Ever had a family feud that seemed to last forever? We’ve got a tale that might just top your list! Our story centers around a brother-in-law (let’s call him ‘Contractor Carl’), his skid loader, and a decade-long grudge that’s threatening to overshadow a golden anniversary celebration. As we delve into this family saga, you’ll find yourself questioning where the lines of forgiveness should be drawn.
The Incident that Sparked the Grudge
The Borrowed Skid Loader
The Accident
The Aftermath
The Fallout ️
The Golden Anniversary Plan
The Grudge Returns ️
The Confrontation
The Response
The Fallout: Part 2 ️
The Dilemma
The Financial Situation
The Other Side of the Coin
The Cruise Plan
The Financial Reality
A Grudge, a Golden Anniversary, and a Skid Loader: Where Do We Go From Here?
In a tale that’s as much about family bonds as it is about financial disputes, we find ourselves at the heart of a decade-long grudge. Contractor Carl, still seething from the loss of his skid loader in an accident 10 years ago, refuses to let bygones be bygones. As the family plans a golden anniversary celebration for the parents, the grudge resurfaces, threatening to overshadow the joyous occasion. Will the family find a way to reconcile, or will the shadow of the past continue to darken their present? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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“YTA. Your family stole $50k+ in work equipment from your BIL.”
YTA. Your parents should have apologized and repaid him long ago
Entitlement and betrayal: a decade-old grudge resurfaces, igniting fiery comments.
YTA and family: owe money, want forgiveness, but burned bridges
Victim-blaming and stolen money: YTA and family’s terrible behavior
“Ummm why was the truck the first priority and not the thing they STOLE??? YTA”
YTA steals from family, suffers financial loss. Recovery story inside!
YTA stole skid loader, hurt financially, no right to judge forgiveness.
“YTA Why would he need to ‘get over it’ when your dad and brother haven’t paid him back? Ridiculous.”
“YTA. They stole and destroyed his stuff and refused to pay. Not even offering instalments over time. It’s easy to say get over it to the one who was wronged. You’re saying it was 10 years ago so he should be over it by now but from his perspective that’s 10 years they’ve had to make it right and not tried. You’re calling him an a** for putting money in the way of a family relationship but isn’t that exactly what your dad and brother were doing when they took his stuff knowing he said no rather than spend money to lease it from somewhere and then never even paid him back after wrecking it? And you expect him to spend more sending your parents on a cruise? You are being unreasonable and unrealistic and didn’t even have to insert your opinion in the first place, it’s only made things worse.” – Emotional family feud
YTA, time to apologize and make amends with your BIL
Family feud over borrowed equipment leads to broken trust. YTA!
Double YTA: Time to let go or face the consequences
BIL got screwed over and now he’s the bad guy?
“YTA. Your family broke his skid loader and manipulated him. ♂️”
“Money vs. Family: A Decade-Old Grudge Holding Them Back?”
YTA BIL is right. Family feud over a decade-old grudge
YTA accuses family of stealing and breaking BIL’s stuff. No amends?
YTA. No apologies or compensation for disrespecting brother-in-law. Wow, issues.
YTA refuses to pay for family’s vacation after stolen items.
Pay for his losses or face the consequences! ⚖️
Unpaid debt, broken trust, and family drama. ♂️ YTA.
Multiverse theory proves you’re the a**hole in every timeline
YTA for not making reparations.
YTA for not paying back BIL’s skid loader. Time to make amends!
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OP’s silence speaks volumes about their parents’ lack of effort.
Expensive skid loader stolen, destroyed, and unpaid. YTA and parents should be grateful he didn’t sue.
YTA: Holding grudges can destroy family relationships and businesses. ♂️
YTA. Family feud over destroyed property and cruise entitlement.
Family feud escalates over stolen item and lavish family vacation
Commenter calls out OP for not rectifying past wrongs. YTA
Fiery feud over stolen income and broken trust. YTA vs. Dad & Bro!
YTA, your brother, dad, and sister are all AHs
Commenter accuses others of being unsympathetic and selfish. YTA
“YTA. Family should’ve paid him back. No excuses after 10 years! “
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Expensive grudge, family disrespect, time to let go?
BIL holds grudge for lost $$$, let him decide when to let go
A decade-old grudge, stolen item, unpaid debts, and a vacation
Money for celebration but not for compensation? YTA, move on!
Family feud: Blood doesn’t make you family, YTA for manipulating.
Fiery feud over unpaid debt: Who’s the real a**hole?
“YTA It’s likely it isn’t about the money… The longer all of you go without remedying stealing and destroying BIL’s stuff – the more trust BIL loses in all of you.”
Time to let go? YTA, parents, and cruise money feud
Unresolved grudge resurfaces, sparking debate on financial fairness.
YTA stole equipment, put BIL’s business in danger, no remorse
“YTA: Your dad and brother took BIL’s property, caused it to be destroyed, have never paid him back, and now you want him to give money towards your dad’s cruise. Explain to me why he should just be over it.”
YTA for expecting money after your family stole from him
YTA, time to pay up!
Confusion over family feud and property damage, YTA for meddling
A decade-old grudge over stolen equipment and no compensation. YTA.
YTA for not letting go of a decade-old grudge
A decade-old grudge and unpaid debts? YTA and good riddance!
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Letting go of a grudge? YTA, but your family too.
