Remember that old boss who made your life a living nightmare? Now, imagine they want you to officiate their wedding! Meet our brave protagonist, a successful entrepreneur and ordained minister, who found himself in this very predicament. In the midst of a global pandemic, his ex-bosszilla turned bridezilla is desperate for him to bless her impending nuptials. But with a history of conflict and a gut feeling that this marriage might be doomed, he’s not so sure. Let’s dive into this juicy saga of vows, vendettas, and vexing voicemails!
Meet the Minister with a Mission
A Bridezilla from the Past
The Call of Duty (or Desperation)
A Walk Down Memory Lane… Or Hell?
The Aftermath: Apologies and Alternatives ♂️
The Clash of Convictions: Real vs. Fake Ordination
The Minister’s Marriage Mantra
The Final Update: A Happy(ish) Ending? ♂️
From Bosszilla to Bridezilla: A Wedding Planner’s Wild Ride!
In a twist of fate that could rival any Hollywood rom-com, our protagonist found himself in a pickle when his ex-bosszilla turned bridezilla requested him to officiate her wedding. With a history of conflict, a gut feeling about the doomed marriage, and a firm belief in the sanctity of his role as an ordained minister, he chose to say ‘I don’t’ to her ‘I do’. Despite the ensuing drama and a barrage of abusive emails, he stood his ground, offering alternatives and maintaining his dignity. In the end, another officiant stepped in, saving the day and our protagonist from a potentially explosive encounter. Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this rollercoaster of a tale…
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NTA, don’t let her bully you into officiating her wedding!
♂️ NTA. No obligation to conduct wedding, reinforce disrespectful behavior.
Title gave rom-com vibes, but ex-bosszilla is a real nightmare!
NTA: Stand up to the ex-bosszilla and reclaim your power!
NTA. Cancel her event and return her $$!
Engaging in a heated debate over wedding legitimacy and arrogance.
“YTA for gatekeeping who is an ‘actual’ minister.”
Marriage as ‘mutual obedience’ is weird as hell
“ESH who are you to judge a marriage? Half of them end up in divorce anyway. How do you know which ones will or won’t work out? Boss sucks because of her behavior.”
Officiant’s judgmental attitude sparks debate on their role in weddings
NTA. Even if you didn’t work for her, her behavior is uncalled for. You’re the bigger person and tried to help, but she won’t respect you. Less stress for you, but I fear for the person who has to handle this bridezilla.
NTA for hanging up. NTA for defending yourself. NTA for refusing to marry her, as is your right.
This part is a**hole-ish, even if justified. ♂️ They’re getting married for a reason and just because you guys don’t match doesn’t mean they don’t.
On one hand, yes, but you can tell a lot about a person by how they treat those that are “beneath them”. It’s like when you’re on a date with someone, and they treat the waiter like crap, you know they’re not a good person. I’ve known several toxic people who had their relationships fall apart when their SOs realize just how toxic they are.
Civilian ordination is legal, but let’s keep religion out. ESH.
Engaging comment section: ESH – Bosszilla’s wedding drama and judgmental attitudes!
Refusing to work with ex-bosszilla? NTA!
Esh, she’s nasty and you knew it, but still took it.
NTA for not marrying her. Rude & condescending about officiants!
“YTA. Acting like God? No wonder people are ditching religion.”
Gatekeeping weddings? YTA for ruining someone’s dream.
NTA, she’s insufferable and you’re right- there’s no way someone’s going to stay with her forever. But, why is it that people are so CREEPY about marriage? “Mutual obsedience” is an oxymoron, as well as CREEPY.
Gatekeeping marriage? YTA, but pride is a sin too!
NTA: Polite bride/customer receives more than she deserves!
Predicting successful marriages? YTA sets a high bar!
Nasty bridezilla meets judgmental guest: A Seinfeld showdown!
“NTA for hanging up, but WTF with the obedience thing?”
OP’s judgmental comment sparks debate on love and relationships.
Two AHs clash over online ministers. ESH in this wedding drama!
You handled it perfectly! NTA. Hopefully she finds someone in time
Engaging comment about marriage and belief in a god.
ESH: Ex-bosszilla’s judgmental behavior and sanctimoniousness is disgraceful.
Bosszilla’s wedding venue drama: NTA’s digital camera saves the day!
Did they really find a backbone or just run away?
Commenter sympathizes with the bride’s ex-bosszilla meltdown
Savage suggestion to expose ex-bosszilla’s bad behavior!
Ex-bosszilla’s wedding day meltdown: NTA, she’s still a nightmare!
NTA. Bridezilla wants to control and torment, you made the right call!
NTA: Setting boundaries and protecting your happiness, contract clauses matter!
Hilarious comment about ex-bosszilla’s wedding day meltdown!
NTA: Don’t expect a different attitude from a dumbass.
Wedding drama: NTA calls out smelly *obedience*.
ESH. A clash of values and beliefs, with some online drama.
INFO: YTA for hanging up on a client. ♂️
NTA, don’t mix friends and business, especially with ‘enemies’!
ESH, but don’t be an arrogant, self-righteous a**hole about it
Seeking divine intervention for a bosszilla’s wedding day meltdown!
Defending NTA’s views on marriage and officiating, amidst criticism.
Canceling the wedding? NTA!
“Absolutely NTA. The devil in me would say: Yes of course I can marry you, but do you really want me to expose your terrible character/behaviour to all your guests and fiance? I suppose that would be bad for business, but I would pay to hear that speech and see the look on her face.”
NTA- Protect yourself and cut ties with toxic ex-bosszilla.
Empathy for the groom, relief for the employee. NTA, bosszilla!
NTA. Not at all.
Supportive comment, sympathizing with the situation.
You’re a true hero!
Standing up to a bully: NTA and empowering!
Find someone else! You’re not the a**hole!
NTA. Ex-Bosszilla’s abusive behavior raises red flags for her fiance.
Refusing to marry a former bosszilla: NTA, pity her partner.
“NTA. Train adults like children. “
OP stands up to Ex-Bosszilla and wins!
Protect yourself from toxic people. Don’t tolerate abuse.
Respecting boundaries: NTA stands up for personal limits.
NTA. Lessons learned! Cut out abusive people.
NTA – A wedding day meltdown with no a**holes involved!
LOL! The title got them rolling with laughter!
Commenter empathizes with the OP’s haunted expression after reading.
Engagingly shuts down bosszilla with a sassy ‘no’ strategy!
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