Imagine being a father, always there for your daughter, funding her education and even her upcoming wedding. But what if you discovered you weren’t even invited to the big day? This is the heartbreaking reality for one man, who, despite being painted as the villain by his ex-wife, has never stopped loving his daughter. The only connection he has left with her are some pictures and her college fund. Let’s delve into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.
The Bitter Divorce
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A Father’s Plea Ignored
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The Growing Distance
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The Villain in the Picture ️
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The Unfulfilled Promise
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The Wedding Bells and the Missing Invite
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The Curt Response
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The Final Straw
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The Tough Decision
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Pulling the Financial Plug
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The Aftermath ️
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A Father’s Love Tested: The Price of a Wedding Invite
Imagine being the ‘villain’ in your daughter’s life, despite your unconditional love and financial support. This heartbroken father, painted as the bad guy by his wealthy ex-wife, finds himself in a painful predicament. His only connection to his daughter are some pictures and her college fund. After offering to fund 65% of her wedding, he discovered he wasn’t even invited! His attempt to clarify the situation was met with a cold response. Fed up, he decided to pull his financial support until they can have a proper relationship. The fallout? His daughter blocked his number. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotional saga…
NTA. Good lord! That anyone would have the gall to accept money and cut you out like this is beyond.

Cutting off funding: NTA’s solution to being used as ATM

NTA- Don’t pay for a wedding you’re not invited to

“NTA of the year! If you’re funding the wedding, expect an invite. “

Canceling checks: a**hole move or justified response?

Is there more to this story?

Insulting to pay for a wedding you’re not invited to
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OP describes cruel behavior by ex, missing important context.

OP’s ex-wife has more money, yet he’s paying for everything?

Cut ties with your daughter before it’s too late

ESH: A frayed relationship, crass wedding invite, and financial dynamics.

INFO: What does ‘have access to her college fund, or what’s left of it of course’ mean? Sounds like she already had a college fund set up and you are offering to pay if she gets a higher degree and runs out?

Heartbreak : Father excluded from daughter’s wedding due to entitlement

OP’s story seems fishy. ESH for leaving out crucial details.

Walking away from funding wedding: ultimatum or heartfelt decision?
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Ex excludes father from wedding, but invites sister. ESH.

NTA – Ex’s toxic behavior leads to financial consequences
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Ex’s entitled wedding plan: pay but don’t invite. Bridezilla alert!

Father’s bitter past affects relationship with daughter.

You’re not just a piggy bank . Let her mother fund her wedding and degree .

“INFO: Did you save her college fund or not? “
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Curiosity piqued! What’s the missing piece of this story?

Did the mother cheat or just dislike infidelity?

Father excluded from daughter’s wedding, withdraws financial support.

Ex’s wealth, sister’s invite, and no support? YTA confirmed

Infidelity or accident? The sneaky wording raises suspicions.

Narcissistic dad? Ungrateful brat? Money can’t buy love

INFO: Incomplete story? Let’s hear both sides of the coin!

How did you pay for wedding expenses so far?

Not the a**hole. Share your story of wedding invite snub!

Ex’s wealth raises questions about wedding and education funding

NTA, but there’s more to this story…

OP not obligated to pay, but holding support hostage is cringey

ESH: Daughter is heinous, but there’s more to the story.

Are you just a piggy bank for your wealthy ex?

Is the daughter really a heartless villain?

Unpacking the complex dynamics of a bitter divorce and estrangement

YTA. Don’t play the victim. Step up and be present.

Heartbreak and disappointment: A father’s love or a human ATM?

Father’s ultimatum for relationship and support backfires.

Curiosity piqued: Unveiling the untold layers of this intriguing story…

NTA, but daughter’s behavior and ex’s influence are important factors.

ESH. Making love transactional? Pay what you promised, discuss tact.

Not the a**hole. Share your story of wedding invite snub!

Father’s love vs. Human ATM: NTA, but repair the relationship

NTA. Stop being a pathetic doormat

Unveiling the Hidden Truth: Is There More to the Story?

Cut the cash flow. No more funding for ungratefulness.

No invite, but still paying? A major line crossed.

NTA. Stand up for yourself and your relationship with your daughter

Tit for tat: NTA gives her a taste of her own medicine

NTA: Cut off financial support, set boundaries, prioritize your well-being

NTA. Toxic mother poisons daughter, uses OP as ATM

Questioning parental influence: when to require proof for beliefs?

Cut off wedding funding, close account, send check. NTA

NTA OP: Ex-wife should pay. Daughter is horrible

Father paying for wedding not invited to
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Heartbroken and betrayed, but definitely not the a**hole!
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NTA. Set boundaries, let her be accountable. You deserve peace

Heartbreaking: Father’s Love Turns Cold as Daughter Rejects Him
