Imagine being accused of cheating when you’ve done nothing wrong! That’s exactly what happened to this woman who formed a close friendship with a male coworker. Despite being happily married, she found herself in the middle of a dramatic love triangle, with her friend’s girlfriend convinced that they were cheating. The emotional rollercoaster that ensued is a wild ride that you won’t want to miss!
Fast Friends at Work

Concert and New Girlfriend

Friend’s Strange Behavior

Gaslighting and Emotional Exhaustion

The Shocking Truth Revealed

Trying to Help a Grieving Friend

Opening Up About Family Issues

Unhealthy Relationship Drama

Misunderstanding Over Flowers

The Accusation Continues

Standing Her Ground ♀️

No Response

Office Jokes and Casual Relationship

Husband’s Support and Strong Relationship

Leaving on a Good Note

Caught in the Crossfire of Jealousy and Accusations
This woman found herself in the middle of a dramatic love triangle, with her friend’s girlfriend convinced they were cheating. Despite being happily married, she was accused of cheating simply for being friends with her male coworker. As the emotional rollercoaster unfolded, she stood her ground and refused to take blame for their relationship issues. Will they ever be able to resolve their misunderstandings and put the drama to rest? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA shuts down false accusations, commenters debate girlfriend’s behavior

YTA for not respecting friend’s relationship and causing more problems

Commenters criticize man for dating a 19-year-old ‘child’, defend OP.

OP is accused of instigating drama and being obsessed with coworker

Age difference raises eyebrows and leads to drama
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Commenter calls out OP’s toxic behavior and hypocrisy

Sending flowers to coworker instigate-y?

Don’t be an a**hole, respect your colleague’s boundaries

Respect your friend’s boundaries or lose the friendship

Harsh response to judgement of person in the story.

YTA for not respecting boundaries and being self-centered
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Friendship boundaries crossed with jealous girlfriend. ESH.

Commenter accused of not caring about friend’s abusive relationship

Back off! Commenter called out for inappropriate behavior

Setting boundaries is important, YTA for not respecting them

User calls out OP’s behavior as inappropriate and labels YTA

Don’t stir the pot, YTA. Their relationship is unstable

Let him be? ESH sounds like a disaster waiting

Straightforward judgement with a touch of sass
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Accusations of obsession lead to YTA judgment

Friend accused of taunting girlfriend with ‘surprise box’ and ‘favorite flower’
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ESH. OP could have handled it better, but girlfriend’s behavior is unjustified. ♀️

Boundaries crossed by all, gaslighting and jealousy fuel the drama

Setting emotional boundaries with friends is important. YTA for pressuring.

You’re being a manipulative jerk with zero social skills

Toxic friend alert! Cut him off and move on.

Stay out of your colleague’s drama. YTA according to comment.

Respect your friend’s boundaries, YTA. Find new friends

Age gap and immaturity lead to a messy situation

Commenter calls out inappropriate behavior, receives support.

NAH. Commenter empathizes with both sides of the situation.

Commenter accuses OP of cheating, warns of impending disaster

Is this friendship really one-sided?

Gift-giving gone wrong YTA gets called out

YTA, take the earlier comments to heart.

Ignoring boundaries makes YTA, age doesn’t matter

Commenter calls out OP’s emotional affair with work bestie

Don’t be an a**hole, stop adding fuel to the fire

Commenter questions poster’s motives and calls out ESH behavior.

Sometimes it’s best to let them deal with it ♀️

Commenter calls out unprofessional behavior and offers advice.

Commenter accuses OP of being the a**hole in one-sided friendship

Commenter advises to stop playing the game and stay out

Sage advice on how to distance oneself from toxic friendship

Straight to the point – YTA

Commenter calls out OP for pursuing a coworker despite strain

Commenter calls out OP for getting involved in toxic relationship.

Back off and stop playing the victim

A work friend’s wife’s insecurity and controlling behavior. YTA.

Commenter calls out everyone involved, suggests moving on. ♀️
