Father’s Dilemma: Is It Wrong to Question His Son’s Paternity Decision?

Imagine being a father, watching your son step into a complicated situation with his eyes wide open. Your son, Peter, a 25-year-old with a heart of gold, falls in love with June, a woman already carrying another man’s child. Fast forward a year, and Peter’s name is on the birth certificate of baby Cadence, a child that isn’t biologically his. As a father, you’re torn between admiration for your son’s big heart and fear for the potential legal and emotional fallout. So, you voice your concerns, only to be met with accusations of being unsupportive. Now, you’re left wondering if you’ve crossed a line. ‍♂️

A Son’s Big Heart Lands Him in Deep Waters

Enter June, The Pregnant Girlfriend

Peter’s Noble Intentions

A Surprise Revelation!

Father’s Concerns Over Legal Repercussions ️

The Truth About Cadence’s Biological Father ‍

A Father’s Fear and a Son’s Defiance ‍♂️

The Threat of Exclusion

Dad vs Son: A Clash Over a Birth Certificate. Who’s Right?

The drama unfolds as a father questions his son’s decision to put his name on the birth certificate of a child that isn’t biologically his. Peter, the son, is in love with June, a woman who was pregnant with another man’s child when they met. Despite the father’s concerns about potential legal and emotional fallout, Peter insists on doing right by ‘his girls’. But when the father voices his worries, he’s met with accusations of being unsupportive and threats of being excluded from his granddaughter’s life. The situation leaves us wondering: is the father right to voice his concerns, or should he have kept his peace? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

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“YTA. So you’re okay with him adopting her, thus having the birth cert changed THEN, but not from the jump when he’s been in her life from pre birth? none of that makes sense. He’s going to be still ‘on the hook’ for child support if he adopts her. You need to realize this is his family, not some money making scheme.”

NAH for expressing concerns, but drop it now to avoid conflict

NTA. Quick marriage, little knowledge. Objectively stupid decision.

“YTA

This was not an unconsidered decision. Your son consulted a lawyer. At that point, even though it’s not the decision you would make it is a serious decision your son made with full knowledge of consequences. And you need to mind your own business.

> I genuinely believe they just love each other but to me, this is a recipe for disaster.

How is it any more a disaster than if they had an unplanned pregnancy and this was his biological daughter? Is your concern the bio-father? And if so, why?”

Lol they went to a lawyer to make sure he wudnt get f****d for fraud not to make sure the guy wasnt getting f****d in the situation which he is. BUT if OP was ok with him adopting her he should just stfu about it being a bad idea to have signed it from the start. Pointless to even say

NAH – Son’s well-intentioned decision raises legal and emotional concerns

Son’s immaturity and overreaction to father’s concern raises red flags.

Concerned father questions son’s fast paternity decision.

A concerned father respects his son’s decision.

Supportive dad voices concern over son’s unconventional decision.

“NTA, but playing with fire Adoption would have fixed this.”

NTA questions son’s paternity decision, concerns about potential disaster.

Opinions voiced respectfully, as long as mutual respect is maintained.

Supportive comment from someone who can relate.

Did you see this coming? Triggered by a son’s decision.

Is financial support the only issue? What about other concerns?

Son’s decision to support child despite paternity doubts. Heartwarming! ❤

NTA. Valid concerns about child support and parental rights. Enjoy family!

Concerned father expresses worries about son’s paternity decision.

Conflicting opinions on paternity decision, but ultimately NAH.

NTA: Dad’s concerns about son’s paternity decision are valid.

NTA- Father’s concerns about future custody and relationship stability.

Legitimate concern about paternity and potential legal and emotional consequences.

NTA: Son’s mistake, dating pregnant woman, marrying and assuming paternity