Picture this: you’ve just bought a beautiful lake house, and you’re excited to spend a relaxing Memorial Day weekend with your family and close friends. But what happens when you decide not to invite your sister’s family, including her stepdaughter who has severe ADHD? One homeowner is now caught in the middle of a family feud and is questioning if they’re in the wrong for not extending an invitation. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story! ♂️
New Lake House Ready for Summer! ☀️

Memorial Day Weekend Plans

Sister’s Family Left Out ♂️

Why No Invite?

Birthday Party Flashback

Friends’ Discomfort

Sister’s Reaction

Accusations of Exclusion

Sister’s Persistence

Not a Space Issue ️

To Invite or Not to Invite: The Lake House Dilemma ♂️
Caught between wanting a peaceful weekend and keeping family harmony, our homeowner is struggling with the decision of whether or not to invite their sister’s family to their new lake house for Memorial Day weekend. The sister’s stepdaughter, who has severe ADHD, has caused some tension in the past, making the homeowner hesitant to include them in the festivities. Despite the sister’s persistence, the homeowner remains firm in their decision, prioritizing relaxation over potential conflict. But is this the right choice? Let’s see what people have to say about this tricky situation…
NTA. Sister tries to invite herself to lake house, gets shut down.

NTA. Your sister sounds insane and entitled

NTA it’s your place and it’s very rude of your sister to be acting this way. I guess we know where the stepdaughter has the bossyness from.. LOL yes we do! Good point. Haha. Thanks for the laugh

Family feud over lake house invitation: NTA sticks to guns!

NTA: Establish boundaries and shut down the bossy sister.

NTA. Uncomfortable guests? Your house, your rules!

OP’s cautionary tale: Set boundaries or they’ll keep crashing uninvited!

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but necessary.

Take charge of your house! Set boundaries and stand firm!

Stand your ground and let her know she’s not invited.

NTA. Take control of your house and set boundaries.

NTA, find another weekend. Don’t make it about the kid.

Setting boundaries: Your lake house, your rules. NTA!

Delaying summer invitation: NTA, entitlement smacks

It’s your place, your choice. Rude to invite oneself.

Take control of your vacation home and set boundaries!

NTA: It’s your place, invite who you want!

NTA. Your house, your rules. She needs to respect that

You’re in charge! Invite who you want to your house!

Excluded from family lake house, so I ‘allergic’ to flora.

Sister not entitled to your vacation house.

NTA. Brutal honesty might lead to self-reflection
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Sister wants to dump kid on OP’s weekend away?

Choosing friends over family for a weekend getaway

NTA: It’s your home, invite who you want!

House rules: No mortgage, no say. NTA

Mom prioritizes fun over child safety.

NTA for not inviting them, but set clear boundaries.
