Picture this: a sunny afternoon, a group of diverse women, and a friendly game of ultimate frisbee. Sounds like the perfect setting for some fun, right? Well, not quite. Things took a dramatic turn when one woman’s superior skills started to overshadow the inclusive spirit of the game. This isn’t your typical sports story, folks. Buckle up as we dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a tale.
The Birth of an Inclusive Game

The Problem with Co-Ed Leagues

The ‘Inclusive’ Illusion

The Birth of the Women-Only Game ♀️

Enter the Prodigy Player

The Trouble with Talent

The Emotional Explosion

The Frisbee Fiasco: A Battle of Inclusion vs. Excellence
In a bid to create an inclusive environment, our frisbee-loving friend found herself in a whirlwind of emotions and conflict. The arrival of a talented player, who could out-jump, out-throw, and out-play everyone else, threatened to disrupt the harmony of the game. When asked to ‘play to the level of the group,’ the star player was left in tears, feeling like a ‘monster.’ The question remains: was it wrong to ask her to dim her light for the sake of inclusion? Or could there have been a better way to handle the situation? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this…
NTA. Individual sport: play to make yourself shine. Team sport: play to make everyone shine.

NTA, she’s monopolizing the game and killing the fun for everyone

NTA: Encourage her to coach, but her ego is problematic

Polite suggestion sparks debate: skill vs inclusivity

Different goals in Frisbee game causing tension. NTA vs YTA.

NTA. It’s frustrating when better players dominate and ignore the fun atmosphere.

NTA situation, but she needs to find a like-minded group ♀️

Competitive vs Inclusive: A Fine Line to Balance

NTA. Join the co-ed league if you want to be competitive

NTA. One person ruining the inclusive dynamic of the game. ⚡️

Annoying player told to ‘dim her light’, not playing fair. NTA

NTA recommends different days and facilities for competitive games

Empathy and equality on the field: shining among men

“Make sure everyone is included” comment promotes fun and fairness

NTA – Embracing inclusivity and fun in a community sports environment

NTA – Embracing her skills and refusing to dim her light

Finding a balance between skill and inclusivity in rec leagues

Explaining the group’s non-competitive aim to a competitive player

Bullies ruin fun volleyball game, causing it to disappear

Skill level shines bright in local Frisbee game

“Excuse me, Mr Jordan if you could not dunk so much that would be great” – the tall guy ruining the fun

NTA. Addressing a talented player’s impact on team dynamics and play.

“YTA. Stop trying to change the game you don’t like. “

Engaging comment about skill levels and inclusivity in Frisbee games

NTA. Her need to dominate everyone else and be the MVP of every game is not the objective of your league, and it’s definitely not more important everyone else’s enjoyment. She doesn’t get to ruin the fun for everyone else and then claim to be the victim. You aren’t there to be the background players for her to glorify herself.

Dimming her light in the game: A student’s dilemma

NTA. Encouraging teamwork and cooperation for a brighter shine

NTA: Calling out a dominating player isn’t always well-received

YTA for asking her to dim her light in frisbee game

NTA. Empathy is key in understanding the fun factor.

Asking the smartest kid to dumb down? YTA!

YTA: Quit blaming her for your lack of skills!
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From benchwarmer to participation trophies: The importance of losing gracefully

Woman stands up for herself in Frisbee game
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Different motivations can lead to friction in recreational sports teams.

NTA: Playing by the rules and finding the right team

She just wants to play ⭐️

Opposing teams should step up their game, not complain.
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NTA. Implementing rules for fair play and inclusivity

Crappy mixed game experience due to mediocre dudes; suggestions for improvement.

“Dim her light”? Seriously? NTA.

YTA – A fiery comment sparks a heated debate.

Commenter criticizes exclusionary attitude in women’s sports.

Unfair double standard for talented women in sports.

Different goals: fun vs. victory. NAH, just play differently! ♀️

Change the game parameters to include players of all levels!

NAH, she’s a star player on the wrong team

Engaging in a conversation to improve the game for all
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NTA: Relatable frustration with overly competitive people ruining team sports

Playing selfishly? Not the a**hole, but not a team player.

Engaging comment about feeling discouraged in single-sex ultimate games.

NTA: Play like a star varsity jock, not good sportsmanship

Different leagues cater to different skill levels. NTA for wanting fairness

Shocking realization: Woman’s ‘cool’ abilities ruining others’ Frisbee experience

Creating different leagues based on skill level promotes fair play

NTA, she’s taking it too seriously

Engaging response: NTA. Encourage teamwork, not making others redundant

Enjoying the game vs. being a team player

Mixed league claims inclusivity, but only for certain skill levels.

YTA accused of hating frisbee, wants to spoil the fun

YTA: Winning is the only enjoyable part?
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Demanding women to ‘dim their light’ in sports is exclusionary. YTA.

Winning vs. Being Nice: Clash of Goals!

NTA, not the right league for her
