Planning a family vacation can be a stressful task, but what happens when one partner refuses to help and ends up being left behind? This wife found herself in a difficult situation when her husband expected her to do all the planning and packing for their mini vacation. Despite discussing the trip all week, the husband failed to contribute and, to her surprise, didn’t even pack his own things. Frustrated, the wife decided to leave him behind and continue the trip with their two children.
Vacation Planning: A One-Sided Effort

Destination Set, Plans Still Unclear

Workout, Shower, and Pack

Packing Begins, Husband Sits

Luggage Space: A Limited Resource

Husband’s Reaction: A Walk Away

Car Loaded, Husband Still on Couch

Husband’s Belongings: Nowhere to Be Found

‘Have a Nice Trip’ and Fake Tears

Wife’s Thoughts: No Help, No Trip

Packing for a Grown Man? No Thanks!

Eight Hours Later: A Text Arrives

Checking on the Kids: An Afterthought?

Luggage Options: Not Just One Bag

Help Requests Ignored

Husband Left Behind: A Lesson in Teamwork?
This wife was left frustrated and disappointed when her husband failed to help with planning and packing for their family vacation. Despite multiple requests for assistance, he remained on the couch, eventually claiming he didn’t think she wanted him to go. With no time to waste, the wife decided to leave him behind and continue the trip with their two children. As they hit the road, it took him a whopping 8 hours to even check in on them. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA comment: ‘Remember the little red hen’
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User applauds OP’s decision to call husband’s bluff.

Husband or another son? NTA calls out weaponized incompetence
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Verbal abuse and arrogance, you’re NTA for leaving him behind
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NTA and rightfully so! Fake crying and guilt-tripping is unacceptable

User questions commenter’s marriage and future prospects.

Grown man left behind on family vacation, NTA comment section.
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Husband’s lack of effort raises suspicion. NTA.
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Wife defends herself and calls out husband’s behavior

User summarizes husband’s entitled behavior, deems wife NTA

Husband left behind on family vacation, not the a**hole.

NTA. Criticizing a man-child who can’t adult or parent

Husband left alone, wife played. He got what he wanted

Questioning the marriage after a family vacation mishap

Encouraging response to NTA comment with advice.

Supportive comment applauds OP for leaving husband, expresses disdain towards him.

A scathing comment on a husband’s incompetence and marriage.

Wife not the a-hole, but is husband manipulative?

Communication issues in a failed family vacation. NTA seeking help.

Supportive comment applauds OP for taking solo vacation, criticizes husband’s behavior.
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Husband left behind on family vacation, NTA or ESH?

Encouraging comment to leave toxic relationship and prioritize self-care.

User questions husband’s motives for not going on vacation.

Ex shares similar experience and advises setting boundaries. NTA

User suggests sending husband on permanent vacation, deemed NTA.

NTA stands up to lazy husband on family vacation

Husband fakes tears, wife and boys go on vacation without him

Husband left behind on family vacation, NTA for wife’s decision

Red flags in a toxic marriage, seek help for healthy relationship

Empowering response to husband’s entitled behavior

Mom of six kids leaves husband behind on vacation

Husband bails on vacation, gets called out for lack of communication

Empathetic comment encourages OP to prioritize self-worth and children ❤️

User suspects husband’s ulterior motives for being left behind.

Encouraging response to a struggling parent seeking advice

Husband left behind on family vacation, NTA gets support

Wife leaves husband behind, but is she NTA?
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Misunderstood husband needs a heart-to-heart conversation.

Husband left behind on family vacation, commenter says NTA

Wife leaves husband behind on family vacation. NTA.

Partner or child? NTA sets boundaries with sulky husband
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Husband’s bizarre behavior leaves wife stranded on vacation. NTA.

Take charge of your life and don’t wait for others

Traveler defends packing skills, declares ‘not the a**hole’.

NTA, husband’s loss for missing out on family memories

Concerned commenter questions husband’s behavior, suggests therapy. Yikes.

Winning stupid prizes, a t-shirt worthy statement!

No deadweight on vacation. Grown adult refused to participate

Divorced commenter advises wife to leave incompetent husband.

Savage comment shuts down whiny husband’s behavior

User calls out husband’s laziness in humorous way

NTA commenter calls out husband’s behavior on family vacation
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Curious comment begs for husband’s side of the story

Partner’s packing not my duty – NTA for leaving him behind

When your husband treats you badly, it’s time to leave. NTA
