We all love a good banter among friends, don’t we? But what happens when a casual joke takes an unexpected turn and sparks a heated debate? Meet our Banter Queen, a 36-year-old woman, happily married to her wife, and mother of two adorable kids. She and her wife have been the subject of some ‘interesting’ jokes from their straight friends about missing the ‘D’. But one day, the Banter Queen decided to hit back, and oh boy, did it stir the pot!
The Usual Banter

Lockdown Woes

The Zoom Call

The Unexpected Jab

The ‘D’ Debate Begins

The Fallout

The Aftermath ️

The Banter Queen’s Final Stand ️
The Banter Queen, tired of the same old jokes, took a stand. She reminded her friend who started the ‘D’ joke, and firmly stated that if she wasn’t allowed to talk about it, then her friend should never bring it up again. The drama didn’t end there, though. Our Banter Queen was accused of ‘evangelizing lesbianism’ and had to remind her friends that she and her wife are not lesbians. She then muted the chat, ending the fiery debate. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA if you can’t take the heat dont dish it out ♀️

Friends debate biphobic jokes, toxic sexism, and jealousy in relationships

NTA. Confronting truth hurts their built reality.

NTA: Friends’ annoying jokes about ‘D’ crossed the line.

NTA: Inappropriate comment leads to fiery debate and hurt feelings

NTA– Friend brought it up, not your fault she’s overwhelmed

Stand up for yourself and promote positivity during these times! ✊

NTA. Friend’s invalidating comment about degrees sparks fiery debate.

NTA. Friend made a joke, got upset when you disagreed. ♀️

NTA. OP shuts down bashing and stays true to their relationship

NTA. Your ‘friend’ was being a jerk and making little comments (micro aggressions) to try and get under your skin.

NTA – Friend’s husband not pulling weight, causing stress and jealousy.

NTA. Friend is bitter about your loving relationship and toys.

NTA: Savage response to overrated ‘D’ debate.

Friend’s jealousy over relationship, NTA for standing up for yourself

NTA: Dealing with projection, insecurity, and personal problems

Lesbian defends herself against ‘D’ jokes, declares NTA

ESH leaning towards NTA. Engaging debate on biphobia and insecurity.
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“ESH: Continuing to push it makes you the a**hole too.”
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