Fiancé Demands Prenup, But Is It Fair?

Imagine being in a loving relationship for over two years, supporting your partner financially during tough times, and then they demand a prenup that seems to protect them more than you! That’s the situation our protagonist finds herself in. She’s a successful technical writer and manager, while her fiancé is a programmer, both earning six figures. However, her fiancé seems to be influenced by content he consumes online, claiming that men are often cheated in divorces. Let’s dive into the story and find out what’s going on.

The Prenup Discussion Begins

Financial Support and Unpaid Debts

His Justification

Influenced by Online Content

Contrasting Personal Life

No Bad Relationship Experience

Prenup Necessity?

Future Plans and Housework

Explaining Her Concerns

Accusations and Shock

Prenup or Betrayal?

Our protagonist has been with her fiancé for over two years, supporting him financially when he needed it. Now, he’s demanding a prenup that seems to protect him more than her, influenced by online content claiming men are often cheated in divorces. Despite their financial equality and plans to have children, he insists she signs the prenup, even accusing her of potentially cheating and taking his money in the future. This has left her shocked and questioning their relationship. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Red flag alert! Protect yourself and your assets in prenup.

Savage reply to fiancé’s prenup demand with a twist

Fiancé’s prenup request based on toxic content consumption, NTA for concern.

Suggests taking control of the prenup to address concerns

Demanding equality in a prenup?

Demanding a prenup? Make sure you’re protected and informed.

Criticism of fiancé’s priorities and potential parenting abilities.

NTA but beware of red flags in his behavior

Avoid men who follow Andrew Tate’s toxic and misogynistic views.

Red flag alert! Trust your gut and run ‍♀️

Protect yourself with a prenup that represents your needs.

Consider a prenup if you have a positive net worth

Red flags in relationship, leave before it’s too late

Financially incompatible fiancé demands prenup, commenter advises cutting ties. NTA

Fair prenups are reasonable, but his idea is unreasonable.

Commenter warns against marrying someone like the guy mentioned.

Draw up your own prenup or go to therapy together

NTA. Fairness is key in prenups, not just for him.

Is it time to say goodbye to this Andrew Tate supporter?

Red flag alert! Consider leaving this fiancé ASAP.

Warning against Andrew Tate as a partner

End the engagement and find someone who trusts and respects you

Fiancé accuses partner of future infidelity and money theft. ESH.

NTA. Andrew Tate? Run, girl, run!

Get your own lawyer and sign the prenup, protect yourself.

Red flags in fiancé’s views on women and cheating. NTA. Consider prenup.

Red flag alert: partner’s views on dating may cause issues.

Protect your assets and maternity leave with a fair prenup

Consider a prenup for financial protection, but RUN from distrust.

Stand your ground and dump him NTA.

Protect your assets , but also consider if he’s worth it

Sign a prenup, it’s messy even when you don’t have much

Red flag alert! Commenter questions fiancé’s intentions and financial responsibility.

RUN : Commenter warns against marrying a sexist and misogynistic man.

Red flag alert! Commenter suggests penalties in prenup for misogynist content.

Adding a little extra to the prenup

Suggests drawing up own prenup and keeping money separate.

Prenups benefit both parties, not just men. Get a lawyer.

Beware of red flags and consider the potential consequences.

Protect yourself and your future kids with a fair prenup.

Protect yourself and run. You deserve a trustworthy partner

YNTAH for not wanting to sign prenup, but NTAH for wanting one. People need to see past themselves and understand the reality of divorce.

Compromise with a fair prenup and compensation for household responsibilities.

Prenups are contracts, they can contain anything! Know what’s included.

NTA: Commenter argues against 50/50 split after having kids.

Questioning the fiancé’s motives for prenup. NTA.

Red flag alert! Don’t marry someone who listens to Andrew Tate.

Fiancé’s obsession with Andrew Tate is a red flag

Negotiate a fair prenup that protects both parties.

Prenup recommended for protection, but don’t marry a loser.

Red flag alert: Commenter warns about fiancé’s controlling behavior

Red flags ignored? Don’t be TA, trust your gut.

Red flag alert! Run, don’t walk away from this relationship.

User expresses concern over man’s attitude towards prenup.

User refuses to sign prenup, but may regret it later.

Fiancé demands prenup, commenter suggests questioning their value as partner.

Don’t let exciting sex blind you to incompatibility. Move on. ✨️

Lawyer calls fiancé a garbage misogynist, advises to leave.

Avoid Tater Tots and their false promises of change.

Red flags through rose colored glasses, leave him, find better

A clever prenup clause to protect against Andrew Tate obsession

Prenups protect both parties and promote peace of mind

Stand up for yourself and find a partner who values equality. ✌

Creative prenup demands, but will they agree?

Gender bias in divorce settlements, OP NTA for demanding prenup.

Questioning the relationship after prenup request and outside influence.

Prenups can protect BOTH of you. But his views on women?

Fiancé’s toxic views? NTA. You deserve better.

Consider counseling before tying the knot with red flags