Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Imagine this: your cheating ex-husband’s new girlfriend loses both her young son AND delivers a stillborn, all while you’re trying to enjoy your empty nest freedom. Talk about a recipe for drama! Our leading lady is caught between a rock and a hard place – should she put aside her feelings and attend the double funeral, or stick to her guns and enjoy her well-deserved holiday? Let’s dive in and see how this emotional rollercoaster unfolds!
Ex-Husband’s Tragic Loss

More Heartbreak Strikes

Feeling Bad, But Keeping Distance

️ News Through the Grapevine

Planned Trip to Escape Empty Nest

Highly Inappropriate Invite ❌

In Her Shoes, I’d Be Furious

♀️ The Last Person She’d Want to See

No Friendship, No Support ♀️

Respecting His Girlfriend’s Grief

Kids Skipped the Funeral Too ♂️

Encouraging Kids to Attend

Holiday Photos Stir Up Drama

Understanding His Grief, But…

Ex-Husband’s Double Tragedy Sparks Major Drama!
Well, well, well… it seems our leading lady’s attempt to escape the drama has only stirred up more trouble! Her ex-husband is livid that she and their kids skipped out on the double funeral, accusing her of being heartless and turning the kids against him. But let’s be real, who would want their cheating ex’s new girlfriend to see them at such a vulnerable time? It’s a lose-lose situation if you ask me. So, what does the internet think about this juicy tale of love, loss, and family feuds? Let’s see what kind of spicy takes people have on this emotional minefield!
No relationship, no obligation. NTA for skipping funeral. ♀️

Divorce doesn’t erase boundaries. NTA, let the kids decide.
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Age difference raises eyebrows in ex-husband’s tragedy.

NTA for not attending the funeral of ex-husband’s mistress. ♀️

Betrayed ex-husband lashes out, commenters support wife’s choice. ✌️

Ex-husband cheated, skipped funeral, and expected sympathy – commenter NTA

Empathetic commenter defends woman’s decision to skip ex-husband’s funeral

Block him! He’s looking you up on FB during tragedy?!

Prioritizing self-care isn’t selfish. NTA for setting boundaries.

No obligation to ex’s stepson, children can make own choice. NTA

No obligation to attend ex-husband’s funeral. Kids are adults now.

Ex-wife rightfully chooses vacation over ex-husband’s funeral. NTA
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Betrayed ex-husband demands compassion? Ain’t gonna happen ♀️

Skipping funeral for vacation – NTA explains why it’s appropriate

Ex’s double tragedy doesn’t give him right to control her vacation. NTA

Ex-husband’s inappropriate funeral invitation receives NTA judgement.

Setting boundaries is important, but so is respecting them

No invitation, no obligation. Unfortunate kids chose not to attend.

Don’t let the ex drain you emotionally, NTA

Taking a vacation after ex-husband’s funeral: NTA according to commenters

Ex-wife not obligated to manage ex-husband’s relationships with kids

NTA, commenter advises on handling ex-husband’s emotional expectations.

Choosing vacation over funeral: NTA, children can decide for themselves.

Ex-husband’s regretful behavior after affair, tough day for him. #NTA
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Ex-husband’s grief is not your responsibility. NTA

Ex-husband’s double tragedy, but NTA for missing funeral. ♀️

Ex-husband seeks support without considering how OP feels. NTA.

Skipping ex-husband’s tragic funeral: NTA. No reason to be there.

Skipping funeral for vacation? NTA according to comment.

Choosing a new partner over family can have consequences.

Moving on after a breakup? NTA, live your best life

Protect your privacy online to keep ex-husband away

Ex-husband wants sympathy from the woman who ruined his marriage? NTA.

NTA, girl! You don’t owe him anything Karma is coming
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NTA for skipping ex-husband’s funeral. Considerate and genuine person
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Choosing vacation over ex-husband’s funeral: NTA or ESH?

Ex-husband should take responsibility for his actions. NTA.

Obvious NTA situation prompts concern for poster’s judgement.

Ex-husband sets boundaries and refuses to be a punching bag.

NTA and children dislike ex’s young girlfriend. Narcissistic ex.

NTA. Adult children should build relationships with their father themselves.

NTA stands up to entitled ex-husband with admirable restraint

Children are grown, not your responsibility to control their relationships. #NTA

Compassionate response to ex-husband’s tragedy, avoids being sucked in. #NTA

Ex-spouse not responsible for managing adult children’s relationship with father.
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Setting boundaries after ex-husband’s loss. NTA

Ex-spouse tries to guilt-trip NTA into skipping vacation ️

Cheating ex-husband gets called out for wanting sympathy after ruining family

Cheating ex-husband gets cut out by kids. NTA agrees.

Ex-husband cheated and left for woman same age as kids. NTA.

Supportive comment – You’re doing the right thing

When it’s over, it’s over. No obligations to exes
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Supportive comment highlights karma after ex-husband’s double tragedy

Ex-husband’s funeral drama: NTA, laugh at the ridiculousness

Assertive comment defends OP’s actions, shuts down potential backlash.

Ex-husband’s delusion leads to NTA’s freedom and happiness

Encouragement to move on and live life to the fullest ✨
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NTA. Commenter supports ex-wife’s decision to skip ex-husband’s funeral.

Move on, send condolences, close that chapter. NTA.

Ex-husband is TA for guilt tripping, she’s NTA for refusing.

Ex-husband’s behavior is terrible. You’re NTA, enjoy your vacation

NTA defends skipping ex-husband’s funeral; kids chose not to attend.

No need to attend funeral of ex-husband’s double tragedy. NTA

Supporting ex-husband at funeral: personal choice or obligation?

No apologies needed. NTA and ex-wife owes him nothing

No sympathy for cheating exes

Standing up for yourself and having self-respect

Skipping funeral for vacation – NTA explains why.

Divorced ex won’t attend funeral. Kids must be honest. NTA.

Unapologetic commenter refuses to sympathize with ex-husband’s tragedy.

Not obligated to attend ex-husband’s funeral, he’s the a**hole.

Last Updated on May 16, 2024 by Diply Social Team