We all have those days when we just don’t have the energy to clean our living space. But imagine living with a chronic illness that leaves you fatigued and in pain, combined with depression. For one person, this is their reality. They confided in a friend about their struggles, and that friend decided to help clean their condo. Sounds like a heartwarming story, right? Well, things took a turn when the friend posted before and after photos of the condo on Facebook, leaving the condo owner feeling exposed and humiliated. Let’s dive into this messy situation…
The Struggle is Real

Opening Up to a Friend ️

A Helping Hand ✋

Friend to the Rescue!

A Day of Cleaning

Gratitude and Shock

Exposed and Humiliated

Asking for Privacy

A Heated Exchange

Tears and Frustration

Post Removed, Friendship Strained

Update: Gratitude and Clarification

The Reality of Chronic Illness

A Difficult Diagnosis

The Painful Truth

A Good Deed Gone Wrong?
So, what do you think about this messy situation? On one hand, the friend was trying to help and show off their good deed, but on the other hand, the condo owner felt exposed and humiliated. Was it right for the friend to post those pictures online, or should they have respected their friend’s privacy? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Performative cleaning for social media likes is not true friendship. #NTA

Friend violates privacy by posting pics of sick friend’s home

Friend violates trust by posting sick friend’s home on social media

Friend violates privacy by posting chronically ill pal’s messy home.

Posting pictures of someone’s home without permission is inexcusable
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Privacy matters, even when showing gratitude.

Respect personal information and property when doing favors for friends.

Friend posts chronically ill pal’s condo cleaning pics online, NTA calls out virtue signaling culture.

Chronically ill friend accuses helper of seeking social media clout. NTA

Friend helps chronically ill pal for social media clout. NTA wins.

Betrayed by a friend’s virtue-signaling post about cleaning my home

Sharing private details on social media is not okay.

Friend’s “help” for chronically ill person was for internet points

Friend’s good deed turned into social media show-off. NTA.

Supportive commenter calls out fake friend for seeking attention.

Respectful friend recognizes boundaries, but oversharing crosses the line.

Privacy matters. Helping someone shouldn’t be about social credit

Chronic illness sufferer calls out friend’s bragging about helping clean.
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Friend helps clean sick friend’s condo, but shares pics online. Mixed feelings.

Friend’s ‘help’ may have been for personal gain. NTA.

True friendship is helping without seeking validation

Privacy violation: Friend posts pics of sick pal’s home without consent

Friend offered to help, not to post pictures. NTA.

Doing good deeds silently is the best way to do them ✔

Friend helps but brags online, NTA for feeling violated

Short and sweet agreement

Friend violates privacy by posting pics of ill friend’s condo

Betrayed trust for bragging rights? Not cool.

Friend violated trust by posting pics of cleaning, NTA. Cut ties.

Friend cleans chronically ill pal’s condo, posts pics online – NTA

A helpful friend or a show-off? NTA or humblebragging?

Cleaning friend’s good deed turns into attention-seeking social media post.

Doing a good deed is one thing, but posting about it online with pictures is another.

True friendship is helping without expecting anything in return
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True friends don’t exploit your struggles for personal gain

Selfless act or attention-seeking? Commenters debate online validation.

Choosing peace over toxic friends.

Friend posts chronically ill pal’s cleaned condo online without consent

Posting before pictures of a chronically ill friend’s condo? NTA.

Friend posts chronically ill pal’s cleaned condo online, crosses boundaries.

Friend posts chronically ill pal’s condo pics online without permission

Avoiding inspiration porn – a thoughtful NTA comment.

Chronic illness sufferer shares how cleaning can be overwhelming and embarrassing.

Friend refuses to help chronically ill pal, gets called out. NTA

Betrayed trust? NTA comment sparks discussion.

True altruism means not seeking validation from others.

Where’s the friend?

Friend breaches privacy, posts pics online after cleaning sick pal’s condo

Real friends care, fake friends exploit. NTA

Respect for privacy is key, even when helping a friend.

Struggling with chronic illness is tough enough. Is it fair to share it online without consent?

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Helping a friend in need should be selfless, not for accolades

Reevaluating a selfish friend who prioritizes social media over privacy. #NTA

Self-serving friend or genuine act of kindness?

Standing up for oneself against social media exploitation.

Embarrassing someone after doing them a favor is inappropriate

Selfish friend seeks praise for helping, NTA for feeling ungrateful

Sharing photos of a chronically ill friend’s messy condo online? NTA

Don’t need fake friends. NTA. ♀️

Friend’s invasion of privacy and insensitivity sparks anger (NTA)

True friendship is helping, not for social media points.

Professional cleaner agrees: friend did it for herself, not OP

Respect digital privacy: NTA friend cleans sick friend’s house, posts pics

Privacy over publicity: Commenter questions friend’s intentions on social media.

Friend violates privacy by posting pics of ill friend’s home. NTA.
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Friend posts chronically ill pal’s cleaned condo online for attention

True friendship doesn’t seek validation on social media

Friend’s good deed or just seeking attention?

Friend’s public shaming shows she’s not a true friend

Friend’s public humiliation for social media likes is not real help
