Imagine this: You’ve just landed a new job with great benefits, including a free life insurance policy. You decide to name your loving fiancé as a beneficiary, but there’s a catch – he refuses to give you his Social Security Number! Now, this isn’t some shady deal; it’s a standard procedure through your HR health benefits. But your fiancé is adamant, accusing you of ‘extortion’ and ‘blackmail.’ A simple act of love and care spirals into a heated argument. Let’s dive into this intriguing tale of love, trust, and a whole lot of drama!
The Perks of the New Job

The Beneficiary Dilemma

Dad’s on Board, Fiancé’s Defensive ️

The Battle Begins ⚔️

The Frustration Escalates ️

The Aftermath at Home

The Future Implications ⏳

The Unyielding Stance

The Final Showdown

A Glimpse of Hope?

Love on the Rocks: A Tale of Trust, or Lack Thereof!
In a whirlwind of emotions, our protagonist finds herself in a peculiar situation. She’s just landed a new job with a free life insurance policy. But when she decides to name her fiancé as a beneficiary, things take a dramatic turn. He refuses to share his Social Security Number, a standard requirement. The tension escalates, with him accusing her of ‘extortion’ and ‘blackmail.’ The argument ends with him storming out, leaving her questioning if she crossed a line. But there’s a twist – he has mental health issues and can be unpredictable. Will this be just another episode, or will it leave a lasting impact on their relationship? Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this tangled web of love and trust. ️
“He doesn’t want his SSN ‘in the system’? Where does he think it comes from? “

NTA. Suspicious behavior raises questions about fiancé’s secrecy and motives.

Suspicious fiancé? Investigate further or risk a long engagement. ️♂️

NTA, but you should reconsider tying yourself to someone who won’t share basic personal info.

Red flags : Is he hiding something or just paranoid?

Suspicious fiancé? Investigate before saying ‘I do’! NTA

NTA: Basic cause and effect or a low blow?

NTA. Fiancé’s sketchy behavior raises red flags. Dodged a bullet!

NTA. He’s hiding something, and it isn’t his SSN

Quacking at a high pitch: Is he hiding something? NTA

NTA, Seek couples counseling before marriage to address his concerns.

NTA. Sketchy situation. Trust issues over social security number.

Trust issues? Think twice before tying the knot!

NTA: Needing SSN for insurance and other valid reasons

Fiancé’s government skepticism sparks curiosity and military complex opinions.

Worried about credit? NTA! This comment gets it!

Fiancé’s mysterious social security number raises questions of identity theft?

Trash taking itself out ️

NTA. Fiancé’s stupidity jeopardizes your future together. Reconsider marriage!

NTA. Prioritize your safety and consider the red flags

Protecting personal information in relationships can lead to trust issues

Fiancé’s defensive reaction to SSN raises suspicions. NTA.

Trust issues? Fiancé’s refusal to share SSN raises suspicions.
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Escape the love, trust, and potential extortion! NTA

NTA – What an idiot. ♂️

Engaging comment about mental health concerns in a relationship.

Wake up! Don’t marry him. Choose a trustworthy beneficiary.

NTA. Keep your finances separate and reconsider marrying him.

Is he a ‘Sovereign Citizen’? Unveiling the truth behind the fury.

Secure your dad’s future and avoid financial burdens.

NTA, but think twice before marrying someone who doesn’t trust you.

♀️ Run! Love, trust, or extortion? What’s he hiding?

Grandpa’s off-the-grid tax evasion and medical work at the VA

Engaging caption: Paranoia or just a gun-loving conspiracy theorist?

Protect yourself! Check his credit report before committing.

Adding a partner without their SSN: Love, trust, or extortion?

Is he an idiot, in crisis, or both? NTA
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NTA, but is this a manic episode? Feels familiar

Trust issues arise in fiancé’s fury over social security number

Trust, marriage, and paranoia: s and danger signs. NTA.

Love, trust, and the fine line of sharing personal information.

Marinara flags , not a threat, just real-life consequences. NTA.

Consider his concerns about privacy and future explanations for SSN.

Stay current or future you will be an a**hole

Secure your assets with a Living Trust! NTA’s alternative solution.
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NTA. Suspicion arises from an odd, over-the-top reaction to a standard request.

NTA. Don’t marry a secretive, paranoid guy. Trust is key!

NTA. Trust is key in any relationship.

NTA. Dad’s privacy concerns, but you need it for insurance.

Escaping an abusive ex: Love, trust, or a**hole?

Is your fiancé’s behavior a red flag? Reconsider this relationship.

“No. If he wants the health benefits, then yes, he has to provide you with that information. I wouldn’t stress about it until he starts questioning you. Let it rest as it’s to his benefit that you’ll need this info. But this is a bit of a red flag moment that you probably should examine very closely before marrying him. NTA” ❓

Curious about the consequences of not sharing your SSN?

NTA, counseling is crucial before marrying him. Complications await!

Don’t marry him! Trust your instincts and run away!

Fiancé’s fear of sharing info: Trust issues or red flags?

NTA. He’s being irrational. Love, trust, or extortion?

Questioning the trust and mental health in a relationship

Marrying a conspiracy theorist soldier? Love or lunacy?

Fiancé’s military discharge: Love, trust, or extortion?

Fiancé’s bizarre reaction to needing social security number. NTA.

Why marry someone so weird?

Military experience makes sharing social security number a non-issue

NTA’s fiancé’s SSN dilemma raises concerns about mental stability.

Fiancé’s refusal to share social security number raises suspicions. NTA!

Red flag alert! Trust issues or justifiable concern?
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Trusting fiancé shares SSN: Love or potential identity theft?

Is he dumb? ♂️ NTA

Partner’s refusal to share SSN raises trust issues. NTA.
