We all need a shoulder to lean on during tough times, especially when we lose someone close to us. But what happens when the person we count on for support turns out to be a major disappointment? One woman found herself in this exact situation when she asked her boyfriend to accompany her to the funeral of a dear friend. His response left her speechless and questioning their relationship.
A Heartbreaking Loss

The Support She Needed

Boyfriend’s Rude Interruptions

Shocked and Speechless

Putting Her Foot Down ✋

Offended and Upset

A Matter of Support

An Apology, But Too Late

Considering Her Options

Is He Genuine?

Grateful for Support

The Funeral Arrives ⚰️

Thankful and Reflective ❤️

A Funeral, A Boyfriend, and A Broken Heart
In a time of grief and vulnerability, this woman found herself facing an unexpected challenge: her boyfriend’s shocking behavior. His insensitive response to her request for support at a funeral left her feeling hurt and questioning their relationship. Despite his eventual apology, she’s unsure of his sincerity and is considering her options. As she moves forward, she’s grateful for the support of others and is reflecting on her own needs and boundaries. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Partner’s lack of support during funeral is unforgivable
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Questioning the boyfriend’s character, one comment gets agreement

Insensitive boyfriend refuses to support girlfriend at funeral

Supportive commenters advise to dump immature boyfriend.
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Dump him, you deserve better

Supportive comment urges dumping awful boyfriend after funeral fiasco

Goodbye, boyfriend! NTA’s better off without him.

Short and to the point: He’s an a**hole.

Dump him! NTA comment receives support.

Gamer boyfriend fails to support grieving girlfriend

Dump the a**hole and move on

Insensitive boyfriend declines to support girlfriend at friend’s funeral

Respectful NTA comment calls out rude funeral behavior

NTA’s response to insensitive boyfriend sparks agreement

Is he really there for you? NTA.

Ex-boyfriend behavior leaves girlfriend stunned, NTA wins.
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In times of crisis, the valuable people show up

Boyfriend’s true character revealed in funeral fiasco
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Supportive boyfriend offers to attend funeral without being asked

NTA comment receives 9 angry bull emojis as support.

Boyfriend declines funeral invite rudely, commenter says NTA

Insensitive boyfriend’s funeral remark leaves girlfriend hurt

Dump him! NTA commenter advises after boyfriend’s rude behavior.

Dump him! ♀️ Your partner should be supportive and empathetic.

Boyfriend’s rude behavior raises red flags for commenter.

Supportive comment suggests moving on from unsympathetic boyfriend

Long-distance funeral absence causes tension in relationship

Run, honey, run! ♀️ NTA comment encourages leaving toxic boyfriend.

Dump his a** and move on You deserve better!

Encouraging comment urges OP to leave abusive boyfriend.

NTA, boyfriend’s insensitive behavior deserves more than a day off.

Leave him and find someone better, you deserve it

NTA deserves support, not shocking behavior from boyfriend

Dump the self-absorbed prick and find a supportive partner

Emotional support is key in a relationship

Heartfelt condolences for loss, NTA, boyfriend’s behavior unacceptable

Supportive husband sets the bar high

Supportive comment urges OP to leave toxic boyfriend during grief

Emotions don’t make anyone an a**hole. #NTA

Heartbroken OP gets dumped for boyfriend’s day off NTA

Heartfelt advice on boyfriend’s behavior at a funeral
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NTA. OP’s partner’s behavior at the funeral was selfish and unacceptable.

Boyfriend lacks empathy and is TA, leave him

Girlfriend dumps boyfriend after shocking funeral behavior

Dating an a**hole? Maybe it was a one-off… ♀️

Heartfelt support for grieving girlfriend, condemnation for insensitive boyfriend

Insensitive boyfriend at funeral leaves girlfriend heartbroken

Boyfriend’s lack of support at funeral raises red flags

Dump him! Red flags are waving.

Supportive partner attends both funerals, NTA

Heartless boyfriend fails to provide love and support
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Dump the disrespectful boyfriend

NTA. Boyfriend prioritizes free time over girlfriend’s emotional needs

Empathetic comment offers support and advises to leave toxic partner.

Commenter empathizes with OP’s anxiety, suggests finding support system

Heartfelt support for girlfriend after insensitive boyfriend ruins funeral

Heartless boyfriend leaves girlfriend stunned after funeral

Don’t ignore the red flags, find someone who cares

Red flags everywhere! Run and don’t look back

Red flags in the relationship, run while you can

Red flag alert! Kind and loving partners don’t act this way.

Supportive girlfriend attends funeral, boyfriend refuses. NTA.

“If he wanted to be there, he would be.”

Boyfriend’s childish behavior is a red flag. NTA.

Heartbreaking loss reveals selfish and unsupportive boyfriend

Dump him, find someone who understands the importance of empathy

Believe them when they show you who they are

Supportive comment offers condolences and condemns boyfriend’s behavior

Don’t settle for disrespectful behavior. You deserve better

Funerals are tough, and coping alone can be physically taxing. NTA.

Empathetic commenter advises reconsidering unsupportive boyfriend during grief
