Hosting Thanksgiving dinner can be a challenge, especially when politics are involved. One host decided to take matters into their own hands, implementing a controversial $500 deposit to ensure a peaceful gathering. The catch? If anyone brings up politics, they lose their deposit. While most family members agreed to the terms, one couple refused to pay, leading to a dramatic showdown. Let’s dive into this family feud and see how it all unfolds.
Thanksgiving Getaway
Family Dynamics
The Troublemakers
Heated Debates
The Deposit Plan
Rules and Consequences
Kari and Bob’s Resistance
My House, My Rules
The Fallout ⚠️
Parents’ Offer
Additional Info 1️⃣
Additional Info 2️⃣
Additional Info 3️⃣
Why the Deposit?
A Thanksgiving Ultimatum
In an attempt to keep the peace during Thanksgiving dinner, our host devised a plan: a $500 deposit to deter political discussions. Most family members agreed, but Kari and Bob refused to pay, leading to their uninvitation. With their children and the rest of the family caught in the middle, the host is left questioning their decision. Was the deposit a fair solution, or did it just create more problems? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tense holiday situation… ️ ️
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NTA. Deposit won’t work with people that full of themselves ♂️
