Imagine being torn between attending a family wedding and visiting your dad in the hospital. Now, imagine your fiancée making that decision for you by hiding your glasses! That’s exactly what happened to this 31-year-old man, whose fiancée pulled a sneaky move to ensure he attended her cousin’s wedding instead of visiting his dad battling lung cancer. Let’s dive into this wild story and see what went down.
The Struggling Dad and the Wedding Dilemma

A Reluctant Agreement

Mom Calls for Help

The Great Glasses Disappearance ️♂️

Frustration and Apologies

The Glasses Reappear… Magically?

Caught Red-Handed

Yelling Ensues ️

Fiancée’s Defense ️

Standing His Ground

The Aftermath ️

A Battle of Priorities: Family vs. Wedding
In a shocking turn of events, this man’s fiancée hid his glasses to force him to attend her cousin’s wedding instead of visiting his dad in the hospital. After a heated argument, he refused to go to the wedding and left the house. Now, with his fiancée’s mom texting him, he’s left wondering if he made the right choice. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this intense family drama…
Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding during father’s cancer. Commenters suggest breaking up.
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Fiancée steals glasses for attention, commenters support standing by family.

Commenter and reply agree: fiancée is trash

NTA. Fiancée uses disability to manipulate and trap. Major red flag.

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding, groom-to-be’s dad is gravely ill. Commenters suggest rethinking the marriage.
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Stealing someone’s glasses is abusive and manipulative. NTA, leave her.

Engaging discussion on whether everyone s***s in this situation

Fiancé’s glasses hidden to force wedding attendance . Commenters debate ESH verdict.

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding. Commenters say NTA.

Glasses are a necessity, not a luxury. NTA for protecting yourself.

Fiancée’s frustration with constantly being second to his family’s needs.

Prioritizing a wedding over a dying parent? ESH according to commenters

Fiancée hides glasses, groom-to-be called a doormat. Comments debate priorities.

Find a better partner. Your fiancé is immature and selfish.

A concerned commenter asks for more information about the situation.

ESH for different reasons. The girlfriend for gaslighting and the commenter for lack of empathy. ♂️

Discussion on attending wedding during pandemic with health concerns.

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding – NTA

NTA, but commenter suggests considering other side of story.

Former BF hid keys, NTA for reconsidering selfish fiancée ♀️
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OP’s fiancée stole their glasses instead of communicating their feelings

Don’t let anyone stop you from being there for family

Short and sweet: NTA, dump her!

Empathetic response to NTA comment and encourages reflection

Is the fiancé justified or being unreasonable?

Take time for yourself, but communicate with your fiancé. ESH

Fiancée hides glasses, mom insists on attendance, both are wrong ♀️

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding – ESH.
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Commenter sympathizes but suggests deeper issues and communication needed

Commenter suggests hearing fiancée’s side of the story.

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding. Both parties at fault.

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding . Commenter supports OP’s decision.
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Dump her and find someone who supports you. NTA

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding. Commenter calls out psycho behavior.

NTA, cherish every moment with your fiancée ❤️
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Daughter defends dad after fiancée hides glasses to force wedding attendance

Fiancé hides glasses, prioritizes wedding over dying father. NTA.

Fiancée hides glasses to force attendance at wedding. NTA. Tell her mom.

Fiancée prioritizes cousin’s wedding over dying father. Huge red flag. NTA.

Safety first! A fellow glasses-wearer suggests a backup pair.

Last Updated on May 6, 2023 by Diply Social Team