We all have that one friend who can’t seem to do anything without their significant other, right? But what happens when that ‘plus one’ starts to cause more drama than a reality TV show? This friend group of six guys found themselves in a pickle when one of their own kept bringing his girlfriend to every single get-together, causing chaos at every turn. Let’s dive into this wild story!
The Friend Group and Their Tradition

The Girlfriend Who Never Leaves ♂️

Restaurant Drama ️

Water Attack!

Intervention Time ⏰

Invading the Group Chats

Never-ending Issues ♂️ ️

Grow a Pair, V! ️

The Tough Decision

Name-calling Ensues

Clarifying the Guys-Night

Just the 6 of Them

The Verdict: Are They in the Wrong?
So, this friend group decided they’d had enough of V’s girlfriend’s antics and made the tough call to stop inviting him to their events until he could sort things out with her. They’ve been called a**holes by V and his girlfriend, and even their own significant others seem to agree. But what do you think? Are they justified in their decision, or should they have handled it differently? Let’s check out some of the top responses from the internet!
Guys night out ruined by controlling GF, NTA for setting boundaries

Friend may be in an abusive relationship, offer support carefully

Setting boundaries with inconsiderate friends.

NTA. Friend’s GF is controlling and manipulative. Reach out to him

Initials make my eyes cross but YTA’s GF is a nightmare

Important to be mindful of signs of domestic abuse

Supportive comment urges friend to check on abused friend privately.

Enabling rude behavior may cost your friend his friendships

Curious about the other side’s perspective.

Advice for cutting off friend’s clingy girlfriend without making it dramatic

Don’t abandon a friend in a toxic relationship

Clingy GF ruins friend’s get-togethers. NTA for not inviting him.

Gatecrashing psycho girlfriend ruins boys night, friend NTA for stopping invites

Girlfriend’s toxic behavior leads to justified consequences.

Girls just wanna have fun… without the girlfriend

Addressing girlfriend’s insecurities to save friendship. NTA

Supportive comment encourages being there for friend in abusive relationship

NTA calls out enabler behavior and predicts potential lawsuit.

Excluding one SO is unfair, but safety measures are crucial

Engage in a friend’s toxic relationship or cut him out?

Friend’s GF is controlling, NTA suggests checking on friend’s happiness
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Supportive comment advises to keep talking to friend in danger
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Concerned commenter suggests emotional abuse in friend’s relationship

Take control of your social life and don’t let anyone ruin it

Codependency or abuse? NTA makes a valid comparison

Encouraging support for friend in abusive relationship.

NTA. Adult woman should separate from boyfriend for friend bonding

NTA, maturely tried talking, stopping invites next logical step

NTA. She’s a horrible person, that’s reason enough to ban her.

GF’s toxic behavior is isolating V from friends. NTA.

Excluding a friend’s annoying and liability girlfriend is reasonable. NTA

When ‘guys night’ turns into ‘third wheel’

Friend’s GF is a nightmare, NTA suggests growing a pair

NTA. Everyone needs alone time to watch their own shows
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Offer support to friend privately, suspect his girlfriend is abusive

What’s the missing piece? All 5 SO’s agree with V’s GF
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Curious commenter questions group’s unanimous judgement with confusion

Curious about SOs’ opinions on excluding friend’s GF

Concerned commenter wonders if friend is being manipulated by girlfriend

NTA woman supports guys’ night out and mutual respect in relationships

Friend’s GF is isolating him, be there for him

Suggesting ways to include friend without his controlling GF.

Woman defends friend’s right to time away from clingy girlfriend

Accepting that people don’t like your partner is tough

Friend’s GF ruining his personal connections, NTA for stopping invites

Establishing boundaries with SOs vs. jealousy and control issues
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OP’s SOs siding with Needy McNeederson and Enabling BF?

Friend’s girlfriend ruins every get-together, NTA for wanting alone time.

Friend’s GF ruins every get-together, so they stop inviting him

Grammar advice sparks no replies, but still a NTA.

NTA commenter sympathizes with friend’s GF troubles ♂️

NTA for excluding friend’s GF, but concern for friend’s relationship

Inviting oneself to hang out? Not cool.

Guys night is guys night. V’s GF caused drama & complains. NTA

Friend’s GF crashes every get-together, NTA for setting boundaries

Backing away from friend prioritizing toxic relationship. Hope he realizes.

Toxic GF ruins friend’s social life, NTA for excluding him

Respectful female perspective on clingy girlfriend taking over guy nights

Uninvited GF causing drama? NTA for keeping her out

Friend’s GF is upset for not being invited to 0.2% of the year gatherings. NTA

Don’t give up on your friend, he might be with an abuser
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Concerned commenter suggests friend might be in abusive relationship

Controlling partners can ruin friendships. NTA for not inviting.

Supportive comment about SO hanging out with friends.

Redditor says OP may be TA for using letters instead of names but agrees stopping to invite friend’s GF is NAT.

Group stops inviting friend due to toxic GF

Double standards in relationships: whipped vs dominating/isolating/abusive. Interesting perspective.

Suggesting a girls’ night out to prove a point

Concerned commenter suggests possible abuse in friend’s relationship.

GF’s controlling behavior is manipulative and abusive. NTA, but worried for V’s mental health.

Friend’s GF is a pain in the a**, NTA for not inviting.

NTA, commenter warns about unhealthy relationship and potential isolation.

Guy’s GF crashes every get-together, causing frustration and disrespect.

Recognizing toxic behavior regardless of gender is important. Support needed.

NTA. Friend’s GF is abusive, keep communication open to help.

Red flags raised about friend’s potentially dangerous girlfriend. NTA.

Girlfriend’s insecurities are causing problems, OP is NTA.
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Concerned commenter worries about friend’s controlling girlfriend
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