A couple’s journey through love and commitment takes an unexpected turn when their friends refuse to respect their boundaries. After six years of dating and a recent engagement, the couple finds themselves struggling with their fiancé’s friends who seem to be stuck in a high-school mentality. From showing up unannounced to crashing a romantic dinner, these friends are pushing the limits and testing the couple’s patience.
The Engagement and Moving In

Friends with No Respect

Entitlement Over Fiancé

Invasion of Personal Space

Unannounced Visits and Late Nights

Peer Pressure and Partying

Losing a Job and Seeking Comfort

A Romantic Surprise Ruined ️

Friends Crash the Dinner

Embarrassment and Anger

Confrontation and Name-Calling ️

Were They Too Harsh?

Fiancé’s Priorities and Balance ⚖️

A Battle for Boundaries and Respect
As the couple navigates their new life together, they find themselves at odds with their fiancé’s friends who refuse to respect their boundaries. From crashing a romantic dinner to name-calling, these friends are pushing the limits. The couple wonders if they were too harsh in their confrontation, but they know their priorities and the importance of balance in their relationship. How will they handle this ongoing struggle? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Fiancé’s friends cause chaos at restaurant, NTA for being upset.

Communicate your discomfort to your fiance, NTA

NTA comment calls out disrespectful friends and their childish behavior

Support your partner, but don’t get involved with his friends

Friends cross the line, crash couple’s dinner, and call her a b***h . OP stands up and calls them out. NTA

Fiancé needs to set boundaries with friends, not OP’s responsibility

Fiancé’s lack of boundaries with friends causes couple’s struggle.
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Fiancé stands up to disrespectful friends, sets boundaries ♂️

Fiancé’s friends need to grow up, NTA

Fiancé’s oversharing leads to friends crossing the line

Find out why this commenter thinks the fiancé needs new friends

Fiancé’s friends won’t respect boundaries, NTA. ♂️

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough, but NTA handled it like a boss

Fiancé’s friends behaving badly? NTA for setting boundaries

Setting boundaries with friends? Not the a**hole!

Fiancé’s friends bring booze to restaurant, commenter calls them trashy.

Transitioning from a party lifestyle to married life can be tough

Setting boundaries is key. Good job standing up for yourself!

Respecting boundaries is key for a healthy relationship

Fiancé’s friends need to back off and respect boundaries

Set boundaries and don’t invite them to your wedding

Setting boundaries is key , but fiancé needs to step up ⬆️

Respect is key . NTA handled it well.

Fiancé’s friends disrespect couple, NTA suggests ending toxic friendship

Cutting ties with old friends: NTA for moving on
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Friends pressuring fiancé to go out clubbing, suspicious intentions

Setting boundaries with toxic friends

Commenter compares fiancé to character from It’s Always Sunny. NTA.

NTA, but fiancé needs to set hard boundaries with his friends

Don’t be like these friends, pick up interesting hobbies!

NTA – Toxic friends? Drop them like a hot potato

Standing up to controlling friends, NTA takes charge

Commenter sympathizes with OP, slams fiancé’s immature friends

Maturity levels differ, VLC with friends for now. Good luck!

Mature couple struggles with immature friends who disrespect boundaries

Toxic friends? Cut them out! NTA for setting boundaries

NTA. Friends crash intimate dinner, fiance stands up for partner.

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough, but NTA!

Not the a**hole! Fiancé’s friends are being jerks.

NTA’s friends lack boundaries, causing stress and disrespect. Beware wedding!

Single guys overstepping boundaries? NTA for setting limits

Toxic friends? NTA. They seem jealous and mean-spirited

NTA. Fiancé’s childish friends embarrass couple at favorite restaurant ♀️

Couple receives support and advice on setting friend boundaries

NTA! Setting boundaries with friends can be tough.
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Setting boundaries with friends can be tough

Fiancé’s friends crossed the line, mutual friends sided with them

Fiancé’s friends cross the line, but NTA.

Outgrowing friends can be tough, but sometimes necessary

Jealous friends disrespecting boundaries? NTA, call them out!

Fiancé’s friends cross the line. NTA, but red flag?
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Dealing with obnoxious neighbors who never grew up

NTA. OP stands up to friends’ childish harassment after engagement

Fiancé’s friends need to go, new friends needed ASAP
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Fiancé’s lack of boundaries with friends causes trouble.

Setting boundaries with friends? Not the a**hole!
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Growing apart from friends is natural

Setting boundaries is important, NTA. Let your fiancé handle it

Set boundaries with toxic friends before the wedding
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Partner’s friends gave him grief for having boundaries, now intimidated by me

Friends or alcoholics? A comment on unhealthy boundaries.

Fiancé’s friends cross the line. Commenter says NTA with shock.
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Fiancé’s friends crossed the line, but NTA. Better friends needed

Setting boundaries: A couple’s triumph over pushy friends

Fiancé’s friends can’t accept his maturity, blame fiancée for change.

Setting boundaries can be tough, but NTA for standing firm

Setting boundaries with toxic friends

Protect your partner from toxic friends

Fiancé’s friends need to grow up!

Setting boundaries with friends? Not the a**hole!

Fiancé’s friends need to grow up

Fiancé’s friends invade romantic dinner, NTA but fiancé overshared

Dump the toxic friends, not the fiancé!

Fiancé’s friends overstep boundaries, but was it avoidable?

Fiancé’s friends crossing the line? NTA stands up for himself.

Take control of your home, and have a serious talk

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough, but necessary. ♀️

Setting boundaries with friends can be tricky

Fiancé’s friends harass couple at dinner and follow them home. NTA

Setting boundaries is key, glad you’re not the a**hole

Setting boundaries with childish friends, NTA.
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