Moving into a new home is an exciting time, and what better way to celebrate than by inviting family over for a dinner party? Unfortunately, for one couple, their housewarming dinner turned into a nightmare when their brother-in-law’s kids wreaked havoc throughout the evening. The frustrated host finally put their foot down, but now they’re wondering if they were too harsh. Let’s dive into this dinner party disaster and see what went down.
New Home, New Beginnings

Enter the Tiny Terrors

Pillow Fights and Spilled Drinks

Broken Glasses and Screaming

Parents Just Watch

Just Kids Being Kids?

No More Visits? ❌

BIL Confused and Angry

Name-Calling Ensues

Dinner Party Dilemma: Were They Too Harsh?
After a chaotic dinner party with their brother-in-law’s unruly kids, this couple is left wondering if they were too harsh in telling the kids they won’t be invited back anytime soon. With broken glasses, a ruined Persian carpet, and a whole lot of screaming, it’s no wonder they’re questioning their actions. But were they justified in their response, or did they cross a line? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild situation…
“NTA – That is hands down the nicest way of saying ‘your kids are a handful and I don’t want them in my house’ that I’ve ever heard. I’m stealing that”

NTA: Entitled brat vs unruly kids, who’s worse?

NTA. Unruly kids at dinner party, but not all parents are like this

“Unruly kids turn peaceful home into a cute tsunami “

“NTA. Negligent parenting. Keep destruction to own home “

BIL calls OP entitled brat, forgetting he has two kids
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Charge them for the mess and a security deposit!

Parents let kids destroy host’s home, no intervention or remorse

Setting boundaries for kids: NTA, parents responsible for damage

NTA! Kids’ behavior at sibling’s place, BIL and wife failing.
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NTA: Setting boundaries with destructive guests

NTA. Destroying things for self confidence? Total bs.

NTA: Unruly kids ruining dinner party? No manners, no problem!

Demanding payment for a ruined Persian carpet? Petty or justified?

NTA parents refusing to parent their kids are lazy, immoral cowards.

Are the unruly kids a deliberate act of hostility?

Parenting fail! Unruly kids create chaos at dinner party

Setting boundaries for kids is crucial. NTA for expecting discipline.

Parent shares frustration after unruly kids destroy host’s home

NTA: Send a detailed bill for damages, set clear boundaries

NTA: Send them the cleaning bill with a cheeky note

Kids’ lack of discipline ruins dinner party and host’s home

“Control your kids!”
“No.”
“Okay, they’re not welcome.”
NTA

You called them cute, what more did he want? NTA

NTA. The real problem? The parents, not the kids.

Setting boundaries: NTA shares experience with unruly kids at party
