Imagine planning your dream honeymoon, only to find out that your fiancé has invited his friends along for the ride! That’s exactly what happened to one woman who discovered her fiancé’s friends were planning to crash their romantic getaway to Japan. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions and see how it all unfolded.
A Suspicious Dinner Conversation ️

The Honeymoon Crashers

Not Just Any Trip ️

Walking on Eggshells ♂️

The Apology

Snooping Around

Tokyo Boys

Confronting the Fiancé

Defensive Response ️

Thanksgiving Pretense

The Fear of Being the A**hole ♀️

A Honeymoon Hijacked?
Our heartbroken bride-to-be discovered her fiancé’s friends were planning to crash their honeymoon in Japan, despite her objections. After snooping on his laptop, she found a group chat where they were planning their Tokyo trip during the same week as the couple’s honeymoon. Her fiancé claims he won’t be seeing them, but she fears being perceived as the bad guy if she refuses to hang out with the group. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation.
Friend secretly changed honeymoon itinerary to ditch tag along “bros”.

Red flag alert! Consider a prenup and rethink honeymoon plans.

Red flag alert! Think twice before marrying him. NTA.

Dump him! You deserve better than a selfish fiancé.

Fiancé lies, plans unfair honeymoon with friends, prioritizes them over you. NTA.

Marriage means forming a new family with a partner , not inviting friends

Red flag alert! Don’t marry him, he doesn’t respect you.

Red flag alert! Prioritizing friends on honeymoon, gaslighting pro.

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon without telling bride-to-be NTA gets support from commenters.

Partner inviting friends on honeymoon, commenter advises reconsidering relationship.

NTA, but reconsider relationship. He prioritizes friends over you on honeymoon.

♀️ Don’t ignore the red flags. Listen to your gut.

When inviting friends on honeymoon goes wrong. ♂️
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Reject manipulative behavior and communicate openly with your partner.

Fiancé’s honeymoon plan backfires. NTA calls his bluff.

NTA suggests changing honeymoon plans to avoid fiance’s disrespectful behavior.

Fiancé lies, manipulates, and invites friends on honeymoon.

Reddit’s classic response: NTA, dump him.

Premarital counseling recommended to address major issues before marriage.

Beware of gaslighting and control in relationships.

Fiancé inviting friends on honeymoon?

User suggests postponing/canceling wedding due to fiancé inviting friends on honeymoon.

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon, but OP is NTA. Commenter advises postponing wedding.

NTA, but red flags in relationship communication.

Is their marriage doomed? Friends on honeymoon

Fiancé inviting friends on honeymoon – red flag or immaturity?

Honeymoon invite for friends? Commenter advises to run away!

Lesson learned: Don’t let your fiancé invite friends on honeymoon.

Friendship boundaries crossed. Dump the man-child

Savage response! OP is definitely NTA in this situation.

Blast it to the whole world! Put your foot down!

RUN! This is emotional abuse called gaslighting. Biggest RED FLAG �:warning:.

Dump his a**. Cancel/postpone wedding. Couples therapy required.

Partner gaslights OP, end relationship and go on friendmoon

Honeymoon is for two, not for friends. Dump them!

Insist on changing honeymoon plans and reconsider the wedding.

Doubting the marriage after 1/3 of the article?

Think twice before marrying someone who prioritizes friends over family.

Red flags . Reconsider marrying someone who prioritizes friends over spouse.

Toxic relationship, no need to pretend everything’s fine.

Red flag alert! Trust your gut and move on.

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon, calls her ‘upset’ for objecting

Dump him and move on. Don’t care too much about others.

Cancel the wedding, he’s turning your honeymoon into a boys trip

User compares fiancé’s behavior to a child, no replies.

Red flag alert! Reconsider the marriage before it’s too late.

Partner prioritizing friends on honeymoon. NTA. You deserve better.

NTA but don’t hitch your wagon to someone who treats you poorly.

Non-refundable deposits cheaper than divorce. Don’t marry him!

Fiancé prioritizes friends over bride on honeymoon

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon, manipulates and gaslights partner. NTA.

Red flags! OP should run away from this immature fiancé.

Red flags in relationship. Think twice before marrying.

Red flag alert! Don’t marry someone who dismisses your feelings.

Fiancé suggests changing honeymoon destination, drama ensues.

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon, Reddit user advises couple counseling.

Red flag alert! Reconsider marrying him.

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon? Big red flag, postpone wedding.

Honeymoon hijacked by fiance’s disrespectful buddies. NTA. Dump him.

Is lack of romance a bad sign for marriage?

Cancel Tokyo trip, test his reaction. Honeymoon isn’t just travel.

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon? Cancel wedding and run!

Honeymoon with friends? Maybe rethink this relationship.

Heartbreaking story of a manipulative and selfish ex-fiancé.

Fiancé invites friends on honeymoon? Maybe it’s time to reconsider.

Partner’s attachment to friends may mean future trips with them.

Red flag alert: prioritize yourself and reconsider the engagement.

Bride-to-be stands up for herself and puts her foot down

Wise words from grandpa, cancel everything and run ♀️

Fiancé inviting friends on honeymoon? Cancel the wedding. NTA.

Fiancé prioritizes friends over spouse. NTA.

Friends on honeymoon? No way! Commenters agree it’s inappropriate

Fiancé wants friends on honeymoon? Maybe rethink marriage.

Wedding on hold? Partner’s lack of concern for honeymoon.

Fiancé prioritizes friends over marriage, NTA. Cancel now.

Friends on honeymoon? NTA says it’s not okay, beware manipulation

Last Updated on February 27, 2024 by Diply Social Team