Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of teenage drama, accusations of ableism, and a mom caught in the middle! When my son’s former friend’s mom called me up with some serious allegations, I knew I had to get to the bottom of it. ️♀️ But as I dug deeper, I realized this was more than just a simple case of right and wrong. It’s a tangled web of intense study groups, controversial new members, and petty revenge plots! ️ So grab your popcorn and let’s dive into this messy situation together!
Mom vs. Mom: The Ableism Accusation!

The Intense Study Group: No Slackers Allowed?

Enter A’s Cousin: The Controversial Addition!

♂️ S’s Veto: Fair or Foul Play?

A’s Anger: The Expulsion Vote! ️

Apologies and Defections: The Tides Turn!

♀️ Mom’s Stance: Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys!

A’s Mom Fires Back: Ableism Accusations Fly!

Mom’s Reflections: Should S Have Helped C?

The Verdict: Is Mom an A****e for Not Stepping In?
Well, well, well… what a wild ride this has been! From accusations of ableism to intense study group drama, this story has it all! But at the end of the day, is Mom really an a****e for not getting involved in her son’s teenage squabbles? Some might say she should’ve stepped in and taught her son a lesson about inclusivity, while others might argue that this is just a part of growing up and learning to navigate complex social situations. ♀️ One thing’s for sure, though: this tale is bound to spark some heated debates! So, let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy dilemma…
Voluntelling study group to help cousin makes A TA.

Defending a dyslexic teen’s exclusion from a study group. NTA.

Dyslexic teen’s exclusion from study group sparks debate on accommodations

Excluding dyslexic teen from study group: NTA or ableist?

Setting rules for the group isn’t ableist. NTA

Family drama ensues as NTA predicts A’s mom’s involvement

Debate on the definition of ableism in private groups.

Defending dyslexic teen against ableist cousin’s ban

Teen not obligated to be unpaid tutor, NTA

Defending inclusion with a thought-provoking analogy

NAH. A wanted to help, but group contribution is important

Questioning whether C’s exclusion was due to ableism or contribution.

New member not excluded for ASD/dyslexia, but for lack of effort

NTA! Commenter explains how A’s actions caused group division

Mature approach to teenagers resolving conflicts on their own.

NTA. Cousin needs a tutor, not a free study group

Family feud erupts over dyslexic teen’s exclusion from study group. NTA

Cousin banned dyslexic teen from study group, needs tutor. NTA.

NTA. Your son didn’t break up the group, A did.

Group rules exist for a reason. NTA for enforcing them.

Teaching others is the best way to learn. NTA

NTA defends study group exclusion of dyslexic teen.

Joining a study group is not the same as getting a tutor ️. NTA.

Fair or unfair? Commenter defends exclusion of dyslexic teen.

NTA. Forming a study group is amazing. Accusations of ableism ridiculous

Educator defends dyslexic teen, calls out ableism and enabling behavior

Refusal to share notes with disruptive student sparks university drama

Setting boundaries is important. Consent is necessary for tutoring.

Dyslexic teenager excluded from study group, family defends him

Supportive comment from fellow ASD parent defends study group exclusion.

NTA comment praises democracy and suggests a Snickers reward
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NTA. The study group has the right to exclude members.
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Navigating friendships is important, but veto rules aren’t inclusive. NTA

Autistic commenter asserts NTA, advises on education and ableism.

Teen with ASD unfairly banned from study group by ableist cousin

Professional tutor recommended for dyslexic cousin, not study group participation.

Group assignments are not the same as a self-organized study group.

Not the a**hole for questioning A’s mom’s double standards

Printing duplicate copies for C is a fair solution ️

Logical defense of not helping dyslexic cousin. NTA

NTA defends S and blames A for group’s breakup.

NTA letting them do their own thing. Ableist assumptions need addressing.

Study group needs contributions from all, NTA for excluding cousin

Encouraging empathy towards neurodivergent peers in study groups

NTA. Study group ≠ tutoring. C’s needs shouldn’t detract from group.

NTA for calling out cousin’s ableism but also emphasizing A’s responsibility

NTA. Success is not limited by dyslexia.

Study group ≠ charity. NTA for wanting contribution.

Defending dyslexic teenager from ableism accusation in study group.

Democracy at its finest in a study group conflict

Parental involvement in teen drama: NTA offers perspective

NTA stands up for son’s education and shares personal experience.
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NTA. Rigorous study group. Exclusion not about dyslexia, but participation.

NTA. Being in the group may not benefit a dyslexic teen with IEP and ASD. Encourage empathy instead.

Don’t shield kids from reality. NTA for letting son learn.

Support for son’s leadership qualities amidst family conflict.

NTA for not getting involved in the study group drama

NTA praised for handling ableism, but parent dismissed their struggle

Let them handle it! NTA parent advice

Teaching children the importance of virtue and helping others. ❤

Advocating for inclusive learning methods and calling out ableism. ✊

Not discriminatory to exclude someone who can’t contribute.

Impressed teacher praises students’ dedication

Son refused to tutor cousin for free, NTA

Individual help may be better for C, NTA for son.

Intense study group drama: A’s mom might be the real culprit

Balancing inclusion and rules in a serious study group

NTA. Getting good grades is HARD WORK.

Sports analogy highlights NTA decision, group learns consequences

Teen’s study group issue should be handled by friends only.

Support for NTA and call out for equal treatment.

NTA defends cousin with dyslexia against ableist A’s assumptions

Exclusion based on inability to contribute is fair, not ableist

Setting boundaries early – NTA for not carrying cousin’s weight.

NTA. Commenter supports Papa’s decision with positive wishes for all.

NTA. Commenter defends dyslexic teen against ableist cousin’s actions.

NTA. Work group, not charity. What does the group owe him?

NTA comment calls out ‘ableism’ term, suggests cutting ties

Family feud erupts over dyslexic teen’s study group invitation

Former special ed. teacher calls out AH cousin and his mother

NTA defends study group rules and individual responsibility, prioritizing academic success

Cousin’s ableism and study group drama sparks conflict. NTA suggests solutions.

Last Updated on April 20, 2024 by Diply Social Team