Imagine being in a 10-year relationship, and suddenly your fiancé’s close female friend wants him in the delivery room when she gives birth. That’s the situation one woman finds herself in, and she’s not sure how to feel about it. Her fiancé, F, and his friend, K, have a close bond that she admits makes her a bit jealous. Now, with K’s partner tragically passing away just months before the baby’s due, she’s leaning on F more than ever. But is it crossing a line for him to be there during such an intimate moment?
A Decade-Long Relationship ️
Enter K, the Close Friend
Jealousy Creeps In
K’s Unexpected Visits
Tragedy Strikes K’s Life
The Delivery Room Dilemma
K Has Support, But Wants F
Drawing the Line ✋
Edit: Considering Counseling ️
Worried About Emotional Affair
Trying to Be Chill
The Delivery Room: A Step Too Far?
Fiancé’s Friend Wants Him in Delivery Room: Is It Crossing a Line?
Our protagonist is in a tough spot as her fiancé’s close female friend, K, wants him in the delivery room when she gives birth. With K’s partner tragically passing away months before the baby’s due, she’s been leaning on F more than ever. Our protagonist admits to feeling a bit jealous of their bond, but she’s been supportive of their friendship until now. She believes the delivery room is a step too far and worries it might be an inappropriate emotional affair. As they consider counseling to work through their issues, the question remains: is it crossing a line for F to be there during K’s intimate moment?
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Supportive commenter suspects it’s his baby. Not the a**hole!
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