Fiancé’s Family ‘Forgets’ Wallets at Fancy NYE Dinner: Who Should Foot the Bill?

Imagine this: You’re invited to a lavish New Year’s Eve dinner by your fiancé and his parents. The food is delicious, the company is warm, and the night is going well… until the check arrives. Suddenly, everyone’s wallets have mysteriously vanished, and all eyes are on you. What would you do? Let’s dive into the story of our ‘Wallet Warrior’, a 32-year-old woman who found herself in this exact predicament. ️

A Surprise Invitation

A Warm Welcome… Until the Bill Arrives ️

The Moment of Truth: Who Pays?

Wallets Mysteriously Vanish

The ‘Wallet Warrior’ Stands Her Ground

A Nervous Joke, A Serious Issue

A History of ‘Forgotten’ Wallets

The ‘Wallet Warrior’ Draws the Line ✋

Not Family, Not Free

A Fair Question

A Plea Ignored, A Night Ruined ‍♀️

The Aftermath: Accusations and Apologies

A Clash of Perspectives

Prayers and Parental Forgiveness

Regret and Reflection

The ‘Wallet Warrior’: A Tale of Dinner Drama and Dilemmas ️

Our ‘Wallet Warrior’ found herself in a predicament that many of us dread: being expected to foot the bill for a lavish dinner she didn’t plan. Despite the warmth and love she felt from her fiancé’s family, the night took a sour turn when it was time to pay. With everyone’s wallets mysteriously absent, she stood her ground, refusing to pay for more than her share. This led to a heated argument, accusations of selfishness, and a ruined New Year’s Eve. Now, she’s left questioning her actions and her relationship. Was she right to stand her ground, or should she have swallowed the cost for the sake of peace? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA. Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets, expects you to foot bill

“Lol. Well you have to admire their nerve. And im praying you let his parents go. Ffs. NTA.”

NTA: Future in-laws using OP for money, reconsider marriage

NTA. Invited to pay the bill? Red flag.

Unemployed fiancé’s family uses you as an ATM

“NTA. This was a set up and good for you for refusing to go along with it. “

YTA for posting this fake ass story. YTA for becoming a doctor by 32, (after residency?), and not figure out how to use a period or comma. YTA for letting this happen multiple times, apparently (if true). YTA for not living with your fiancé before marriage when he doesn’t have a job. YTA for accepting a proposal from a man who doesn’t have a job when you have one that will keep you incredibly busy as being a “doctor” does. YTA for apparently being so sheltered you have no problem with any of the aspects of this relationship. YTA for not responding “who the hell doesn’t bring their wallet to a restaurant where we’ll be drinking at it’s the law to check all IDs before serving alcohol?”

I’d be very concerned if you were my doctor considering your people and decision-making skills. Good luck with the wedding you’ll be paying for yourself and the family of f**king weirdos attached to it.

JK there is no wedding or fiancé, but cute write up. Clearly fun for a laugh

edit: since people seem confused by this, my original argument is not the age of her being a supposed doctor, it’s that the writing style is completely inconsistent and full of mistakes. This was typed quickly, the OP hasn’t responded to anything, so they’re clearly not really looking for advice. I’m deleting my comments so they won’t continue to downvoted for accurately stating the length and rigor of education required to be a doctor in the US. Maybe she’s a doctor somewhere else where they don’t have as drawn out schooling and residency. We’ll never know, because she’s not real.

*second edit: I am done debating the various rules of different areas of the world for eating in restaurant’s and the education system. If you wants to continue talking and sending me weird direct messages feel free. The only thing being learned here is everyone has too much time on their hands. Still a fake post

NTA, but beware of red flags. Leave this relationship ASAP!

“Lovable” people forgetting wallets at dinner? Are you sure about that?

NTA. Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets, expecting you to foot bill

“They invited you to make you pay? Definitely NTA!”

Dump him and his family! NTA, they’re weird af.

NTA, but beware of fiance’s family’s manipulation and greed

NTA, they’re using you to fund their good times. Especially since at first OP’s fiancé said he was spending NYE alone with his parents, and then suddenly called OP to join them.

NTA. Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets, gaslights you into paying. SMH

Reconsidering marriage after being treated poorly by future in-laws.

Engaging comment and replies: NTA. In-law problem = fiance problem

NTA. You’re being scammed by a jobless man. Don’t marry him.

Troll post 100%. Gullible commenters fell for it.

NTA, but seriously reconsider marrying this jobless man-child.

Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy NYE dinner

NTA. Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets, expects you to foot the bill

NTA’s in-laws ‘forget’ wallets, expect fiancé to pay. Prenup needed?

Red flags at fancy dinner: Fiancé’s family vs. standing up

Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner: Was it a setup? NTA

NTA teaches forgetful family a lesson in paying for dinner. ‍♀️

NTA. Stood up to their wallet ‘amnesia’ and the engagement.

Doubting YTA – Did it really happen?

NTA, but does your fiancée not have a job? Awkward…

NTA: Run! ‍♀️ Don’t marry a man who sees you as a wallet!

Dump the whole family? NTA has had enough!

NTA, fiancé’s family manipulates and disrespects you. Stand up for yourself!

Break up with him before they sponge off you forever!

Commenter questions the authenticity of the situation.

Entitled fiancé’s family expects you to foot the bill?

NTA… In-laws ‘forget’ wallets at dinner, suspicious behavior. Reconsider relationship.

Cut ties with his leech family!

NTA, but are these the kind of people you want?

Commenter questions the authenticity of the scenario.

NTA: Cut them off and find someone who respects you.

NTA! Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner, using you as ATM

NTA, they can f**k right off! Rethink this relationship

Don’t marry him! Find someone who appreciates you!

NTA. You said several times? Lol

NTA: In-laws ‘forget’ wallets, but bigger problem is user fiancé.

Fiancé’s family mooches off you? Run for the hills!

NTA – Red flag! Consider leaving before marriage.

Did it really happen?

“Red flags in fiancé’s family’s behavior. Time for a talk.”

Red flags: jobless fiancé’s family demands expensive dinner payment. Financial abuse?

NTA: You did the right thing! That’s messed up

Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets, expects you to foot the bill? NTA

“Manipulative leeches”? Red flags for a doctor’s future in-laws.