Imagine having a messy divorce with your ex-husband, who wanted someone younger and left you with half of his debts. Years later, he’s diagnosed with cancer and your adult children want him to move back in during his final days. This is the story of one woman who had to make a tough decision about her ex-husband’s request. Let’s dive into the drama and see what happened.
The Painful Divorce
The Messy Aftermath
The Cancer Diagnosis
The Unexpected Request ♀️
The Heartbreaking Dilemma
The Emotional Debate
The Tough Questions
The Children’s Response
The Final Decision
The Pressure Continues
The Ex’s Plea
The Heartbreaking Decision
In a whirlwind of emotions, this woman had to make a difficult choice when her ex-husband, who left her for someone younger, asked to move back in during his final days battling cancer. Despite her adult children’s pleas, she stood her ground and said no, feeling offended by the request. Her children called her heartless and petty, but she couldn’t shake her feelings of resentment from their messy divorce. With the clock ticking, will she change her mind? Let’s see what people have to say about this heart-wrenching situation. ️
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Adult children should move in with Dad. NTA
User calls out ex-husband’s hypocrisy in a cancer situation. NTA
Heartwarming response to ex-husband’s final days request ❤
Adult children should take care of dad, not ex-wife.
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days, commenter says NTA.
Adult children should find alternative arrangements for ex-husband. NTA.
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Stand your ground! ♀️ You’re not responsible for him anymore.
Stand your ground! Don’t let guilt manipulate you.
NTA. Kids wrong to force you to care for ex-husband. Be strong
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days. Commenter says NTA and advises reminding kids that father excluded her as an option.
Children should not burden their mother with their father’s care.
Kids being selfish, NTA. They can move in with dad.
Prioritizing your well-being is not selfish. NTA
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days? NTA, stand firm.
Adult children should step up, not ex-husband. #NTA
Mother not at fault, children should see how ridiculous they’re being
Compassionate suggestion to help ex-husband without sacrificing boundaries.
Ageism and lack of empathy in comment section.
Set boundaries and prioritize your well-being. Don’t be a doormat.
Empathetic support for standing up to toxic ex-husband.
Ex-husband left her, now wants to move in? NTA, let’s go kids!
Divorced father’s terminal illness shouldn’t burden ex-wife. NTA
Compassionate suggestion for ex-husband’s final days living arrangements
Ex-husband wants to move in, but NTA. Children should help.
Adult children should take care of ex-husband, not burden you
Protecting your family from toxic ex-husbands
Adult children’s audacity called out. NTA stands firm.
Social worker can help navigate end-of-life diagnosis.
Children want ex-husband to move in, commenter says NTA.
Children should take responsibility for their father’s care and expenses
User suggests kids should live independently. NTA.
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days. Commenter advises against it.
Grown children ask ex-husband to move in? NTA says no way!
NTA OP, don’t let your kids guilt you into enabling their father.
Forgiving ex-husband during final days? NTA, don’t do it.
Suggests alternative solutions to entitled family’s request.
Parenting strategies questioned after ex-husband request for move-in denied
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days, but NTA suggests hospice care instead.
Compassionate response suggests considering alternative care facilities for ex-husband. ❤️
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days. NTA takes a stand.
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days. Commenter says NTA.
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days. NTA explains why.
Empowering response to caregiving expectations.
Divorcee’s response shocks ex-husband who wants to move in
Adult children should take care of their ailing father. NTA
Divorce means his well-being is not your concern. NTA
Three adult kids should rent a place together. NTA
User sympathizes with OP and criticizes ex-husband and kids.
Petty but honest commenter refuses ex-husband’s request to move in. NTA.
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Adult children should pay for dad’s living, not ex-wife.
Ex-husband’s request for final days living arrangement is outrageous
Stand your ground! Your children can take care of him elsewhere
NTA. Adult children harassing mother to take in ex-husband. Stay firm
Heartless comment receives no support from anyone.
NTA. Kids want you to be unpaid carer for ex-husband
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User suggests kicking everyone out, jokes about frustration. NTA.
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Children want ex-husband to move in, but commenters say NTA.
Kids want abusive ex-husband to move in during final days. NTA.
Three’s a crowd! NTA suggests ex-husband find his own place.
Three adults can handle this. NTA comment wins
NTA suggests finding a hospice and programs to help him.
Kids should take responsibility, not force ex-husband on ex-wife.
Heartless comment receives no support from others.
Firmly saying no to the audacious ex-husband. NTA
NTA. Stand your ground and don’t let his family guilt trip you.
Divorced husband wants to move in during final days. NTA.
Children’s request to move in with ex-husband was selfish. NTA.
NTA stands firm against ex-husband’s request to move in.
Compassionate response to ex-husband’s request for final stay. NTA.
Taking care of ex-husband? A**hole kids. NTA.
Ex-husband wants to move in during final days. NTA, kids should support him without your financial contribution.
NTA. Hilarious and blunt response to entitled adult children.
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