Imagine planning your dream wedding rehearsal dinner, only to discover that your family might not be able to attend because of a high school graduation. This is the predicament our 28-year-old groom-to-be finds himself in. With a family spread across 1000 miles, this dinner was set to be a rare gathering of loved ones. But now, a high school graduation threatens to steal the spotlight. Let’s delve into this family drama. ️
Meet the Family

The Big Day Approaches

Thanksgiving Traditions

Father of the Groom’s Disinterest

The Unexpected Conflict

The Unanswered Question

Feeling Betrayed

The Big Dilemma ♂️

A Family Torn Between Two Big Events
Our groom-to-be is in a bind. After two years of planning, his dream of a Thanksgiving wedding rehearsal dinner with his entire family is under threat. A high school graduation, scheduled for the same day, has thrown a wrench in the works. The groom is left feeling betrayed, as his family knew about the graduation tradition but failed to mention it when the wedding date was being decided. Now, he’s contemplating asking his family to skip the graduation and attend his rehearsal dinner instead. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family feud…
Debate over high school graduation dates and traditions

Don’t let their absence overshadow your joy. Keep moving forward!

OP’s search for sister’s graduation date sparks debate and concern

Graduation dates vary worldwide! Is OP’s parents lying?

Doubts about graduation date, sister’s silence raises suspicions

Commenter argues against double-booking, prioritizing sister’s graduation

NTA. Debating graduation dates and cultural differences.

Disappointed by Dad’s double-booking, graduation vs rehearsal dinner

Engaging comment defending OP’s choice for fall graduation and criticizing family

Unusual graduation date sparks debate. Is OP really the a**hole?

Sibling rivalry turns ugly, using younger sibling as collateral.

Dad’s double-booking drama: NTA sister, YTA dad, and hurt feelings

Family feud over double-booked dates, AH vs miscommunication.

OP’s family isn’t what they wanted , can’t force family harmony

Dad chose graduation over wedding, but it still hurts.

Family feud over conflicting events: Dad’s fault? No clear judgement.

Dad’s family prioritizes sister’s graduation over wedding rehearsal.

Graduation vs Wedding Rehearsal Dinner: Who’s the real star?

YTA. Graduation is a big deal, your dinner isn’t *that* important

Graduation vs Thanksgiving dinner: A tough choice with family drama

Fishy graduation on Thanksgiving? NTA. Happens in Canada all the time

Engaging comment and informative replies about graduation date discrepancy

Don’t let a double-booking ruin your bond with your sister ❤️

Parents may be avoiding paying for the event, causing conflict.

“YTA. Prioritizing an adult child’s Thanksgiving over your child’s graduation? ♂️”

Be the bigger person and let the rehearsal drama go!

Verify graduation date with sister’s school. Don’t trust family. NTA

Awkward family conflict over conflicting events!

ESH: Family feud over double-booked dates, high school graduation vs wedding rehearsal dinner

NTA. Family feud over graduation vs wedding rehearsal dinner

Advice: Confront your father for lack of support, don’t suggest missing graduation

Dealing with a distant father: lower your expectations and move on.

Sibling rivalry over important events. Who’s the a**hole?

Suspicious graduation date and possible hidden agenda?

NTA calls out OP’s dad for tacky backpedaling during graduation.

Is the family lying about the graduation date?

NTA defends graduation ceremony scheduling during Thanksgiving weekend

Honesty is key! Not everyone may want to attend the dinner.
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YTA for taking it out on your sister. ♂️

Wedding vs Graduation: Dad’s disinterest and excuses. Celebrate with those who show up

Confront them, confirm the date, and uninvite them if they’re lying. NTA
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NTA. Parents lying about Thanksgiving graduation, you have every right to be upset.

Engaging caption: Thanksgiving drama and conflicting priorities cause family feud.

Debate over graduation vs wedding rehearsal dinner, who’s the a**hole?

Dad’s questionable graduation date sparks suspicion and family feud

Engage in a conversation with your sister about her graduation!

Wedding vs Graduation: Who’s the A-hole? Family Feud Unleashed!

Sibling rivalry: Graduation vs Wedding rehearsal dinner

NAH – prioritize both events, don’t stress, enjoy the celebrations

NTA for being upset. Dad doesn’t want to come.

Canadian graduation traditions clash with family’s wedding rehearsal dinner

“Let it go, a high school graduation is a big event! “

School employee doubts graduation date, sparks debate

Verify the school’s info and keep us posted!

“Groom’s family trying to avoid paying for rehearsal dinner bill?”

YTA for prioritizing rehearsal dinner over sister’s graduation

Is the graduation date really on a holiday?

Dad’s an AH, but do you really want them there?

Dad’s lying? Your wedding matters more than their indifference!

Understand the clash and prioritize family events with empathy ❤️

Divided loyalties? Family feud over conflicting commitments.

YTA for prioritizing your rehearsal over your stepmom’s graduation

Graduation vs Wedding Rehearsal Dinner: A Family Feud Unveiled

Wedding expenses and expectations are causing conflict. YTA.
