Friend’s Life-Altering Decision: A Casual Conversation or Malicious Advice?

Imagine having a casual conversation with a friend going through a tough time. You share your thoughts, not as advice but as a hypothetical scenario. What if that conversation becomes the catalyst for a life-altering decision? This is the story of an individual, let’s call him ‘The Unwitting Advisor’, who found himself in the eye of a storm after his friend, ‘The Betrayed’, took his words to heart and made a decision that rocked their entire social circle.

The Unwelcome Visitor ️‍♂️

The Unraveling Truth

The Heartbreaking Revelation

The Isolation ‍♂️

The Legal Dilemma ⚖️

The Emotional Breakdown

The Unintended Advice ️

The Life-Altering Decision

The Backlash

The Blame Game

The Final Question ❓

When Casual Conversation Sparks a Domestic Storm ️

In a tale that’s sparked heated debate, ‘The Unwitting Advisor’ finds himself in a whirlwind of criticism after his friend, ‘The Betrayed’, divorces his wife, citing a conversation with him as the catalyst. The Advisor, who insists his words were merely a hypothetical scenario, is now facing the wrath of friends and family, who accuse him of breaking up a marriage and causing a child to lose their father. But was he really to blame, or was he just a friend trying to help another navigate through the stormy seas of life? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

“NTA, and I feel a little like I’m taking crazy pills because you are considering taking even 1% of the blame for this. The ex wife destroyed her own marriage by cheating and having someone else’s baby. End of story.”

Suspicious wives, paternity tests, and a messy divorce. Drama unfolds.

NTA: Friend sought validation and found it in OP’s advice.

NTA. Friend’s life-altering decision backfires, blaming OP for advice.

Defending against ex-wife’s accusations. Empathy for the innocent child.

NTA. You gave your input on a broken marriage.

Supporting a heartbroken friend through a messy divorce.

Supporting a friend through a messy breakup.

NTA. Unfaithful wife set up scenario, you gave honest advice.

“That poor f**king kid” – Heartbreaking situation for everyone involved

NTA: Ex-wife blames you for their unhappiness, but she’s at fault.

NTA for expressing opinion on someone leaving a cheating partner.

NTA for giving advice, friend’s a**hole for dragging you in.

NTA for reacting to a deceitful spouse. Emotional health matters

“NTA, but consider fatherhood beyond genetics. Cheating wife’s fault.”

Supportive friend defends against cheating, lying wife. NTA!

NTA! Your friend’s wife’s decision will have consequences

“She cheated, lied, but *you* destroyed their happiness”? NTA

Friend doesn’t deserve to be used like that. NTA!

You gave input, they decided. Not the a**hole.

NTA. Validating a life-altering decision, not responsible for others’ behavior.

Ex-wife cheated, NTA: friend’s life-altering decision.

NTA, friend seeks advice on wife’s affair and child’s paternity.

NTA. Honest advice given with empathy for a difficult situation.

Friend publicly outs advice on social media. NTA for you.

Leaving his wife but not his kid? A**hole or justified?

NTA (and, yes, the a**hole lol) – Friends discuss advice and blame

Manipulative wife uses child as pawn, OP needs support.

Honesty is key: Friend not at fault for painful truth.

Supportive friend helps with life-altering decision for friend’s happiness

Shocking twist: Divorce not caused by cheating, but *your* advice!

Cheating wife blames OP for her own actions.

Validating friend’s decision, but concerned about the child’s well-being.

NTA. Honest advice, not responsible for divorce. Cheating caused it.

NTA wife sucks and is a clear a**hole. The lies, cheating, and trying to use his friends and the child to manipulate him is awful. And bio dad for skipping town, did he just show up to drop that bomb and ditch or is he actually stepping up. The wife and anyone who defends her need some common sense slapped into them. It would have been great if he stayed in the child’s life as he was the only one she knew, but wife made this mess. Plus from his ex’s manipulation I’m wondering if she would have kept boundaries if he stayed and parented. She doesn’t strike me as someone who would accept a no and act civil.

NTA: Exposing a cheating partner and helping a friend find truth

Defending against accusations of breaking up a marriage with evidence

“NTA: Hypocrisy in divorces and the importance of fatherhood.”

No accountability for cheating spouse blaming the voice of reason.

OP is NTA, but friend is an a**hole for abandoning kid

Mixed opinions on a controversial decision. Who’s really at fault?

NTA seeks justice for financial burden of raising someone else’s child.

Heartbroken father faces devastating consequences of paternity revelation.

OP’s innocent comment leads to devastating consequences for everyone involved.

Blamed for someone else’s mistake? You’re NTA!

NTA: Ex-wife blames you for her cheating, speaks volumes about her.

NTA: Bringing the kid and guilt tripping? Total a**hole move!

Supporting a friend’s decision to prioritize their own happiness.

NTA, friend’s advice and ex-wife’s lies caused turmoil. Actions matter.

NTA. She’s responsible for her own marriage, not you.

NTA man. Wife’s affair, lies, and denial. You’re not at fault.

Validation and support for friend’s life-altering decision.

Friend finds support to make life-altering decision amidst social pressure.

NTA: Cheating, lying, and a secret child? Who’s the real monster?

Divorce drama: Ex-wife, friend, and a**hole accusations.

NTA: She caused it, not you! WTF moments.

Not the a**hole? Let’s dive into this juicy story!

NTA: A messy situation with accusations and broken trust.

Supportive friend defends against family pressure.

NTA: Cheating wife’s actions have devastating consequences for all involved.