Imagine hosting a family dinner party to welcome a new member, only for it to end in chaos and name-calling. That’s exactly what happened to our 33-year-old hostess, who inherited her grandmother’s house and decided to host a vegan dinner party for her half-brother’s partner, Cody. The evening was going smoothly until Cody discovered something in her bedroom that left him fuming.
The House with a History

A Vegan Dinner Party

The Hostess with the Mostess

Smooth Sailing… At First ⛵

Dessert Disappearance

The Unwanted Discovery

The Controversial Collection

Cody’s Outrage

Mom’s Take on the Situation

Stepdad’s Parting Words

The Burning Question

Invasion of Privacy or Justified Outrage? ♀️
Our hostess thought she was doing a good deed by hosting a vegan dinner party for her half-brother’s partner, Cody. But things took a turn for the worse when Cody stumbled upon her collection of marine life artifacts in her bedroom. Accusations flew, and she was called a “creepy b**ch” by her own family. Was she in the wrong for not locking her bedroom door, or is Cody’s outrage misplaced? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Vegan guest discovers host’s unusual collection, commenter advises anger.
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Respect privacy, even during a dinner party. NTA
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Surprise house inspection during dinner party? Stepdad’s a nightmare. NTA.

Vegan guest judges host’s possession, BF is the a**hole. NTA.

Guest snoops around, commenter says NTA (not the a-hole).

Vegan guest not at fault for host’s disturbing collection
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Guests snoop, break possessions, and free dead fish. NTA.

Guest crosses boundaries, but Cody’s behavior raises questions

Snooping or not? The ethics of house tours.

Guest discovers host’s unusual collection, family’s entitlement is outrageous. NTA.

Guest crosses the line, OP is an awesome host

Respect boundaries as a dinner guest to avoid mistrust

Respectful boundaries are key, NTA comment sets the tone

Guest invades host’s privacy, gets called out and demands apology.

Guest rightfully upset after invasion of privacy. NTA.

Respect privacy, don’t snoop. Dramatic guest ruins dinner party. NTA.

Vegan guest’s room invaded, family judged host’s unusual collection

Vegan guest discovers host’s collection while family members misbehave

Defending against accusations of being the a**hole with NTA.

Guest snoops, criticizes, and attempts to break host’s possessions. NTA.

NTA. Family disrespects host’s privacy after gracious dinner party

Setting boundaries with creepy in-laws, but no horse heads please

Defending the host’s privacy with a touch of sarcasm
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NTA defends vegan guest’s privacy and suggests a hilarious solution

Guest snoops, steals, or worse. Brother should apologize and compensate.

Respect boundaries! Commenter stands up for host against invasive guest.

Suspicious comment about hidden loot sparks wild theories

Dinner party drama or fake? Commenter questions authenticity.

Vegan guest insulted host’s collection after lovely meal. Revenge suggestions ensue.

Respect people’s privacy in their own homes NTA.

Guest crosses the line, insults host and tries to steal

Vegan guest discovers host’s fossil collection, defends host against family

User questions if there’s more to the story with humor.

Guest snoops, tries to smash taxidermy, calls host creepy. NTA.

Guest defends host, calls out Cody’s invasive behavior.

Respect privacy! NTA for not wanting rude guests around

Guests invade host’s privacy, commenter defends host’s right. NTA

Confusion over crying man and dried seahorse collection

Guest defends host from entitled vegan’s snooping and screaming.

Guest snoops, damages property. Commenter says NTA, Cody is AH.

Vegan guest defends host’s meal and sand dollar collection

Friendship boundaries crossed, NTA but stand up for yourself

Snooping around at dinner parties: TV vs real life

NTA guest deals with snooping and rude behavior at dinner party

NTA. Brother’s partner drama leads to extended family break-up. ♂️

Vegan guest suspects ulterior motive, warns of potential theft

Guest defends host’s privacy and property rights. NTA!

Vegan guest calls out delusional Cody, NTA.

Guest defends host’s privacy, suggests consequences for snooping mother.

Guest’s intrusive behavior at dinner party shocks comment author

Guest raises valid concern about host’s unusual behavior

Guest snoops, complains about decor, not invited back.

Respect people’s privacy, NTA for not wanting to see collection

Experienced vegan defends host’s menu and criticizes judgmental guest

Cooking praised, family criticized, attempted robbery mentioned. NTA confirmed

Vegan guest discovers host’s creepy collection, family backs snooper. NTA.

Guest defends host against creepy half-brother’s invasion of privacy.

Guest tries to break furniture to snoop, commenter NTA

Vegan guest shamed host’s collection, but commenters defend host’s privacy ♀️

Don’t snoop around someone’s house, and don’t destroy their stuff

NTA guest defends host’s collection, calls out drama queen behavior

NTA calls out family’s snooping, sparks no replies.

Vegan guest faces bizarre collection, host blames them. NTA wins.

Creepy behavior called out by commenter, no replies.

Respectful guest etiquette: glance, don’t snoop

Vegan guest upset over common items, commenter says NTA

Vegan guest horrified by host’s collection, commenter agrees.

Respect privacy, don’t snoop! Agreed, NTA

Host’s bedroom is off-limits, NTA shuts down vegan guest’s criticism

Guest defends host’s collection and calls out snooping behavior

NTA guest calls out snooping stepfather and rude hosts
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NTA shuts down rude guests and delusional mother.

Respect personal space and boundaries, NTA.

Vegan guest insults host’s collection, goes through their things
