Imagine this: you’ve been dreaming of a life-changing move to Buenos Aires since you were a little girl. You’ve worked hard, learned Spanish, and established a successful remote career. You’re finally ready to make the big move, only to have your excitement marred by a coworker’s accusations. Accusations of having a ‘white savior complex’, no less. This is exactly what happened to our protagonist, a self-published romance writer, when she shared her plans with her coworkers. Let’s dive into her story, shall we?
The Dream of Buenos Aires

The Big Announcement

Alice Enters the Scene

The Volunteering Plan

The ‘White Savior’ Accusation

The Conversation Ends

The Social Media Showdown

The Work Email Escalation

The HR Dilemma

To Report or Not to Report: The Workplace Showdown Summary
So, here we are. A dream of moving to Buenos Aires, a plan to volunteer at an animal shelter, and a coworker who won’t let go of a misunderstood accusation. Alice, our antagonist, has taken her ‘white savior’ allegations from the lunchroom to social media, and even to work emails. Our protagonist, the soon-to-be Argentinian resident, is left wondering whether to report Alice to HR or to let it slide, considering she’s leaving her job soon. And Alice? She’s a young, single mom. What a tangled web of dreams, accusations, and workplace drama! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation… ️
YWNBTA, report her for crossing boundaries and spreading false accusations

NTA. Report her to HR to protect others

NTA. She’s a nutjob harassing you.

NTA, confront her and gather evidence before reporting to HR.

White savior comment sparks heated discussion about race and charity

Jealous coworker? Report her! Live your best life!

OP’s coworker is ignorant about Argentina’s demographics. NTA!

Ignorance exposed: Argentina’s diversity and a shocking workplace revelation

NTA saves the day from a single mother’s workplace harassment

Argentina: Predominantly white? A palette of colors and cultures!

NTA. Report her to HR. Congrats on following your dream!

Report her! Protect others from her toxic behavior.

NTA! Your coworker needs a reality check
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Expose her virtue signaling and reclaim your dream!

Commenter defends themselves against jealousy accusation with humor

NTA. Screenshots needed to prove outrageous workplace conflict.

Ignorance, hostility, and a favor to future employees. NTA!

NTA: Report her. She’s clueless about Argentina’s diversity and culture

Report her to HR or talk to your manager for help

NTA. HR should step in and shut down her harassment.
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NTA. Report her to HR for harassment. Congrats on your move!

White Brazilian defends against stereotypes, supports coworker, and pursues dreams
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Report her! No room for racism in the workplace

Coworker’s assumption about South American country being ‘third world’

NTA: Stand up for yourself and expose her racism!

Argentina: 98% white? LOL! NTA for calling it out!

NTA: Explaining South America’s diverse population and debunking stereotypes

Alice’s toxic behavior and OP’s escape to Argentina

Report her to prevent her jealousy from harming others

Author faces workplace harassment, HR needs to intervene

Report her! Her behavior is atrocious and harassing

Report harassment at work to stop it. NTA

Commenter accuses woman of being ‘insane’ for criticizing volunteers

NTA. Report her and hope she learns her lesson

Is Alice white? White saviorism misunderstandings causing workplace conflict

Report the harasser. Is her race relevant? NTA.

Raging jealousy and harassment: block, report, and stay strong!

Defending white women volunteers against coworker’s racist and misogynistic remarks

Argentinean calls out ignorance and white savior complex in Buenos Aires

Report the nuts! Harassment is not acceptable in the workplace

Set boundaries and go to HR if harassment continues

Report her! Puppies don’t care about color . NTA!

Concerned for her safety, report unstable coworker to prevent retaliation.
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Stand up for yourself and document everything. NTA!

Be a decent human being and volunteer in Buenos Aires!

Funny how she accuses you of being a ‘White Savior’

Unhinged behavior and workplace conflict – a toxic cycle continues.

Stand up against racism! NTA – Report it!

NTA. HR exists for this problem. Hostile work environment

NTA wants to be left alone amidst workplace conflict

YWNBTA. Shut down the ‘white savior’ and embrace your adventure!

NTA: Standing up against workplace harassment and cultural misunderstanding

Report her and send her pictures of shelter dogs! NTA
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Report workplace harassment based on race. Stand up against discrimination!

NTA – Co-worker bullying you? HR can help.

Bigotry and ignorance in the workplace

Report her! Her racist vision is unacceptable.

NTA. Document everything and expose her escalating behavior. Report her!

Report her! Don’t let her weaponize serious accusations!

Take action against workplace abuse, but protect yourself too!

The ‘White Savior’ complex: Who’s really at fault here?

NTA. Report her! She’s a liability and deserves consequences.

NTA. Get your documentation in order now, not later.

NTA HR person advises on handling workplace harassment and escalation.

HR’s out of line, but you won’t be TA.

You were not the a**hole! Share your story!

NTA. Report her and protect your workplace from troublemakers!

NTA- Report her now for harassment and slander!

Concerned about leap from volunteering at animal shelter to working with children? NTA

Coworker’s bonkers behavior on socials/email is bullying. File complaint.

Report her to prevent further harm. Take action now!

NTA. Report her and protect future coworkers from harassment.

Jealous coworker causing drama? Time to get her fired!

Reporting to HR: Preventing future workplace conflicts

Report her! Don’t let her victimize anyone else. #NotTheAsshole

Confused about the connection between a white savior and animals? NTA

NTA. Coworker is dumb. Argentina is predominantly white

Last Updated on July 24, 2023 by Diply Social Team