We all know how important first impressions are, especially when it comes to meeting the family of your significant other. But what if your friend’s outfit choices could potentially jeopardize their relationship? This woman found herself in a tricky situation when her friend packed revealing outfits for a crucial trip to meet her boyfriend’s family. She tried to hint at more conservative clothing options, but things took a turn for the worse. ♀️ Let’s dive into this dramatic story!
The Importance of Family Approval
A Tradition of Seeking Blessings
An Exception in the Family
Packing Dilemma: Revealing Outfits
Trying to Drop Hints
Hints Not Taken
Anger and Accusations
Kicked Out and Tensions High ✈️
Disastrous Trip Unfolds ️
A Fashion Fiasco with High Stakes
So, our protagonist tried to help her friend by suggesting more conservative outfit choices for this crucial family meeting, but it backfired. Her friend became angry and accused her of trying to control her wardrobe, leading to a tense flight and a disastrous trip. With the stakes so high, it’s understandable that emotions are running high too. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Supportive friend helps but wonders if revealing outfits backfire.
Friend’s controlling family causes conflict, commenter calls out abuser enabling.
Giving an honest opinion without being asked is a**hole move
Trying to help a friend with outfits can backfire. NTA/ESH.
User calls out OP for endorsing controlling family culture. Yikes
Giving an honest opinion and calling out toxic traditions. NTA
Real friends look out for one another
User calls out OP for seeking grandparents’ approval. YTA verdict.
Red flag alert! Why marry into a terrible family? ESH.
Being a good friend means conveying important information kindly.
NTA commenter defends friend’s outfit suggestion against askholes.
Friend asks for opinion, gets upset when given the truth. NTA.
Family feud reaches new heights – barge ride anyone?
Supportive comment suggests blessing in disguise for liability cousin.
YTA comment shuts down outdated traditions with a mic drop
Fighting sexism with fashion? NTA warns friend of family’s bias.
Honesty is the best policy. NTA for advising on attire.
NTA for giving helpful opinion, ESH for outdated patriarchal system.
Helpful advice given without being the a**hole.
Honesty is the best policy ♀️
Dressing appropriately for in-laws but grandparents deciding marriage?
Advice on how to approach hinting without being passive-aggressive.
Controlling family tradition s***s. Let her wear what she wants!
YTA if you criticized her clothes without a serious conversation. NTA if you talked calmly about your own experiences.
Giving honest opinion doesn’t make you an a**hole. ♀️
NTA for giving honest opinion. Boyfriend should have spoken up
Grandparents’ approval for marriage? Maybe it’s better to skip it
Honesty is the best policy! NTA for giving advice.
NTA commenter advises to run far and fast with humor
Offering fashion advice shouldn’t lead to insults. NTA
In-laws asking for approval? Super weird. NTA for opinion.
Standing up to controlling grandparents. Good for you!
This commenter values open communication in friendships.
Helpful advice given with good intentions
NTA for trying to warn friend. Will there be an apology?
Honesty is the best policy.
Giving advice when asked for it: NTA, but tread lightly.
Giving a heads up isn’t controlling. NTA
NTA comment throws shade at conservative dressers at Bunny Ranch
Support for giving an honest opinion about revealing outfits.
Dress conservatively when meeting conservative family. NTA gave good advice.
Constructive communication is key to supporting loved ones’ autonomy.
Passionate comment against asking for permission to get married.
Traditional expectations can clash with personal desires causing family conflicts.
Curious about family approval tradition outside the USA? Read on!
Feeling uncomfortable with family approval system. Everyone’s TA here?
Reflecting on past choices and family pressure.
Navigating family dynamics and fashion choices, with a twist
Family drama and elders’ judgment – ESH in this situation
Encourage cousin to stand up to grandparents or lose contact
Supportive comment, advising to let friend handle family rejection alone.
Respectful compromise for conservative in-laws and clubbing attire.
Defending the friend’s outfit choice against judgmental grandparents.
Helpful fashion advice for family meeting earns NTA judgement.
Explaining intentions is key to avoiding fashion faux pas.
Well-intentioned advice may have unintended consequences.
NTA commenter hopes friend’s family says no and enjoys drama
Supportive commenters await update on cousin’s potential wedding disaster
Offering advice with good intentions, NTA according to comment.
You gave your opinion, NTA. Crazy, overbearing family not yours.
Helpful outfit choice for family meeting gets NTA approval
Honesty isn’t always the best policy, but NTA in this case
Don’t let others dictate your relationship. NTA for warning.
User disagrees with article’s premise, calls out ridiculous rule.
Breaking traditional gender roles in marriage proposal discussion.
Grandparents’ blessing shouldn’t matter. Family tradition needs to end. ESH
Conservative family meeting + revealing outfit = bad idea. NTA advice.
Last Updated on February 25, 2024 by Diply Social Team