It’s a special time for any new mom: her first Mother’s Day. But for one woman, the day took a turn for the worse when her partner refused to do anything to celebrate her new role as a mother. Instead, he insisted that it was their one-month-old daughter’s responsibility to get her a gift. As the situation unfolded, the woman couldn’t help but feel hurt and disappointed. But was her partner’s response justified, or was she expecting too much? Read on to find out.
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Hurt Feelings and Different Perspectives

An Annoyed Response

The Update: No Surprise Here

Breakfast and Cleaning Solo

Mom to the Rescue

Dad’s Phone Call

Excuses and Disappointment

Making the Best of It

Feeling Special, Despite It All

A Bittersweet First Mother’s Day
This new mom’s first Mother’s Day was far from the celebration she had hoped for. Her partner insisted that it was their infant daughter’s responsibility to get her a gift, leaving her feeling hurt and disappointed. Despite his last-minute excuses, she found solace in the love and support of her own mother, who stepped in to make the day special. While the situation left her feeling conflicted, it’s clear that this new mom’s first Mother’s Day was an emotional rollercoaster. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Commenters suggest petty Father’s Day treatment for partner.
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Skipping Mother’s Day with her partner for her own mom

Husband needs to appreciate his wife on her first Mother’s Day

NTA. A simple handprint on a card is not hard

Mother’s Day expectations met with love and tacos. ❤️

Deserves more than just a card on Mother’s Day!

A disappointing Mother’s Day, but communication could fix it

Partner refuses to celebrate Mother’s Day, is he an a**hole?

Partner belittles mother’s day expectations, NTA for feeling hurt

Mother’s Day is for all moms, not just your own

A husband’s lack of effort on Mother’s Day sparks revenge plans

Partner being a j**k on Mother’s Day? NTA, enjoy it

Mother’s Day at work was better than at home

Hopeful speculation on husband’s Mother’s Day plans

Partner’s immaturity ruins first Mother’s Day. NTA.

Supportive comment receives sympathy for partner’s behavior

A doubtful partner contemplates checking if her partner lied.

Spoil yourself with takeout, cake, and flowers. Enjoy Mother’s Day!

Ouch! A sympathy NTA with no replies.

Partner’s lack of appreciation for new mother is not okay

Mother upset over no Mother’s Day card from newborn daughter. NTA.

Husband’s weird, insecure, and lazy excuse for not doing something nice. NTA.
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Father neglects Mother’s Day, but she’s NTA for being upset

Acknowledging a great mother figure with a gift is respectful

Hoping for a surprise or is he just being mean?

Different perspectives on celebrating Mother’s Day, but no a******s here

A heartwarming gesture from a daycare on Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day matters, have a conversation with him. NTA

Unfair Father’s Day expectations, husband is TA

Stepdad refuses to do anything for Mother’s Day. NTA.

Husband’s insensitive comment hurts, NTA for expecting more. Communicate clearly.

Mother’s Day is for children, not husbands. NAH for disagreeing.

Father’s Day might be a breeze for him this year ♂️

Different expectations for Mother’s Day. Is he really an a**hole?

NTA. Celebrating mother figures is acceptable. Husband needs to appreciate wife.

Father’s responsibility to help with gifts. NTA.

Man at Taco Bell wishes non-mom happy Mother’s Day

Celebrate all moms with a card or flowers! NTA.

Advice on how to handle disappointment on Mother’s Day

First-time mom deserves appreciation on Mother’s Day. NTA

Sweet reply for a happy Mother’s Day comment

A heartwarming offer to appreciate a struggling mom on Mother’s Day

Don’t settle for less, demand the appreciation you deserve!

Heartfelt advice on communication and setting expectations for special occasions ❤️

First-time mom disappointed with husband’s lack of effort for Mother’s Day

Partner fails to appreciate pregnant partner on Mother’s Day.

ESH. Communication is key in bridging different upbringings.

Last Updated on June 3, 2023 by Diply Social Team