Imagine being in a relationship, deeply in love, ready to tie the knot, and then, life throws a curveball at you. Your beloved uncle, who was more like a father to you, passes away. You’re heartbroken, devastated, and in need of your partner’s support. But what happens when your fiancé decides that a pre-planned visit to his parents is more important than attending your uncle’s funeral? This is the heart-wrenching dilemma one woman found herself in. Let’s delve into her story.
A Love Story in a New City ️❤️

The Heartbreaking News

The Fiancé’s Reaction

The Unexpected Twist

The Clash of Plans

The Heated Argument

The Aftermath ️

A Heartrending Tale of Love, Loss, and Loyalty
This is a tale as old as time – the struggle between love and duty, between personal desires and family obligations. Our protagonist, a woman in her mid-twenties, finds herself in a heart-wrenching situation when her fiancé chooses a family visit over her uncle’s funeral. Despite her pleas and the emotional turmoil she’s going through, he remains adamant. She leaves alone, leaving behind a relationship that now teeters on the brink of collapse. Now, he’s calling, wanting things to go back to normal, but can they ever? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
“NTA. Fiancé prioritizes family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral. Heartless. “
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Fiancé prioritizes family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral

NTA: Fiancé prioritizes plans over funeral.

NTA. Partner’s lack of empathy and apology is concerning.

NTA. Reconsider marrying him, he prioritizes family over your needs.

Insensitive fiancé chooses family over funeral, even emails condolences

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over funeral: Heartless or justified?

Fiancé chooses vacation over funeral: Heartless or justified?
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NTA: Cut ties and move on. It’s not worth it.

“NTA. Your fiance is being a huge a**. Support matters!”

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral.

Curious about the use of ‘fiancé’ in this situation?

NTA. Partner’s lack of support during a death is concerning.

NTA: Don’t marry this man! Funerals > fun activities.

NTA’s husband: Decent man or disgusting?

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral.

Choose family over funeral? NTA, says commenter.

Death vs Family: Priorities questioned.
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Fiancé chooses family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral: Heartless or justified?

Partner chooses family over funeral: Is he heartless or justified?

Nah sis, send an email to extend condolences. NTA

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral: Is this a red flag?

Partner’s absence during funeral shows lack of love and support.

Heartbroken and moving on: Let him go and find happiness

Heartless fiancé chooses family over funeral. NTA, no empathy.

Funerals are for grieving and supporting each other. NTA
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Partner prioritizes work over grieving partner’s uncle’s funeral. Heartless or justified?

Fiancé prioritizes vacation over funeral, red flags everywhere!

NTA: Don’t go back! He’s emotionally manipulative.

Fiancé chooses family over funeral: justified or heartless?

NTA. Major red flags. Evaluate relationship if this is typical.

Fiancé chooses family over funeral: Heartless or justified?

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over uncle’s funeral: Selfish or justified?

Heartbreaking story of partner choosing convenience over partner’s grief.

NTA: Is he a narcissist or just self-centered?

NTA. Emotional abuse and control are red flags

Heartless fiancé chooses family over funeral. NTA, but is he?

“Showing up at a funeral is doing the right thing.” NTA

Autistic person prioritizes partner’s uncle’s funeral over family visit.

Long distance love: Sacrifices and support in tough times

Savage breakup: NTA leaves ex hanging with their stuff.

“NTA. Red flag! Reconsider relationship. Lack of emotional support. “
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Heartfelt gesture to prioritize family over partner’s uncle’s funeral.

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral: Relationship test failed

Heartless fiancé chooses family over funeral, no remorse shown.

NTA, unforgivable behavior.

“Fiancé chooses family visit over funeral. Selfish or justified? “

NTA: Fiancé prioritizes family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral

Is this the partner you want to marry?

Divorced due to partner choosing family over emergency situation.

Heartless fiancé prioritizes plans over grieving partner’s needs

Heartless fiancé prioritizes family visit over uncle’s funeral.

NTA. Overcoming hardship, standing up for yourself, and finding happiness

Heartless fiancé prioritizes family over partner’s deceased uncle.

Lack of empathy from fiancé during your time of need.

NTA: Best friend’s support at funeral meant everything. Sorry for your loss.

NTA: Boyfriend prioritizes safety over funeral, questioning commitment.

NTA. Funerals trump plans. Fiancé needs to learn empathy and support.

Partner’s lack of emotional support in times of grief is concerning.
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Partner prioritizes family over funeral: heartless or justified?

Heartbreaking: Fiancé chooses family visit over partner’s uncle’s funeral

Heartless or justified? Fiancé chooses family over funeral.

Comment section full of angry emojis. Drama alert!

Real love means being there for each other through thick and thin

NTA. Cut ties and move on.
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Partner prioritizes family visit over grieving partner’s uncle’s funeral.

NTA. Ditch him.
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Partner’s absence at funeral raises red flag. Will he prioritize you?
