Imagine living in a small flat and suddenly having to accommodate your sister, her husband, and their three kids. That’s the situation a 22-year-old man found himself in when his brother-in-law lost his job during the pandemic. As if working night shifts as a security guard wasn’t challenging enough, he had to deal with dirty dishes, toys everywhere, mysterious smells, and constant noise. But when his beloved leopard geckos went missing, he finally reached his breaking point.
Pandemic Job Loss Strikes

Cramped Living Conditions

Messy Home, Messy Life

Mysterious Stench

Kids Run Wild

Sister’s Disregard

Vomit and Noise Complaints

Frustration Builds

Absent Brother-in-law

Sleep-Deprived Security Guard

Geckos on the Loose

Breaking Point

Family Backlash

Man Reaches His Limit: Family Chaos Takes Its Toll
After months of living in chaos, a 22-year-old man finally reached his breaking point. With dirty dishes, toys everywhere, and a mysterious smell haunting his flat, he was already struggling. But when his leopard geckos went missing, he couldn’t take it anymore. He asked his sister, brother-in-law, and their three kids to leave. Now, he’s facing backlash from the rest of the family, who are demanding to know how he could kick his niece and nephews out onto the street. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA – Family of 5 in a small flat is not feasible

NTA kicks out sister’s family, receives backlash, but did the right thing

NTA for kicking out family who let loose leopard geckos

NTA! The sister and her family disrespected your home and belongings

NTA: Setting boundaries with family is important

Small flat + 3 kids = chaos. OP deserves more appreciation
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NTA kicks out terrible houseguests

Family refuses to take in hellions, NTA. Geckos safe

Only two weeks to pack up and leave? That’s rough

NTA comment section solves mystery of rancid milk smell

NTA. Family trashes house, sister needs to step up as parent

NTA. Removing entitled, destructive tenants. Adults abused hospitality.

NTA. Family should stop calling and offer to help sister’s family

Taking responsibility for your children’s actions is important.

Charge sister for damages, NTA. Don’t let others interfere.

Kicking out family? NTA, says comment with no replies
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Breaking fire codes and risking eviction? Not the a****e

NTA. Kindness abused. Relatives don’t know the whole story. Suggest alternatives.

BIL shirked responsibility, NTA for kicking out family. No bill.

Family overstays welcome, destroys house, OP learns hard lesson

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in family drama

NTA comment on responsible parenting and family behavior

NTA for kicking out family, demand answers from others
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NTA: Sister needs to control her kids, family can help.

NTA takes action to protect rental deposit from misbehaving brats

Fragile pets at risk, NTA’s turning point.

Navigating family visits can be tricky, but NTA in this case

NTA for kicking out sister and family. Valid point made.

Setting boundaries and standing up for oneself.
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NTA. Setting boundaries is important for self-care

Man defends kicking out family for valid reasons

NTA and a spicy accusation

No sympathy for sister who disrespected his home

Family drama solved with a savage NTA response

Not the a**hole, but what happened to the figurines?

Commenter defends man’s decision to kick out sister and family

NTA stands firm against family complaints with a sassy comeback

Encouraging comment applauds effort to set boundaries with family.

NTA. Sister’s out-of-control kids caused chaos, should’ve left sooner.

Respect the host’s home or find somewhere else to stay

Setting boundaries: NTA kicks out family

Putting family first doesn’t mean tolerating disrespect. NTA

Commenter questions why family let kids be on street

Savage response to entitled sister, but is it justified?

NTA: 22-yr-old shouldn’t support freeloaders. Family can take them in

Parent sympathizes with OP, calls out sister’s poor parenting skills.

NTA offers advice and condemns family’s behavior in heated debate

Man stands up to family pressure, declares ‘NTA’

Family drama unfolds as man kicks out destructive relatives

Polite noise level and distraction could have prevented chaos. NTA

NTA! Family should set boundaries for their kids
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Sister takes advantage of OP’s generosity, NTA for kicking out

Compassionate comment calls out hypocritical family members

NTA for not taking in family. Set boundaries

Put the responsibility on others. NTA
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Animal endangerment = NTA. No sympathy for the sister.
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Living with kids can get messy, but boundaries and respect matter

Taking back control from toxic family.

Commenter supports OP’s decision to kick out sister and family.

OP is NTA and family is all talk, no action

Sleep is sacred, NTA prioritizes self-care

Setting boundaries and keeping a clean home.

NTA prioritizes cleanliness over damaged items, pets, and noise.

Family drama solved with a simple NTA solution

Commenter defends OP’s decision to kick out irresponsible sister and kids.
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Sister and nephew lived rent-free but refused to keep house ♀️

Family drama? Stay out of it! NTA comment approves.

Commenter agrees with OP until geckos are let loose

Commenter defends man’s decision to kick out disrespectful sister’s family.

NTA: Relatives demand help but don’t lift a finger
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NTA kicks out sister’s family, bills for damages. Savage but justified.

Occupancy laws check and sarcastic challenge to relatives.

Last Updated on June 14, 2023 by Diply Social Team