We all have that one friend who can’t take responsibility for their actions, right? Well, this story is about a woman who was consistently late and slacking off at work, causing her colleagues to pick up her slack. When she got fired, she called her friend (who used to work with her) and asked for an honest opinion on whether she deserved it. But when her friend finally gave her the brutal truth, she didn’t take it well. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story!
The Work Friendship
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Slacking Off Begins
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The Complaining Begins
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Management Intervenes ⚠️
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Offering Help, But No Change
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A New Job and Friendship Continues ♀️
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No Longer Colleagues, Just Friends
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The Fateful Call
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Denial and Seeking Validation
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Dodging the Question ♀️
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Pushed for Honesty ️
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The Harsh Truth Hurts
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Questioning the Honesty ♀️
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The Bitter Pill of Truth
So, our protagonist finally gave her friend the brutal honesty she asked for, and it didn’t go down well. It’s a classic case of ‘be careful what you wish for.’ When someone is in denial about their actions, it’s difficult for them to accept the truth, even when it comes from a close friend. But maybe, just maybe, this reality check will help her turn her life around and find a better path. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for giving honest feedback about friend’s job performance.

Don’t ask a question if you can’t handle the answer

Honesty isn’t always easy, but it’s the right thing.

Honesty hurts, but it’s necessary for improvement

Honesty isn’t always appreciated NTA for being truthful.

NTA. Some employees feel they can give the minimum and still deserve a paycheck

Honesty is the best policy
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Honesty hurts, but NTA for telling the truth about firing

Sibling’s tough love led to better job and growth

Friend asks for honesty, gets it, and regrets it

Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s tough

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

Honesty is the best policy

Pushy friend regrets asking for honesty ♀️

Honesty is the best policy, until it’s not ♂️
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Honesty is the best policy

Honesty is the best policy

Friend asks for honesty, can’t handle the truth #NTA

Honesty is the best policy, but not always well-received ♀️

Setting boundaries with friends is important.

Don’t ask for honesty if you can’t handle the truth ♂️

Don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to ♂️
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Commenter is not the a**hole, no replies.

NTA calls out friend’s lack of professional skills

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

Employment is conditional, honesty is uncomfortable but necessary. NTA.

Supervisor handles mine field well

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

The truth hurts: NTA comment on wanting honest opinions

Blunt honesty is sometimes the best approach ♀️

Commenter is not the a**hole, no replies.
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Honesty hurts but it’s better than lying

Honesty hurts when you’re a bad employee. #NTA

Honesty hurts but it’s necessary for growth

Sometimes the truth hurts

Friend asks for honesty, gets called out for victim mentality

Friend asks for honesty, can’t handle the truth

Honesty isn’t always the best policy ♀️

Employee fired for poor work ethic, friend gave honest feedback.

Honesty hurts: NTA comment warns against unwanted answers

Honesty hurts NTA had it coming

Dodging tough questions won’t end well

Coworker’s constant mistakes cause frustration and stress at work.

Commenter explains why friend begged for honesty and failed

Friend fired, asks for honesty, regrets it. NTA explains.

Honesty hurts but she asked for it

Leaving a job with long commute is NTA

Honesty is not always the best policy NTA wins

Consistently late coworker causes inconvenience and offense

Honesty hurts but it’s necessary. #NTA

Lazy friend gets fired and expects you to cover for her ♀️
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Taking constructive criticism can help you grow

Honesty is not always easy, but it can be life-changing.

Kind and empathetic response to a friend’s repeated infractions

Denial is not just a river in Egypt

Commenter is not the a**hole in this situation
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Honesty isn’t always the best policy

Ignoring 100 warnings and getting fired? NTA’s brutal honesty

Friend ignored advice, got fired, commenter NTA.

Commenter is not the a**hole, no replies.

Commenter is not the a**hole in this situation

Don’t ask if you can’t handle the truth

Honesty is the best policy, until it hurts their feelings

Blaming others for own mistakes, NTA comment section
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Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

Pushing for honesty and getting upset? Don’t ask then. ♀️

Honesty is the best policy, but not everyone can handle it #NTA

Being comfortable doesn’t excuse unprofessional behavior. NTA

Honesty is the best policy, but not always the easiest
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Friend’s chronic lateness leads to inevitable firing. NTA.

Friend gets fired, coworker offers support and understanding. NTA

Navigating honesty in difficult situations

The pressure of honesty: NTA or ESH?

Reluctant honesty helps friend, NTA, AH for not telling earlier

Brutal honesty strikes again

Accepting criticism from loved ones can make us better people

Honesty isn’t always what people want to hear ♀️

Honesty isn’t always the best policy ♀️
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Honesty is the best policy in this NTA comment.
