Breakups can be tough, but what happens when you’re still living together and one person wants the other to leave? A woman shares her story of how her ex-boyfriend tried to kick her out of the apartment they shared, even though she’s the primary leaseholder. With both of their families not being an option, and the high cost of living in their city, the situation gets heated. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale of a post-breakup living arrangement gone wrong.
The Breakup and Living Situation
The Expensive City
Looking for a New Place
His Lack of Effort
The Family Situation
His Frustration
Standing Her Ground
His Accusations
Her Response
The Leaseholder Revelation
Her Bold Statement
His Reaction
Her Confusion
A Battle for the Apartment
In a heated post-breakup living situation, this woman finds herself being pressured by her ex-boyfriend to leave the apartment they share. He accuses her of being unfair for not moving in with her estranged parents, while he has no family in the city. But when she reminds him that she’s the primary leaseholder, he calls her cruel and coldhearted. With both of them unwilling to budge, the battle for the apartment rages on. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic dilemma…
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Stand your ground! You’re the leaseholder and NTA.
Commenters debate ex-boyfriend’s financial situation and intentions
OP’s ex-boyfriend is lazy and wants to take advantage of her.
You’re in charge! He wasted his time.
Take control of your space! You’re NTA for enforcing boundaries.
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NTA and practical advice for ending the lease without hassle.
Ex-boyfriend wants her out, but she’s the leaseholder! NTA
NTA. Ex-boyfriend being hypocritical, stick it out or kick him out.
Ex-boyfriend wants free rent, but NTA for not letting him.
Don’t let emotional manipulation win! You’re in control
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A humorous take on the irony of AITA comments
Good advice on legalities and safety during a breakup.
Being primary leaseholder means nothing if he’s also on lease.
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NTA but why cater to his demands? Set a boundary
Leaseholder stands up to ex-boyfriend’s eviction attempt. NTA.
Confusion over leaseholder status leads to living situation drama.
NTA and ready to kick some a** (figuratively speaking)
Being the primary leaseholder doesn’t guarantee eviction rights.
Ex-boyfriend feels entitled to her apartment, NTA stands her ground
Sneaky solution! NTA suggests signing new lease to avoid conflict.
NTA! Ex-boyfriend needs to find his own place
Commenter questions why leaseholder would leave instead of ex-boyfriend.
Reminding him of her ownership isn’t cruel, NTA wins!
Curious about the backstory? Ask for more information!
Ex-boyfriend being petty, NTA. Take your time finding new place
NTA, but time to find a new place together!
NTA holds power, ex-boyfriend can leave anytime.
OP is NTA for wanting her ex to leave. Good luck!
You go girl! Stand your ground and keep your home.
Standing up for your rights as a leaseholder!
NTA, he should google apartments to rent in {City}
NTA! Make sure to protect yourself and your lease with evidence
Ex-boyfriend wants her out, but she’s the leaseholder. NTA
Take control of your space and your life!
You’re the boss! NTA for protecting your lease and assets.
Be the bigger person, find a new place
Agree! Sometimes it’s best to just walk away.
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You go girl! Keep your house and your power.
Take control! NTA. Contact landlord to evict ex-boyfriend.
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Stand your ground and remind him you’re the leaseholder!
Not the a**hole! Ex-boyfriend is entitled.
You hold the power! NTA for letting him stay.
Is it fair for him to keep the place?
NTA and suspicious of ex’s motives for kicking her out.
Take precautions, protect yourself and document everything!
Make sure to transfer the lease if you leave!
Ex dodged a bullet with this NTA leaseholder.
Standing up for yourself and your rights as a leaseholder
Legal formalities matter in divorce logistics. NTA
Take charge! Kick him out and save money
NTA! You go girl!
NTA! You go, leaseholder!
Curious commenter seeks more details on breakup for context
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Ex-boyfriend tries to kick her out, but she’s the leaseholder! NTA, make him move out!
NTA! You go, leaseholder!
Leaseholder stands up to ex-boyfriend, not the a**hole!
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Ex-boyfriend gets the boot! NTA wins!
NTA! You go girl!
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You’re in control! NTA and primary leaseholder status prevails.
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Take charge! Renew the lease in your name and evict him. #NTA
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Confusion over living arrangements and leaseholder rights sparks debate.
NTA! Stand your ground as the leaseholder
Commenter supports leaseholder’s right to stay, questions ex’s entitlement
Don’t let him steal your apartment! You’re NTA
NTA! You go girl!
Not the a**hole, he’s just trying to manipulate her.
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You have the power! Don’t let him kick you out!
Taking control of the lease!
NTA, find another apt and leave!
Take charge! You’re the leaseholder, kick him out!
NTA! Reasonable and in the right according to commenters.
Take control! Renew the lease and show him who’s boss!
Take control of your space! Let the landlord know.
Who’s the real King of Hell here? Not the leaseholder!
Breakup stress, but NTA. Encourage him to find new place.
NTA! Short and sweet, but straight to the point.
Take control of your living situation! #NTA
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Secure the bag! What happens to the deposit?
Not the a**hole, but why did he try to kick her out?
Breaking up and breaking leases: NTA takes control
Stand your ground! ♀️ You’re the leaseholder and have rights.
Ex-boyfriend wants her out, but comment suggests he should leave
