicate better.
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User suggests better communication and mutual respect in relationship.

Defending GF’s actions, but misunderstanding OP’s concern

Taking a stand against being portrayed as a ‘sugar baby’.

NTA: Commenter defends boyfriend for stopping being ‘sugar baby’

Don’t be passive aggressive. Communicate with your partner properly. ♂️

Misconceptions about income equality lead to relationship issues

Malicious compliance wins the day in sugar momma relationship.
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INFO: If you only wanted a free ride, ESH. Sell the house and break up.

Unhappy man receives YTA judgment for fragile ego accusation.

An ironic YTA comment, suggesting that the boyfriend should appreciate his ‘sugar momma’ girlfriend.

Partner stops paying for vacations after sugar momma boasts. ESH.

Man stops paying despite GF paying for most things. YTA ♂️

Harsh judgment on OP’s behavior, YTA. Hope he matures.

GF supports him, he retaliates like a child. Apologize, YTA

Petty revenge in immature relationship. Lack of communication & respect.

Being passive-aggressive for 4 months isn’t a solution!

Honesty is the best policy, not passive-aggressiveness.

OP is called out for petty behavior and insecurity. YTA ♂️

Communicate directly and don’t be passive-aggressive. Don’t shame her.

Is Maddie just using you for her own image?

A couple’s financial dispute – ESH. He stops paying bills.

Communication is key! Sit down, talk it out

Confused commenter wonders why OP stopped doing house work and cooking. Pettiness wins.

Communication is key in relationships. Don’t let money ruin it.

OP is called out for being an a**hole and advised to get therapy.

Immaturity leads to financial issues. ESH, doomed relationship.

Malicious compliance at its finest, play stupid games win stupid prizes

NTA for stopping payments, but communication is key.

Dismissive GF turned Sugar Momma, OP called out for pettiness. ♂️

Supportive comment advises communication to resolve money and relationship issues.

Both parties need to work on communication and respect.

Third party defends Maddie’s comments, questions OP’s interpretation.

Productive conflict resolution is key for a healthy relationship

Don’t let your ego bruise get in the way, YTA!

Unpaid bills, no cooking or chores, YTA for not contributing.

YTA for being uncomfortable with your girlfriend being the breadwinner

Addressing the issue requires conversation, not petulant behavior. ESH

Passive-aggressive revenge is not the answer. ESH

Redditor calls out OP for being financially dependent on GF.

Communication is key! Be direct with your partner

Passive/aggressive approach to girlfriend’s boastful behavior.

User calls out OP for being uncomfortable with girlfriend’s success.

OP gets called out for being a spoiled brat

ESH reacts poorly to GF’s embellishments about being sugar momma.

You’re insecure. Grow up.

Don’t be passive aggressive with your girlfriend. Communicate your feelings!

User calls out OP for not appreciating his ‘sugar momma’

This wife knows how to shut down her husband’s bragging

User calls out OP’s insecurities and lack of financial contribution.

Communication and breadwinner issues escalate to non-communicative conflict. ESH.

OP’s girlfriend pays for most expenses, but he stops paying. YTA.

Both sides have valid points, communication is key

Trophy boyfriend not acting like a prize. Dumping imminent

Relationship advice: Communication and teamwork is key for couples! ❤️
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Poor communication led to petty revenge and possible relationship damage. ♀️

User calls out OP for immature behavior and financial abuse

Communication is key, passive-aggressive games breed resentment. ESH.

Relationship doomed after 4 months due to money issues.

Man-child gets called out for bragging about being a ‘trophy boyfriend’

Last Updated on March 27, 2024 by Diply Social Team