Imagine being at the crossroads of your life, finally seeing your dream college within reach, only to realize that pursuing your dream might shatter someone else’s. This is the story of a 21-year-old woman, who we’ll call ‘Techie’, caught in a family feud that has left everyone questioning where their loyalties lie. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster, where dreams, ambitions, and family ties are put to the ultimate test.
A Dream Takes Root

The College Quest Begins

A New Dream Emerges

Financial Feasibility?

A Ray of Hope ☀️

A Generous Offer

The Family Meeting

The Unveiling

A Dream Shattered?

Accusations Fly ️

A Harsh Reality?

The Aftermath ️

The Breaking Point ⚡

The Question Remains ♀️

Caught Between Dreams and Desires: Who’s the Real Villain?
In the midst of a family feud, ‘Techie’, a 21-year-old woman, finds herself torn between her dream college and her aunt’s dream of having a baby. The money that could make her dream come true was originally intended for her aunt’s IVF treatments. Accusations fly, tempers flare, and a family is left divided. Was Techie right to stand her ground? Or should she have considered her aunt’s longing for a child? As the drama unfolds, we’ve gathered the top reactions from the internet. Let’s see what the court of public opinion has to say…
“YTA for being cruel and heartless. ♂️”

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E S H – OP made a nasty comment, but aunt and uncle were inconsiderate. OP should apologize, but going to college debt-free is a privilege.

NTA vs YTA: A heated debate on IVF and age

ESH. Infertility is tough, but money is grandma’s decision.

Engaging caption for comment and replies

Insensitive comments cause family rift over IVF funding

YTA for prioritizing partying over your aunt’s dream of having a baby
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Multiple a******s in one post – a family feud unfolds

When the tables turn, the ‘racist aunt’ suddenly appears!

Nasty comment sparks debate about fertility struggles and family dynamics

“Wow. YTA for being entitled and disrespectful to your family.”

YTA: Questionable job decision and conflicting desires. Nature’s intervention?

OP’s partying vs. family’s baby dream: YTA for cruel remarks
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Aunt’s racial slurs during judgement? Yeah, that’s some b******t

OP gets called out for prioritizing partying over education

Taking money to party? YTA! Don’t judge desperate relatives.

Grandma’s choice, your struggle, unnecessary cruelty, and a needed apology

YTA comment receives shocking and violent replies.
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YTA for how you spoke with them. Engaging but confrontational.

YTA for insensitive comment, grandma is also an AH

YTA! Cold-hearted comments spark fiery backlash.
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Entitled commenter gets called out for lack of empathy and gratitude

YTA for prioritizing college over someone’s chance at motherhood

Yikes dude. You might be the a**hole.
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Party on grandparents’ savings? Entitled much? ESH

Unnecessarily cruel judgement about parenting choices, YTA

Putting partying above couple’s only chance at having children? YTA

Entitled and spoiled? YTA for expecting others to pay.

Party over priorities? YTA for valuing fun over family’s future

“YTA. Your comment was cruel. NTA for going to college.”

ESH. OP’s cruel statement worsens the heartbreaking infertility situation.

Grandma’s savings used for education? YTA. Party responsibly!

Debt, IVF, and a cruel comment: A heartbreaking family dilemma

ESH, OP. Grandparents and aunt/uncle are wrong, but valid alternatives exist.

Fighting over grandma’s money? IVF vs dream college dilemma

YTA for criticizing their parenting but not their college choice
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“YTA and a selfish one at that.” – A fiery accusation

Entitled OP takes grandma’s money for college, lacks empathy for aunt

YTA: Money mistake leads to judgment and regret.

OP tries to save face after being called out as YTA

Family feud over IVF funding: Grandma’s tough choice ♀️

YTA: The comment that started it all

Family feud over money, grandma urged to donate to cats

“YTA. Taking money you don’t need from someone who does.”

Generous grandmothers and a family’s heart-wrenching dilemma

A family feud over money and manners
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OP judged as YTA for selfishly partying with grandmothers’ money
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A painful exchange: ESH insults aunt’s infertility struggle.

Family feud over money: grandma, aunt, and insensitive you.

YTA: The a**hole of the comment section.
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YTA: The a**hole in the comment section
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Scholarships are for everyone! ESH, fill them out
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Conveniently remembering racism to excuse being called out?

A messy situation with insensitivity and lack of consideration.

Family feud erupts over money promises, insults exchanged

YTA for taking extra money to party, be responsible!

Accused of racism, YTA faces backlash.

Family feud over money and fertility struggles. Split the cash?

YTA: The comment that started it all. Drama ensues!

Using grandma’s savings for party money? YTA+
Conveniently hiding info about Aunt?
Parents’ absence sparks concern and curiosity in decision-making process

Expensive college? You might be the a**hole.

Déjà vu? Familiar comment sparks interest in past discussion

Choosing college or family happiness? YTA needs to compromise.

YTA: Taking money and being a gross person.

YTA for prioritizing your dream college over your family’s well-being

A fiery exchange: when insults fly in the comment section

“YTA. Lack of empathy and entitlement. Get a grip, my guy.”

Choosing life over a potential fetus, NTA. Treatments didn’t work.
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Foster to adopt for a child or pursue dream college?

When the comment section turns into a hilarious ratio battle

Last Updated on September 10, 2023 by Diply Social Team