Family Feud Over a Decade-Old Grudge: Who’s Right and Who’s Wrong?

Family feuds can be messy, especially when they span over a decade. This tale revolves around an accident, an unpaid debt, and a grudge that has been held for 10 long years. It’s a story of a brother-in-law, a wrecked skid loader, and a family torn apart by a single incident. As their parents’ 50th anniversary approaches, the question remains: Can they put their differences aside for the sake of family? Let’s delve into the story. ️‍♀️

The Incident: A Borrowed Skid Loader

The Plot Thickens: A Skid Loader Gone Missing

The Accident: A Wrecked Skid Loader and a Furious BIL

The Aftermath: A Family Torn Apart

The Anniversary: A Family Gathering Sans BIL

The Confrontation: A Call to the Grudge Holder

The Fallout: An Anniversary Party in Jeopardy

The Dilemma: A Family at Crossroads

The Financial Struggle: A Debt Too Big to Pay

The Perspective: A Tale of Two Financial Situations

The Justification: A Reason to Not Pay Back

A Decade-Old Grudge: Is it Time to Let Go? ️

A family torn apart by an accident involving a borrowed skid loader, a decade-old grudge, and an unpaid debt. As the parents’ golden anniversary approaches, the family is at a crossroads. Can they put their differences aside for the sake of family, or will the grudge holder continue to hold onto the past? The financial disparity between the two parties adds another layer of complexity to the situation. Let’s see what the world thinks of this tangled family feud.

“YTA. Your family stole $50k+ in work equipment from your BIL. They didn’t pay him back, showed zero remorse, and he should just ‘get over it’? You and your family sound massively entitled, your BIL is smart to cut the lot of you clean off.”

YTA. Your parents should’ve made it right before their vacation.

Entitled OP’s family stole expensive equipment, broke it, and never paid back. Now they want money for a cruise?

Family feud turns into financial grudge. YTA and family.

Accountability and damages: Who’s the real a**hole?

“Ummm why was the truck the first priority and not the thing they STOLE??? YTA”

YTA steals from family, pays the price. Ouch!

YTA, dad and brother stole a skid loader, hurt financially. Let him hold a grudge if he wants to.

“YTA Why would he need to ‘get over it’ when your dad and brother haven’t paid him back? Ridiculous.”

“YTA. They stole and destroyed his stuff and refused to pay. Not even offering instalments over time. It’s easy to say get over it to the one who was wronged. You’re saying it was 10 years ago so he should be over it by now but from his perspective that’s 10 years they’ve had to make it right and not tried. You’re calling him an a** for putting money in the way of a family relationship but isn’t that exactly what your dad and brother were doing when they took his stuff knowing he said no rather than spend money to lease it from somewhere and then never even paid him back after wrecking it? And you expect him to spend more sending your parents on a cruise? You are being unreasonable and unrealistic and didn’t even have to insert your opinion in the first place, it’s only made things worse.”

“YTA…did anyone ever chip in and pay anything back to BIL? He was kind enough to let your parents avoid a terrible legal situation. Stop making excuses and start apologizing.”

Family feud over borrowed equipment turns into a financial disaster.

Fiery feud: OP’s family stole from BIL, but he needs to get over it? YTA!

BIL got screwed, no recompense, and treated like the villain?

“YTA. Your family took his skid loader without permission. “

“Money vs. Family: A Decade-Old Grudge Resurfaces “

Family feud over money: YTA should prioritize paying back.

“YTA. In ALL the intervening 10 years… has there been ANY attempt by your dad, brother (and the rest of you that are just blowing it all off) to pay anything back to him, and did they EVER say they were sorry? It sounds like no on both counts.”

BIL’s stuff was stolen and broken, YTA never made amends

Expensive equipment stolen, family feud ensues. Who’s the a**hole here?

Family feud escalates: Should they pay for his losses?

BIL rightfully upset after family stole and wrecked his equipment. YTA

“YTA. If the multiverse is real, there’s no timeline where NTA.”

“YTA, did they even apologize? They should have paid him back over time for the cost of the new skid loader. He’s not over it because your family hasn’t tried to make any reparations.”

Family feud escalates over stolen skid loader and unpaid debts.

OP’s parents’ lack of compensation speaks volumes.

Expensive skid loader, stolen property, and a cancelled cruise. Drama!

“YTA. Unsettled grudges and business don’t mix! “

YTA for not understanding the consequences of their actions

“YTA and your dad and brother. They stole something that your BIL needs for his business and then ruined it… this tells BIL that y’all have money… just not for his stuff.”

Commenter calls out OP for not rectifying past wrongs. YTA

Fiery feud: Dad and bro accused of stealing income source.

Sibling feud over stolen skid loader leads to family drama

“YTA for dismissing their loss. No wonder they’re going no contact.”

Expensive gift sparks family feud, trust issues run deep.

YTA, compensate BIL for stolen property. Your attitude prolongs conflict!

“YTA. Family should’ve paid him back for property damage. “

Expensive item stolen, wrecked, and no reimbursement for 10 years? YTA

“YTA It’s likely it isn’t about the money… The longer all of you go without remedying stealing and destroying BIL’s stuff – which, by the way, it’s a WONDER he didn’t sue you for theft and destruction of property, or that your brother and dad didn’t face any legal consequences – the more trust BIL loses in all of you.”

Blood doesn’t make you family. YTA and so are they.

“YTA. Your BIL wants $$$ for financial loss. Let him decide.”

He’s still waiting for justice after a decade.

YTA, parents, and BIL feud over cruise money repayment.

YTA, pay up! Your folks are in the wrong too.

BIL’s property destroyed, never paid back. Dad wants cruise money?

Unresolved grudge resurfaces: Who’s responsible for stolen belongings?

YTA: Stole equipment, endangered business, asked for money. No remorse.

YTA for stealing and expecting BIL to take it on the chin

Confusion over family feud and property damage leads to judgment

Family feud over stolen equipment and lack of compensation. YTA.

Family feud over money: YTA lost, vacation plans causing tension

A decade-old grudge, unpaid debt, and a lot of drama.

Commenter calls out OP’s family as a**holes. Drama unfolds.