Imagine receiving a text from a close friend of 9 years, saying they no longer want to be your friend or attend your wedding. Now, picture that same friend writing an essay about everything wrong with you. Would you read it? This bride-to-be faced that exact situation and decided not to give the essay a chance. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story!
Friendship Fades and Wedding Woes

Comforting the Friend in Need

One-Sided Support

The Bachelorette Party Incident

The Friendship Breakup Text

Time to Let It Sink In ⏳

The Essay Reveal ♀️

Friendly Emojis and an Unwanted Essay

Accusations of Selfishness

Reflecting on the Situation

Edit: Gratitude and Closure

To Read or Not to Read: The Essay Dilemma ♀️
Our bride-to-be found herself in a whirlwind of emotions when her friend of 9 years suddenly ended their friendship and refused to attend her wedding. To make matters worse, the ex-friend penned an essay detailing all her issues with the bride-to-be. Instead of reading the essay, our protagonist chose to block her ex-friend on all platforms. Was she right to ignore the essay, or should she have given it a chance? Let’s dive into the top reactions to this dramatic tale!
Friend tries to bring down bride-to-be, but she’s not having it

NTA: Drama-seeking friend writes essay, but you can just ghost.

Curiosity killed the cat, but not the NTA commenter

NTA – A hurtful essay from a former friend can leave lasting scars

Avoided toxic letter, focused on personal growth.

NTA: Ex-friend’s essay is a**hole move. Age doesn’t equal maturity

NTA. Who wants to read bad stuff about themselves?
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NTA… Friends reference: “18 pages.. front and back!”

NTA. Toxic friend used you as an emotional punching bag

NTA. Ex-friend’s one-sided essay on faults. Block and move on

NTA, bad friend. Sorry for your loss. Hope parents recover

NTA. Avoid this toxic essay for your own sanity.

Op’s ex-friend wrote a hurtful essay about her engagement! NTA!

NTA; her essay is just her issues, not unbiased advice.

NTA, but the essay could have been a fun read

Ex-friend writes a horrible letter to friend in high school. NTA.

NTA. Avoid the letter, narcissists can be cruel

Uninvited negativity should be just that. Uninvited.
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