When a 21st birthday bash in Vegas collides with a surprise pregnancy, the chips can really start to fall! Our story begins with two best friends, our birthday girl and the soon-to-be mom, whose friendship is now teetering on the edge of a high-stakes gamble. The birthday girl had planned a dazzling trip to Vegas to celebrate their 21st birthdays, but the unexpected baby news has thrown a wrench into the plans. Let’s dive into their story…
A Vegas Vacation in the Works
The Unexpected News
The Pregnancy Timeline ️
The Dilemma Unfolds
The Tough Conversation ️
The Counteroffer
The Silent Treatment
The Unspoken Concerns
The Update ⏳
The Self-reflection ♀️
The Final Thoughts
A High-Stakes Gamble of Friendship, Pregnancy, and a Vegas Vacation!
What happens when a surprise pregnancy meets a planned Vegas vacation? A friendship is put to the ultimate test! Our birthday girl had everything planned out for a wild 21st birthday bash in Vegas, but her best friend’s unexpected baby news has turned the tables. Now, she’s left grappling with the decision of whether to proceed with the trip or cancel it altogether. She’s offered alternatives, but the silence from her best friend is deafening. Is she being reasonable or is she just an entitled party girl? The jury is still out on this one. Let’s check out what the internet has to say about this…
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Reschedule Vegas trip, don’t drink alone. Her loss.
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Friendship tested over Vegas trip and conflicting expectations. YTA.
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NTA, but please use paragraphs. Mobile and new to Reddit.
Vegas without drinking: NAH, but still plenty to do!
Don’t dismiss pregnant friends! They can party and be reliable!
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NTA, buy out her share and enjoy a vacation together!
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NTA, supportive friend needed as pregnancy hormones start raging!
Friend’s kid causing exclusion issues, NTA but trouble ahead!
Friendship strained by partying priorities.
Not the a**hole. What happened? Tell us more!
Different life stages can strain friendships. ♀️
NTA- Great alternative, she’ll miss out on more than vacations!
NTA, keep your money and avoid the drama!
Friendship strained over canceled Vegas trip and financial loss. NTA.
Prioritizing drinking over friendship? YTA! Show support without alcohol.
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NTA, Vegas trip was for fun, friend can’t go. Enjoy!
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NAH: Vegas fun vs. upset friend. Good luck and have fun!
Rescheduling Vegas trip for pregnant friend? NAH, but reconsider priorities! ♀️
YTA prioritizes drinking over pregnant best friend.
Understanding a friend’s FOMO during pregnancy. Plan a girls trip!
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Disappointing a pregnant friend on her birthday trip. YTA
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Understanding and support needed during friend’s pregnancy journey.
Balancing baby dreams and Vegas fun – fair for both?
Friendship strained by missed vacation, give her time to heal
“Assuming she’ll complain? YTA! Pregnancy doesn’t equal complaining. “
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Understanding her disappointment and adjusting to a new reality
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YTA. Pregnant people are people. Friendship damage is irreversible.
Friend’s disappointment over Vegas trip due to pregnancy. NAH.
Vacationing with a pregnant friend: NAH, but different mindsets clash ♀️
Valid points about friendship and supporting a friend’s decisions.
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Find a new friend for a more mature Vegas adventure!
NAH. Find a new travel buddy and celebrate without guilt!
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“Presumptuous assumptions about pregnant women? Let’s discuss!”
Pregnant friend’s perspective vs. friend’s offer for rebooking trip.
YTA for prioritizing your Vegas trip over supporting your friend
