Picture this: a Thanksgiving dinner with the family, everyone’s catching up and discussing future plans. But what happens when the topic of grandchildren comes up and a mother is faced with the dilemma of choosing her ‘first grandchild’? The drama unfolds when one mom, with two sons in complicated relationships, stands her ground and sparks a heated debate. Let’s dive into this juicy story and see how it all went down.
Meet the Family Members

Kelly’s Attention-Seeking Ways

Grant and Tory’s Love Story

A Baby on the Way

Thanksgiving Dinner Drama

Baby Shower Plans

Kelly’s Bold Claim

Kelly’s Outburst ️

Storming Out ⛈️

A Thanksgiving Dinner to Remember ️
What started as a pleasant family gathering turned into a full-blown drama when the mom declared that Tory’s baby would be her first grandchild, not Kelly’s son. Kelly couldn’t handle this and accused Tory of baby trapping Grant, leading to a heated exchange and an awkward dinner. With both Kelly and Jason storming out, it’s clear that this Thanksgiving dinner will be one for the books. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this explosive situation…
NTA for clarifying the grandparent status, but YTA for delivery

NTA. This woman’s child is not your grandchild.

NTA, the mother’s behavior suggests drama and attention-seeking.

NTA, reassure the boy you care, but avoid promising too much.

CONGRATULATIONS for setting her straight!! Best part was… “get back to me after you get married or at least manage to stay together more than 6 months!” KUDO!! Her son is her son. IF she ever marries your son, I know you’ll accept him as a grandchild, but he’ll NEVER be your 1st grandchild! NTA!

NTA steals spotlight, catches glare instead. Excellent way of putting it!

NTA: Grandma-to-be asserts her entitlement to her first biological grandchild

NTA, OP! Kelly sounds exhausting

NTA for messaging, but bias against Kelly is evident.

NTA: On-again-off-again GF expects grandchild status? That’s a stretch
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Truth hurts, but maybe a gentler approach would’ve been better

NTA! You put her in her place. Marriage first!

NTA. Multiple men in and out of his life. ♂️

NTA. Said it with grace until Kelly threw a fit

Commenter questions if the statement was made in front of the child.

NTA. You barely know the kid

NTA for accepting her kid, but what about the ‘if’?

NTA for considering rocky relationship, but deliver message differently.

NTA: Son’s GF’s child isn’t your grandchild until they marry. She sounds lovely

“Why are you dismissive of Kelly but think Tory is a godsend?”

NTA. Stand your ground and don’t let her manipulate you.

Setting boundaries: Protecting a child’s emotional well-being

NTA: A unique situation with a rocky relationship.

NTA. Grandma-to-be steals spotlight, ruins special moment for daughter-in-law.

Sibling rivalry over ‘first grandchild’ title leads to wedding drama
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OP’s preference creates a weird situation. NTA according to replies.

Last Updated on February 1, 2024 by Diply Social Team